According to superstition, can you help others fix up marriages or promote men and women to get married?

1. Whether being a matchmaker has negative effects on yourself mainly depends on local customs. There is a saying in some areas that it is unlucky to be a matchmaker for three years. They think that being a matchmaker is to pass on their happiness to new people, which is harmful to their fortune.

2. In some areas, the fortune of being a matchmaker mainly depends on the matching degree of new people. If the matchmaker makes a good marriage, he will be very lucky in the future. On the other hand, the matchmaker turns right from wrong, bringing people who don't match together, and the future is not very auspicious.

As far as our real life is concerned, the influence of being a matchmaker is really like this. If the marriage is facilitated and the other party, two of a kind, gets along in harmony, then the matchmaker is a great achievement. On the contrary, some people who are matchmakers are not people inside and outside each other's lives.

Second, the advantages of a marriage.

1, merit, this kind of thing, in fact, is mainly inseparable from causality. If, under your matchmaking, you get a good marriage, and the other two people, even two families, live a happy life, then this is naturally a merit, and there will be corresponding blessings.

On the contrary, if you are a matchmaker, you know clearly that one party may have shortcomings, but you don't make it clear that the other party is full of resentment after marriage, even if there are two people's lives, there is nothing to recommend.

Therefore, we must carefully consider whether to introduce someone to others in our life. After fully understanding the situation of both sides, including personality, appearance, family background, work and other information, then carefully consider whether to approach the bridge.

Conclusion:

This article shares the possible influence of being a matchmaker in life. Being a matchmaker is naturally well-intentioned, but you should also keep your own rational judgment.