Who is to blame?

The literal meaning of the idiom "the hen is called morning" means that the hen is called morning. The explanation of the so-called usurpation of power is aimed at the imperial court, at least at the temple. For the people, the most direct explanation of pheasant morning is that women dominate men.

China people's tradition is very particular about family division of labor, that is, the woman is in charge and the man is outside. Or it is a woman's responsibility to do housework, while it is a man's obligation to earn money to support his family. In other words, women have to make trivial decisions such as what to eat for dinner, while men have to make major decisions such as whether their children will continue to study and whether their homes should be decorated. If everything in the family is decided by the woman, and what a man does can only be counted with the consent of the woman, it will disrupt the division of labor outside the male palm and inside the female palm, which is a typical female palm male power. Expressed in literary language, it is the morning of the hen.

Why did you kill the chicken in the morning? I think there are several situations: first, men don't care. Don't ask whether there is rice in the rice jar at home, whether there is money on the bank card, whether the children go to school on time, etc. This is a lazy man. If such a man doesn't want to divorce and leave, then the woman will bear all the responsibilities. Second, things that men can't control. Or when something happens, you are not sure about it, or what you come up with is a bad idea, which is more than a failure. This is an incompetent person. When meeting such a man, women should ask everything and dare to let go of everything, otherwise they may make a mess and finally have to come forward to wipe their bottoms. Third, men can't control it. Men are sick, even bedridden, and even women have to take care of their diet. Even if they want to take care of things at home, there is nothing they can do. This is a patient. It's really hard for a woman to have such a man in her family. It needs both internal and external training, and the burden of the whole family is on women.

It can be seen that the root cause of hens, or the dominant position of women, is mostly men. The reason why women should take care of things that should be taken care of by men is often because they have to do them. In fact, women are in charge of many things in the family, mostly not because they have a tough wife, but because they have a capable wife and a good wife.

Once someone went out together, and everyone joked that XXX was afraid of his wife. Generally, I will emphasize that I am not a woman-fearing person. But that day, the person who was teased accidentally said "being afraid of his wife is a virtue" and immediately shut up all the men in the same trade. We usually say that some people are afraid of their wives, which means that women have the final say in family affairs, but men can't make the decisions. Men can't be masters, or they can't be masters well, so why not let women be masters?

If you are incompetent, you should step aside. Not only at work, but also at home.