Do you believe in fate? Is it necessary to have it in life, and there is no need to force it in life?

I don't agree that "there must be something in life sometimes, so don't be forced if you bump into it." Statement.

Because people's destiny is in their own hands, as long as you want to become a talent, you must actively study and achieve it without creating conditions. Just look at how many people are struggling to change their destiny, such as Zhang Haidi and Taige. ...

As long as you want to get rid of poverty and prepare yourself to create conditions earlier, you can succeed. See how hard you study, and you look like a leader in all walks of life! God will not care for a person who is unprepared.

If you don't have a positive attitude, you can only accept the arrangement of "God", and you can only drift with the tide all your life.

To sum up, knowing that fate is not arranged in advance, but depends on everyone's understanding to get different destinies!

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Fate, you believe it, or you don't believe it. There is a saying that man can conquer nature. Tell you two true stories. One is that she was tortured by love, challenged fate for two years, and finally lost to fate. The other is about a couple who don't give in to fate, but their mentality determines the success or failure of fate.

1992, the two of us just turned 18, and our best friend Xiao Yuan fell in love freely and talked about a boyfriend, Xiaoxian, who is three years older than him. Both her parents are very opposed to each other's family problems, but they still can't stop the two young people from falling in love.

One night, on a full moon night, they were dating on an abandoned bridge when they suddenly heard someone knocking at the door with a stick. They got up and left when they felt something was wrong. In the moonlight, they saw two men beating Xiao Yuan's boyfriend with sticks in their hands. The little fairy subconsciously protects Xiao Yuan and asks who the other person is. The other man didn't make any noise, just jumping like a little sage. Xiaoxian practiced martial arts with a relative since childhood, and soon grabbed the other's stick and injured one. Later, the two men ran away.

It turned out that it was Xiao Yuan's father who sneaked into Xiao Yuan that night, which meant to warn Xiaoxian not to look for Xiao Yuan. He didn't mean to hit anyone, but he had an accident.

After the accident, Xiao Yuan was also placed under house arrest by her family. Only then did she know that the injured person had a serious head injury. Xiao Yuan's mother and aunt went to a large group of fortune tellers, and the fortune tellers said, "Xiao Yuan and her two love affairs will not be smooth sailing, nor will they be just. Many things are doomed to be bumpy, so we must see the red.". Even if the family objects, it won't help. They will eventually be together and cannot be separated. "

Hearing this, Xiao Yuan made her family like this for a man, thinking it would be better to break up. I don't know what terrible things will happen if she continues. She said that she didn't believe in fate, let alone fortune-tellers, so she had to resist fate and challenge it!

In this way, Xiao Yuan sent a farewell letter to Xiaoxian, but Xiaoxian was unwilling and often wrote to Xiao Yuan, but he didn't know that Xiao Yuan had been under house arrest and could not receive his letter.

Xiao Yuan cried every day during her house arrest. She often laughs and cries when she talks to herself. Once she was hallucinating, she went out alone to pee and take off her pants. When she was half undressed, she came to her senses and thought she was dreaming. It's terrible. I often talk about her small physique, recall the sweetness of her love, and feel that I am going to collapse and my heart is bleeding.

The incident of beating and injuring people suddenly spread in the village. As we all know, everyone is talking about it.

It took about two months, and under my care, Xiao Yuan recovered slowly. Since then, she has destroyed all her boyfriend's letters and photos. In order to forget such a deep love, she made up her mind to burn all the words left for Xiaoxian in her diary, and a large box of love letters ruined her love. I feel pain in my heart when I look at it.

In this way, the seemingly peaceful life passed two years in a flash. On the third year's New Year's Eve, they met in the street of a small town, only glanced at it lightly and passed by. ...

On New Year's Day, Xiao Yuan and I watched the Spring Festival party at our neighbor's house. A brother of the same age suddenly said to her, "I saw yours yesterday, and it seems to be getting more and more handsome."

Yes, it's been two years. Really changed. In a word, Xiao Yuan immediately went home and wrote him a letter, inviting him to meet at the old place the next day. I delivered the letter myself. After reading the letter, Xiaoxian replied that she had no time the next day and the third day. Later, I decided to ask him if the fourth day was okay, and he said it should be.

It turned out that Xiaoxian also had a new girlfriend, but after they met, they were still together. The road of love and married life have tasted the ups and downs of the world, which is beyond the endurance of ordinary people until now.

Xiao Yuan's fate verified the sentence "Life must do something sometimes, there is no need to force it". She challenged her fate and eventually failed, but she made a bumpy marriage. He and she are destiny takes a hand in life, and they have been happy for most of their lives.

Many times I believe in fate, so for me, I believe in it, but I never accept it.

The above answers are only personal opinions and are for reference only!

This sentence has been circulating among the people for a long time, and it comes from augmented and virtuous writing. Most ordinary people believe this sentence. Often life is not satisfactory, just blame this sentence, not find the reason from the body. There are many other factors. This will discourage people and lose confidence in life. Different from this sentence, it contains numerology. For example, business people have the right time, the right place and the right people. Refers to those who seize fleeting business opportunities with accurate eyes and seize business opportunities first, while blind people just enter the market and encounter market downturn. The result can be imagined. Geographical location refers to geographical location, and people and connections are very important. The right time, the right place and the right people, if not used well, will ultimately be blamed on fate. Obviously biased. Many people's unhappy lives are also related to their own personality. This is not a single reason, there are many factors. First of all, I believe in fate.

What is fate? Life is made by heart, and luck is made by emotion. What kind of heart, what kind of life, what kind of emotion, what kind of luck.

Of course, fate is also a subjective and objective existence, and objective existence is doomed and innate. Subjective existence is the foundation of the day after tomorrow, that is, people's subjective initiative or their own efforts.

The untimely birth is an objective existence and an innate basis.

Low emotional intelligence is the foundation of the day after tomorrow. If you always take yourself seriously, you are too selfish, ungrateful and irresponsible, then you can't have good luck.

Therefore, fate exists objectively, not all of which are subject to human will. You believe it, you don't believe it.

Man's understanding of fate can be divided into three stages.

The first stage is before the age of forty. Most people don't believe in fate. People in this period are in their prime, thinking that people can conquer nature. As long as you work hard, struggle, or run your life, everything is under your control! People at this time don't pay attention to fate.

The second stage is 40 to 60 years old. During this period, people have worked hard, some people have a successful career, and some people are still rushing for three meals. During this period, people gradually realized life. Why sometimes everything goes smoothly, but sometimes it is full of hardships and repeated trial and error? This period of life will gradually realize that there is an invisible force in life, and I will have a feeling of fate.

The third stage is after 60, and life has already finished the road of starting a business, starting a career and staying in business. I will calm down and think back on the decades I have gone through, believing that life is life, and there is nothing I can do! I also understand that sometimes there is a need in life, and there is no need to force it in life.

But my understanding of fate is that most of it is in my own hands. The so-called three points are doomed, and seven points depend on hard work! No matter how good the fate is, it depends on you to grasp, start a business and struggle! It is fate to have many achievements! Therefore, people have a destiny, but we must struggle, do good deeds and accumulate virtue, and respect the old and love the young in order to master our own destiny. Strive for greater achievements! A person's life is arranged by fate, but to change a bad fate, we must struggle on our own!

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In real life, affection and love are equally touching. In the era under the impact of market economy, some cultural heritage and trivial things always make people feel precious. What does fate say? There are reasons for resistance and obedience. It has changed for various reasons, but we are human beings, even if we are humble and small, we can't live without love in our hearts, and the door of fate will always be open to you.

Some people say that fate is your own, and you can master it yourself. There are two situations:

First, look at the direction and strive for it through hard work, from quantitative change to qualitative change. Such as ideals, learning, and the future.

Second, fate, sometimes you want it but you can't get it. As an opportunity ... a couple wants a boy or a girl, and fate is hard to break, not as they wish. ...

Recognition: but be frugal in life, there is no such thing as pie falling from the sky. Without hard work and forge ahead, there will not be too many gains, and it is impossible to get something for nothing. With luck, maybe through your efforts, you will get a little more than others.

What is the fate of this life? That is:

What was planted in the previous life bears fruit in this life. Good results are born of good results, and evil results from bad results.

Metaphorically, the fruits of this life are seeds, good fruits are high-quality seeds, and bad fruits are inferior seeds.

The process of seeds from rooting and germination to maturity and fruiting is life.

What kind of life depends on pursuit and choice!

Without pursuit, there is no fate. If a person does not pursue official positions, there will be no good or bad official luck; Without the pursuit of marriage, there is no good or bad marriage; Without the pursuit of wealth, there is no good or bad wealth. You won't bring yourself pain because of this! Proper letting go and indifference can lead to happiness! So fate lies in pursuit!

In fact, life is a process of constant choice, and what kind of choice will lead to what kind of life.

People born on the same day of the same year have different lives because of different choices.

Do you say divorce is doomed? How many children are meant to be? Are you doomed to make a peach blossom? Is it doomed that officials don't talk? Wait a minute.

Does this information have to happen? If you think it will happen, you are wrong, all wet! Can you change it? Can you get off and avoid it? I can definitely tell you that I can, absolutely!

The answer is your choice! Remember this is a choice! Not spells, rituals, graffiti, etc. , these are useless. If it is useful, it is also used to change your heart, thus changing your choice!

In the sixties and seventies, the civil affairs department's divorce business volume was almost zero, and now divorce requires an appointment. How exaggerated! Is this destiny takes a hand? The question of choice!

In the past, a couple had five or six children, as many as seven or eight, but now many have only one. Is this destiny takes a hand? The question of choice!

Is it destiny takes a hand to commit peach blossom crime because of color? It is also a choice. There is information about peach blossoms. If you don't choose, you won't appear, and there will be no sin caused by peach blossoms! For example, someone who likes you outside of marriage appears in your life, and you know how to choose to refuse. When the person you like appears, you know how to choose to cultivate your mind and be alert. Therefore, seeking good fortune and avoiding evil lies in choice!

The eight characters are like the seeds of this life. High-quality seeds are high-grade eight characters, and inferior seeds are ordinary eight characters.

As for how to make the seeds of this life grow better, that is, how to change fate? Is to give seeds more nutrition, for fate, nutrition is what we often say "Feng Shui, accumulate virtue, study, choose a spouse, choose a job, make friends and keep in good health".

Among them, reading and accumulating virtues are very important to us. Because reading absorbs knowledge, knowledge increases wisdom, wisdom determines choice, and choice changes life.

And the accumulation of virtue will plant kindness, bear good fruit, change fate and benefit future generations!

There is a saying that "there must be something in life, and life does not have to be forced." How to understand it?

Sometimes in life, do you have to have it? The answer is to pursue, not to pursue. There are officials in life, there are pursuits, and there is nothing if you don't ask for it. Life is rich, there is pursuit, and if you don't ask for it, there is nothing. Official luck, wealth, marriage and so on!

Therefore, I want to remind those who want to have money in life and lie in bed all day, waiting for the money to come. If you don't pursue it, even if you have money in this life, you won't get a penny!

Even those who have no money should not feel that there is no darkness. As long as you pursue it, there will be more or less money. There is a saying that "the rich have a destiny, and the small rich are diligent."

Wealth is like this, so is every aspect of life. Let's experience it slowly!

We should pay attention to the words "don't insist on life all the time", which tells us that if we have worked hard and can't get it, we should not force it. Learn to let go, learn to bow, life will be more comfortable, more comfortable!

The quality of fate lies in the pursuit, the pursuit of good fortune and avoiding evil lies in the choice, and the improvement of fate lies in the accumulation of virtue and learning! Let's encourage together

"What is fate?" Text/Wei Canxin

I often wonder: what is fate? Why are some people born with golden spoons and endless wealth, while others just live in the wind and can't stand human suffering?

As the old saying goes: "Life and death have a life, wealth is in the sky!" Perhaps, people really can't escape fate?

In the late 1970s, I was born in a remote mountain village in western Henan. At that time, the traffic there was backward and materials were scarce. In my memory, if I want to eat a white steamed bun and put on a new dress, I can only look forward to the New Year.

There are six sisters in our family, and I am the youngest. I am twenty years old in front of my mobile phone. There are fourteen people in a family (the eldest is married, has four children, and the grandmother is nearly old). These fourteen people, their parents led the eldest brother, elder sister, elder sister and second sister to make a sunset at sunrise. They even take advantage of the slack season to reclaim barren slopes in corners that others don't care about, and work hard to borrow food from others all year round.

Day by day, I grow up day by day. I remember the first volume of the fifth grade (when the primary school was a five-year system), that is to say, I graduated from primary school in half a year; At that time, I made a major decision in my life: dropping out of school. I want to quit school and go to work! Why do you think I study so well (there are more than 20 students in class one, who are the first in almost every time)? -Because, at that time, the second brother and the third brother reached the age of blind date, and their parents were worried about their bride price. I really can't bear to add insult to injury to this devastated family! So, after the New Year, my brother-in-law and I went to the construction site in other places as coolies. That year, I was less than fifteen years old!

Time flies, time flies, and more than forty years have passed. I went from an ignorant teenager to an uncle in the blink of an eye. In addition to building, I also collected junk, worked as a security guard, sold clothes, ran through business, stood on the assembly line, and so on. No matter what I do, God doesn't seem to care about me. Even, he was unfortunately divorced in his early thirties. My life seems to have entered a strange circle; No matter how hard you try, you can't escape fate. What is fate? I really don't understand!

Luoyang, April 3, 2020.