Should I join the army? (good answer plus points ~ ask for advice! )

Your situation is similar to mine, except that you have a brother and I don't. Don't go when I join the army.

See what you think. It doesn't matter if you stay in the army for a long time. You can't climb very high in the army. In the army, money is not everything. With a general, grandpa can go. Even if you are admitted to a military school and come out as a small platoon leader and a small second lieutenant, you can get through it slowly. I believe that even if you can bear hardships, you can't bear loneliness.

Let me give you a suggestion. Your father works in engineering, right? Tell him to go down to the construction site and go to the most bitter and tired place. Have the ability to settle all the people on the site, let them say hello and manage the site well. Don't show it in front of your father in a hurry. What your father needs to see is stability, you know? When the old man leaves his inheritance to the next generation, he doesn't care what courage he has and what great things he has done. He just wants his son to keep his business.

Work on the construction site for a year or two. When you go back to the company, the people on the construction site, the group of managers and workers you live with, I believe they are also the people your father trusts. Build your own team in a year and let them help you, even if it is short.