Is human life predestined?

I didn't believe in fortune-telling and fate at all before, but today, 30 years later, I am very confused. I believe in fate. Is there really a destiny? Let's start with the true story that happened in my home:

My brother is 50 years old, my eldest son is 25 years old, my youngest son 16 years old, and I am 36 years old. My brother/Kloc-ranked eighth when he was 0/3 years old, saying that only one of his sons had died. now

And the batch of red paper spots at home! /kloc-I saw it 0/5 years ago and found it incredible. After all, my brother has two sons. At that time, I thought it was an old-fashioned nonsense in the Jianghu and didn't take it to heart.

But this month a miracle happened. On March 5 this year, my nephew committed suicide by throwing himself into the river at noon 12 because of emotional problems! !

Many people saw it at that time, but there was no savior! Just left. Then the day before yesterday, my family went to calculate my brother's life and said that my brother was a dead son, the eldest son.

It turns out that he died on 20 10 last year and has not left until now. Later, I went to my nephew's work unit and learned that his good friend told me that this big nephew did have suicidal tendencies last year because of emotional problems, but because he didn't work in his hometown, his family didn't know.

He can hardly swim. It is said that he is so determined to throw himself into the river that his girlfriend can't pull it. There are many people around, but no one helps. I saw the scene, the bridge is very high, two stories high, and the water is 10 meters deep.

Now, I'm scared. Could it be that life is predestined?

When my brother/kloc-was 0/3 years old, a son died. Now it really works! !

It is said that if my eldest nephew gave it to me before his death, this disaster could be avoided!

I regret it very much . . I love my nephew very much. I am so distressed that I can't sleep. Sometimes I can't help crying. . His parents are even sadder.

How did this happen?

There really is fate.

In my opinion, whether there is such a thing as fate or not, I think we should work hard and have goals in life. If we still need to struggle and work hard, we will have a clear conscience. We should face everything positively, face life with a smile, and think from different angles when encountering any problems.

Don't be too persistent in everything, as the saying goes: it's my luck to get it, but it's not my life!