Some parents let their children call them uncles and aunts, but they don't let their children call them parents. Why?

That's because I'm afraid the child is not easy to raise, so I shout like this. It is difficult for a child to raise a child, so he needs to be adopted by others. Calling yourself an uncle and aunt is equivalent to adopting someone else.

It's true. I'm a witness. My parents are very superstitious about Buddhism, and because medicine was not developed in the 1950s and 1960s, my father gave birth to four women and two men, all of whom died. Later, he found a quack fortune-teller and adopted my eldest brother. That's great. My eldest brother miraculously survived and then gave birth to me. He went to tell my fortune again, but this time he hurt me. The charlatan thinks I am Foucault's rebellious son in his life. Fortunately, parents can't bear to abandon it. Later, I prayed to God and listened to the fortune teller. I can only call my biological parents, uncles and aunts. This does exist, but it is very special and personal.

A few years ago, there were many cases of evading family planning. The product of the big environment. Except adoption.

Not now, right? In the past few decades, my father called me grandpa and uncle because the fortune teller said he was too hard to call him dad …

Generally speaking, they are sicker children. In order to raise them well, parents call them uncles and aunts, or fortune-tellers say that their children love their parents on their birthdays, and call them uncles and aunts to explain that they are not biological. This is mostly the practice of the older generation, but it should be rare now.

Never heard of it.

We have a 67-year-old grandfather here who calls his grandson "Grandpa". Do you know why?

Grandpa's son and daughter-in-law have no fixed jobs. Years ago, they sent their son to grandpa's house, and the couple went to work in the south. Grandpa's wife left early and was alone for many years.

In the past, the family lived together, and the brothers lived in a big family. If they are three brothers, all the children in the next generation will be called big brother uncle, first wife aunt or uncle, and second brother uncle. In Mianyang, we call Mr. Er, the second wife is aunt or young master, the third is third, the last one is Yao or uncle, and the third wife is third. The first generation of cousins shouted like this, and the son called his father and uncle. I don't know if you understand, but this is the traditional culture of China.

This is not biological.

Uncle Wang is next door.