Do you want your first child to be a boy or a girl? Why?

Boys and girls, destiny takes a hand, no one can be the master. I personally hope to have a girl and a boy, because this just forms a' good' word. But this is just a good moral. Boys and girls are all their own flesh and blood.

Of course, there are also some families that prefer boys to girls. If a girl is born in such a family, the pressure on the mother may be great. And my family is also such a family. However, I am a strong daughter-in-law, and I have my own ideas. I don't want to be influenced by my family to have boys and girls. It is enough that we don't care between husband and wife. Even if my family wants to have two boys and a girl, I really don't want to be a sow. My husband and I have also decided that whether there are boys or not in the end, as long as two children are enough.

At this point, I hope every mother can become a strong wife. Don't feel pressure because you don't have a boy, and don't be forced to have an abortion because you are pregnant with a girl.

No matter boys or girls, as long as the children are healthy, everything is fine.

Although your question is a bit redundant, I still have to answer it! Why is this question redundant? Because we can't decide whether the first child is a boy or a girl.

Is the first child a boy or a girl?

The first choice depends on your family environment.

Some families have feudal ideas and prefer boys to girls. Of course, it would be better if the first child is a boy, because in such a family atmosphere, you have at least completed the task. They won't push you 1-2 years to have another child. They will have a second child at any time according to your own schedule. If the first child is a girl, they are very old people in such a patriarchal family. I will also ask God to worship Buddha everywhere, read your fortune and torture you. What's even more hateful is that once you are pregnant, you will be asked to go to an acquaintance doctor or pay someone to do a sex test for the fetus after 3-4 months of pregnancy. I know a friend, because the first child was a girl, and then I found out it was a girl after two pregnancies. Fortunately, she realized that she had decided whether to get pregnant again. I will insist on being born. Fortunately, when I got pregnant again, I found it was a boy. Their family, especially the man's parents, breathed a sigh of relief and finally had a boy.

Some families are very reasonable and impartial, so whether the first child is a boy or a girl, the arrival of the child is full of joy and happiness for this family!

Now the state encourages families with children to have a second child actively, and the mothers who have a second child around me are also looking forward to the "beautiful" wish of having a son and a daughter try to have a second child.

Is the first child a boy or a girl?

If I had a choice, I would choose a boy as my first child and a girl as my second child. In this way, my brother can protect my sister. Well done!

In fact, when Meng's mother didn't give birth to a baby, she just wanted to have a pair of twins. The wish of both children can be realized in one child, which is perfect. Of course, the reality is that there is only one cute little warm man in Ma Meng at present, and she is very satisfied.

However, in Ma Meng's circle of friends, the first child gave birth to a boy, and the second child gave birth to a boy.

After my best friend gave birth to her son for the first time, she wanted a daughter very much, because she envied those friends who had daughters. She could dress her daughter in all kinds of beautiful skirts and pigtails, and she could also wear beautiful parent-child clothes and pose for photos together. But the more I look forward to having a daughter, the second child will have a son.

I think having children is the predestined fate between us and our children. Whether it is a first child or a second child, whether it is a boy or a girl, it is best for children to be healthy and healthy.

Of course, mothers who want to have a second child can still have good wishes. Like me, if they have a second child, they will also want to have a daughter and let Macey Bao be their brother to protect their sister.

Welcome everyone to bask in their good wishes for a boy or girl in the comment area.

I hope my answer is helpful to you.

Girl, girl, girl, answer three times

1 Daughters are easy to take care of when they are young, and boys are sick.

Boys are under great pressure and deserve a bride price, a house, a car and so on.

My daughter is very caring and will take care of people, especially when she is old. Parents need to be served. It is the daughter and son-in-law who run before and after, and the daughter-in-law seldom serves.

Generally, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more difficult, and it is easier to get along with children.

The daughter is not under much pressure. I can do anything I like. It is enough to train her into an adult, hehe.

At present, because of my two daughters

I'm Yamato's father, and I like to show my baby around. Yamato is almost six months now!

When we were young, we often encountered such a question: Do you like your father or your mother?

Later, when we grow up, we will encounter similar problems: who should be saved first when mom and wife fall into the water?

The answer is, of course, both like and save.

Is the first child a boy or a girl? Of course, I think everything is fine. This is not a puzzle, only about love for children and respect for life.

Of course, there are still many practical problems in life that we need to consider, such as the pressure of elders, economic pressure, our favorite family structure and so on. Some people worry that parents will be unhappy after giving birth to the first girl, and the pressure will be very great when giving birth to the second girl. What should I do if I am still a girl? Some people worry that after the first one gives birth to a boy, the second one will be a boy. That is not ready for at least two houses. What shall we do? Some people insist on one of the combination of "brother and sister love", "brother and sister", "brother and brother" and "sister and sister". What if they don't like the structure?

In fact, these are all our worries, and they are only worries, because we have no way to decide and change. I can only say that you live with peace of mind and face it bravely, and all the results are the best. That's what I told mother Dahe, haha.

The eldest son Very good! My first child is a daughter, and my second child is still hesitating to take it. Because I think the second child, whether it is a son or a daughter, will not be fair to the boss!

If the first child is a girl, no matter what the second child gives birth to, the combination of brother and sister is unfair to my sister!

Regardless of whether there is a preference for boys at home, once a second child is born, it will be unfair to the boss. If it is a son, parents will inevitably be a little biased. Coupled with the natural love and humility of my sister to my brother, it is better for my parents to be around. When parents are away, the boss should be not only a sister, but also a mother. It's unfair to my sister.

If the second child is a daughter, all girls, and the second child is still young, then the elder sister must always let the younger sister do everything that should be done. The children are used to it, and so are the parents. Even if I become a family, my sister should always think about this sister.

Although for children, brothers and sisters are very good, care for each other and help each other, it is right, but as parents, they always feel that this is unfair to the boss.

If the first child is a boy, no matter what the second child gives birth to, the brother-sister combination and the brother combination are very good!

If the first child is a boy, the elder brother can be an umbrella for his younger brother or sister when he is a child, and he can be an example for his younger brother and sister when he grows up. Although being a brother is easy to be careless, many details of life and even feelings can't give too much care and help to my brother and sister, but when I get married, I have one more person who cares.

Of course, I'm just talking about most sisters and brothers. If they do well, they naturally do badly. In short, if the boss is a boy, the second child has whatever he wants. If the boss is a daughter, you should think twice about whether to have a second child.

Having boys and girls is the treasure of parents.

There is no uniform legal regulation on whether it is better to have a boy or a girl in the first birth. It can only be said that each has his own strengths, and a simple and rude conclusion is irresponsible.

It should be said that everything is fine with the first child, because there is a law in the universe, which is the law of nature. It means that there is no artificial change, and everything is a natural result. This is the best arrangement nature has given you.

Why do you say everything is fine with the first child? Explain from two aspects:

First of all, the first-born boy is good.

No matter how progressive the society is, having a boy is a happy thing, which indicates the prosperity and successors of the family. The first child is a boy, and the average family will not consider having a second child. They will consider having a second child, and then a boy, which will bring financial pressure to the family. Those with good family conditions may want to have children, because they want to have children, and it is best to have a daughter. If you are still a boy, you can afford it.

Second, the first-born girl is not bad.

The first-born girl is good, too. Some people especially like girls. Girls are no worse than boys. If they are well trained, they will become great people. Today, when the second child is open, the first child is a girl who wants a second child more actively. The current population policy of the country is to encourage the birth of a second child, which is also a contribution to the country. If the second child is a boy, it will be a happy ending. If the second child is a girl, so much the better. Sister flowers are envied by everyone. In the future, two sons-in-law will have a son, and the children will be the same.

Whether the first child is a boy or a girl has its own advantages. Everything has advantages and disadvantages. As long as the children are educated well, it is good to be a person who is beneficial to society in the future. If there are more boys, the loss will outweigh the gain in the future.

In short, let nature take its course and accept what nature gives you. Believe in nature, it gives you the best. There is no doubt about it, because nature is the greatest.

My own growing experience is that my brother is the boss and I fought with him when I was a child, but if other children want to bully me, my mantra is "If you dare to hit me, I will tell my brother." When we were young, many children played together. Unlike children nowadays, we didn't know anyone when we entered the building. Many times, children about my age will be shocked. So when I have my own children, I also want to continue the original family status.

The reality is that my first child is a girl. Girls also have the advantages of girls, and love each other with their younger sisters is even more hurtful. They are also considerate of me and her father. I don't worry too much about my studies, and I feel quite satisfied.

It doesn't matter whether the first child is male or female. My own growth experience and reality are quite good. As long as you are your own flesh and blood, you may not care much about the sex of ta, because you can't decide the sex of the child, so it depends on the sky. Let it be whatever you want!

Is your first child a boy or a girl?

My first child is a boy. I like it very much. The first baby, from preparation to pregnancy, is looking forward to it.

At the beginning of the premarital examination, the doctor also said that my uterus was different from others' and it might be difficult to conceive. Then the doctor also said that my ovaries were polycystic and it might be difficult to conceive.

At that time, after the exam, I was very bad and cried. I've never been unwell before, but I didn't expect a premarital examination to scare me.

At that time, I really wanted to have children. I didn't think that maybe I wasn't sick. I thought the doctor was right, so I bought some medicine online. Fortunately, I found myself pregnant before drinking.

I was really scared by the doctor at that time. In fact, the whole pregnancy process went smoothly, and I won once.

Because of the shock before, I was very happy after conception. I often talk to the baby in my belly during the whole process. By the time the child was born, I had established deep feelings, and my family loved it very much after the child was born.

When I was pregnant, I always longed for a child to be a male treasure, and I finally got it. One child is a male treasure and the second child is a female treasure. I love both babies. The male treasure is my mother's little lover, and the female treasure is my mother's intimate little cotton-padded jacket, both of which are very warm-hearted

Here, I also remind pregnant mothers that they must keep a good mood when they are pregnant, and don't be afraid because some of the doctor's words are serious. In fact, many times the doctor said the worst result, and the matter itself was not that serious. Just like me, the doctor said that my cornual uterus may be difficult to conceive, but in fact, both my babies were conceived at one time.

Many times the body may be fine, and some diseases are scared out. It is very important to keep a positive and optimistic attitude.

At the beginning of pregnancy, the adults in the family thought it was a baby boy according to "experience" and hoped it was a brother and sister combination, so according to the law of "experience", they subconsciously thought it was a baby boy!

24 weeks to do four dimensions. At that time, I was hinted that I was a baby girl, and I also said that B-ultrasound looked good! The first reaction was that the baby was healthy, and the second reaction began to wonder, is it a female baby? I was out of the examination clinic at that time, but I didn't give up. I asked my father to turn around and make sure. The final result is really a baby girl!

After knowing that it is a female baby, you are lost in your heart? Disappointed? I can't tell you what it feels like. I think it is more serious than mixed feelings. I am particularly unhappy. I won't give up when I get home, and I still search all kinds of information on the Internet to verify whether the B-ultrasound is not allowed. In the end, most of the information was consistent with the symptoms of the baby girl, and then the test results were thrown aside unhappily. I even wish I could do it the other way around. I was unhappy for several days, and I didn't even want to breastfeed my baby, buy imported milk powder or buy many things!

But she was unhappy for a few days, and suddenly she felt that the baby in her stomach was moving, as if she could feel that her mother was unhappy, and then she proved that she was actually cute by trying hard to move her baby. Knock, knock, knock, knock, knock, knock, knock. After that, I feel the baby's fetal movement every day, and I like the good baby in my stomach every day!

Looking back, I felt fascinated. After knowing the results of B-ultrasound, I thought it was not my baby.

Today is 20 19, 12, 1. The baby was born 35 days ago. Looking at the good baby every day, I began to feel unwilling to go to work. As a full-time mother, my heart is getting stronger and stronger. Occasionally think of the original evil thoughts, feel very annoyed, more guilty!