What's it like to be on the verge of death? Please ask someone with deep experience to answer.

Oh, I had a personal experience when I was a child.

When I was in primary school, I once went to the top of the building and accidentally fell to the ground floor, which was as high as three floors. Someone in the opposite building saw me float down like a swallow ~ ~ ~ when I was found, I shed blood all over the floor. Of course, I was in a serious coma. My family took me to the hospital. The doctor said it would take three days, three nights and 72 hours to diagnose me. I'm hopeless. My mom thought I was hopeless. I'm going to give up myself ... and then I want to tell my fortune. I found a fortune-telling mother-in-law who is very famous in our local area. After my mother told me the story, the fortune-teller mother-in-law said, your doll told you that she didn't grow up, why didn't you pay attention ... My mother recalled (one morning after dinner, I looked up and said to my mother, "Mom, I didn't grow up, I can't grow up to 7 years old."

I was in a coma for a long time in the hospital. When I woke up, I cried. Then I panted and talked to my mother. My mother asked if anyone was chasing you, and you seemed tired from running. I said to my mother, "Mom, many children are leaving and won't let me follow. They bullied me, told me to go back, and closed the door and refused to let me in. " I said intermittently. Say, "Good boy, you have toys to play with when they leave. Ignore them. You'll be fine soon after they leave ..." I woke up and told my mother about it. My mother was very strange and asked my grandfather ... My grandfather said I was possessed by a ghost. I don't know if I understand yin and yang. Anyway, I said the children were leaving and wouldn't let me go with them. A few days later, the ward next door was born. ...

Oh, everyone thought I couldn't live. It is a miracle that I can survive in such a severe situation. Thank God, I'm 2 1 now. When I was a child ... it didn't have much influence on my later life, and there was no scar on my face.

Hehe, if you are interested, you can go to my Baidu to see the space and my photos. That little girl has grown up ~

Hehe, look at the others.

I saw them here, because I have had experience before, and I feel they are very real.

The study of "near-death experience" varies from person to person, teaching people to face suffering firmly.

There are many words to express death, but few people can explain the feeling of death clearly. Thirty years ago, in the Tangshan earthquake, some survivors experienced a struggle with death, and they can still remember the feeling of dying after being rescued. In fact, people who have had near-death experiences are not unique throughout the ages, but these examples are too scattered to help people understand the "mystery" between life and death without special research. In 1980s, China scholars conducted a near-death experience survey among Tangshan earthquake survivors, which opened a cognitive door for people to spy on the "mystery" between life and death.

According to the definition given by scholars, "near-death experience" is a profound subjective experience under the threat of death, which describes a person who has been hit hard or recovered unexpectedly from a disease, or a person who is in a potentially devastating situation and has a premonition that he is about to die but is lucky enough to escape.

There are 40 kinds of "experiences"

During the Tangshan earthquake, a 23-year-old girl surnamed Liu was injured by a collapsed house and could no longer stand. Describing her "near-death experience" before being rescued, she said: "My thinking is particularly clear and my thinking is obviously accelerated. Some pleasant life scenes, such as showing movies, passing scenes in my mind, talking and laughing with friends when I was a child, the joy of falling in love, and the joy of being commended by the unit, all appeared in a few seconds. "

Another survivor said that at that time, "it was like a strong wind, flying sand and stones, and no one was there. Where have you been? " Just when I was in a hurry, a big black hole appeared. I didn't feel scared when I walked in. Several layers of water were splashed in the hole. I walk and walk. When I seemed to see the light, I quickly ran out of the hole and saw the light again. "

Another survivor described: "At that time, I felt that my body was divided into two parts. One is lying in bed, just an empty shell, and the other is my own body. It is lighter than air, floating in the air and feeling extremely comfortable. "

Feng Zhiying, a professor of psychiatry in Tianjin Anding Hospital, who enjoys special government allowance from the State Council, and his colleagues randomly searched for 1987 survivors after the Tangshan earthquake in 1976, conducted a near-death experience survey, and collected 8 1 valid survey data, including 43 males and 38 females. The 65-year-old man said: "8 1 interviewees' near-death experiences include: reviewing their own life, separation of consciousness and body, weightlessness, strangeness of body, abnormality of body, sense of world destruction, sense of integration with the universe, sense of time stop, etc., which is 10 more types of experiences than previous similar studies in the world. For most people, they can experience two or more feelings. "

It is understood that this "near-death experience" research, although only 8 1 case, is the research with the largest number of cases collected in the world, and it also fills the gap in this research field for China. Understanding the "near-death experience" will help people understand the laws of birth, aging, illness and death, provide life-saving, appeasement and medical care to those facing death, and increase their resistance to death. At the same time, it is helpful to produce a great spiritual force of support for those who are rescued after the catastrophe or those who are terminally ill and threatened with death at any time.

"Experience" varies from person to person.

The survey shows that in 8 1 of the subjects, more than half of them are not afraid when they are in distress, but their thinking is particularly clear, their mood is particularly calm and relieved, and they have no sense of panic. Nearly half of people feel that their consciousness is separated from themselves, and their image is separated from their own bodies and floated into the air. About13 people have a strange feeling that they are passing through a tunnel or a space similar to a tunnel, sometimes accompanied by some strange noises and feelings of being pulled or squeezed; Some people still feel that they are traveling in a dark tunnel and are nearing the end. They saw the light and felt "the light is coming".

Survivor Li recalled: "At that time, the body didn't seem to belong to him, and the lower limbs seemed to be gone. All parts of the body were scattered in the space, and then it seemed to sink into the abyss, and it was dark all around. At this time, I began to review my life quickly, but these memories were not dominated by the brain at all. People who have this experience account for about 1/4 of the respondents.

Research shows that social psychology, education level, occupation, marriage, personality and tendency have different degrees of influence on the content of "near-death experience". Men can feel the acceleration of thinking process more than women; Unmarried people have more experiences of extra sensory perception and the destruction of the world than married people; The higher the education level, the clearer the feeling of thinking, and the lower the education level, the more in-vitro experience, life experience in non-earthly fields, strangeness of body and unreality of the world; Farmers and unemployed people have more experiences of slow time or pause and abnormal body feeling, and cadres and workers have more sudden awakening.

By comparing the research on "near-death experience" at home and abroad, Feng Zhiying draws the conclusion that although the religious and cultural traditions of the East and the West are very different, the experiences of near-death experiencers are mostly the same.

"Experience" research benefits more people.

In 8 1 subjects, 47 cases had personality changes before and after the near-death experience. According to reports, the mechanism of "near-death experience" leading to positive personality changes can provide basis and ideas for some similar psychotherapy that affects personality changes. The theory and practice of psychiatry prove that people's mental state, calm mood and physical relaxation in dangerous situations are conducive to the preservation of physical strength of people in despair; On the contrary, panic, fear or dying grief will quickly deprive the body of energy reserves and accelerate death. Therefore, the clinical application of "near-death experience" can also help those dying individuals who have suffered major physical trauma or surgery with high mortality, save energy and reduce consumption, and turn the corner.

At present, Feng Zhiying has actively applied the research results of "near-death experience" to medical clinical treatment. He said that in the clinical practice of social medicine and psychiatry, turning the "near-death experience" into vivid words and giving psychotherapy can enhance their cherish and nostalgia for the value of life. He also wants to study the "near-death experience" of predictable death (serious illness and suicide) and master more types of "near-death experience" to benefit more people.