Tales of Teacher Tao Hongmei (transferred from Music Education and Good Teaching Tao Hongmei)

Source: China Teachers' Daily Author: Our reporter Gao Ying

Tao Hongmei, a teacher from Jin Dian Primary School in Haidian District, Beijing, is an excellent head teacher of "No Cup". 1990 joined the work and worked as a class teacher 17. What impressed me most was "teaching and learning". I like reading children's literature, movies and traveling. Every holiday, Tao Hongmei will circle a place, find enough information to study the itinerary, then book the air ticket and hotel, set out and send herself to a strange place. After school starts, tell students about the trip and "encourage" parents to take their children out. I believe in "reading thousands of books and taking Wan Li Road."

When she met Teacher Tao, she had just returned to school after attending the basic skills exhibition of Beijing class teacher sponsored by Beijing Institute of Education. Although her face is covered with dust, she smiles like a flower. Especially those eyes, kind, thorough and beautiful, have brought us closer at once. This kind of eyes is really valuable for a teacher, especially the head teacher. Because these eyes convey the teacher's enthusiasm, wisdom and tireless feelings all the time.

First, team activities to open a new chapter, laugh and play to create class cohesion.

Like all excellent class teachers, Mr Tao has a childlike innocence. Because of this, she can know what her students need most and how to guide and help them from their needs. As the saying goes, "Know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle."

At present, children as a whole lack a sense of responsibility, but their thoughts are particularly active. Faced with this reality, how can a boring sermon teach his heart and make him sensitive to action? Teacher Tao thought of a way-to carry out various activities in the form of small teams, and to cultivate children's sense of responsibility by using collective concepts, thus forming a strong cohesion of class collectives. Maybe you will say, isn't this a cliche? I am too familiar with this method. By the way, it is from this seemingly old-fashioned form that Teacher Tao has refined new tricks.

The five teams in Mr. Tao's class are all made up of students voluntarily, with seven or eight people in each team. Generally speaking, each team is led by one or several students with good grades and one or two students with poor grades. Children are willing to accept and help students with learning difficulties, because Mr. Tao has set up a "help award", and two awards for students in the same group can offset a mistake made by other members of the team. Teacher Tao said that this can not only avoid the embarrassment that the students with poor grades have nowhere to go, but also be a particularly good opportunity for other students to learn to care.

In order to stimulate students' sense of competition, Mr. Tao carries out homework, duty, blackboard newspaper and other appraisal activities in class. In the process of activities, team members should work together, especially in the work of blackboard newspaper. It is necessary to design the layout, check the materials and determine the choice of materials, which can especially exercise children's sense of cooperation. At first, there will be contradictions between children, but after running in, everyone can make concessions to each other and work hard for a goal. At the end of each competition, Mr. Tao should organize students to select two excellent teams democratically. What are the rewards for excellent teams? This is what we call a new trick-taking students from excellent teams out to play.

Teacher Tao especially likes to organize students to go out to play. For safety reasons, she always takes some students out in the form of rewards. This can not only prevent the number of students from being too large and take care of them badly, but also enhance students' self-motivation. When the reporter asked him why he had such an idea, Teacher Tao said, "If you are a child in the lower grades, you can stick a small flower or something to the students. But when students reach the third year of high school, this kind of reward method will not work. Usually, children have heavy learning tasks and less time to play, which makes it more difficult to be with their classmates. The happiest thing for students is to spend the weekend with their classmates. This ensures the effectiveness of the incentive method of' going out to play'. "

Teacher Tao often takes students to the Roof of the World Bookstore, Xidan Book Building and Sanlian Bookstore, as well as to the Art Museum and Shichahai Ice Skating rink. There is a snack bar under Xidan Book Building. Every time Mr. Tao takes his children, he arranges for each team to buy food by themselves. Finally, he compared which team bought more kinds of food and ate more satisfactorily. Go upstairs to read and buy books after dinner. This virtually exercises the child's self-care ability.

Every activity, parents usually follow, so that safety issues are more guaranteed. Moreover, it is more natural to communicate with parents at this time, which is much better than chatting in the office. Why not do such a good thing? Teacher Tao's smug expression is beyond words.

If you think that teacher Tao's classroom team evaluation is limited to learning evaluation, it is wrong. Teacher Tao always encourages children to take part in sports. When she saw those children who didn't leave the classroom to concentrate on their homework during recess, she felt distressed. In order to stimulate the children's enthusiasm for physical exercise, Mr. Tao asked each team to set up a group sport. If a player can't, other students will be responsible for teaching him and taking part in the competition. In this way, driven by the collective, all the children took the initiative to participate in sports. Teacher Tao said that the reason why children are urged to participate in sports is because children are under great pressure now, and sports can help them vent their negative emotions.

Take a multi-pronged approach to form a harmonious relationship between teachers and students.

1. Teacher Tao's diary is the golden key to open the door to the soul.

Teacher Tao knows that a harmonious relationship between teachers and students is beneficial to students' education. Students grow up and have their own thoughts and ideas. If they want to enter the hearts of students, they must have communication channels. So, in the fourth grade, she began to ask students to write a weekly diary, but most students were afraid of difficulties, and the "Teacher Tao Diary" was born. Every week, Mr. Tao uses the small table time to type three diaries on the computer and show them to the students through multimedia. More often, he reads. All the stories in Teacher Tao's diary happened in the class, and the students all sounded very kind.

I remember once, when it rained, there were many snails on the ground. Many boys bring snails to the classroom, and girls are particularly scared and shout. The whole classroom is in a mess. Teacher Tao didn't directly stop or criticize the children, but wrote an elegy of snails for them to read. The children understood the teacher's meaning, slowly calmed down, and the little snail was reborn. Today, this little teacher Xiao Wentao is still well preserved.

Attachment: the cry of the snail

My name is meowed, and I am a handsome adult snail. I am a happy traveler. On the trip, I also met a beautiful girl. We all like the smell of humidity. Ah! Really like-minded. My happy life began.

Today's weather is really good! The lovely little raindrop girl fell from the sky, and the air was filled with romantic breath. Niu Niu and I walked in the flower bed of a primary school, listening to the cheerful laughter of human children not far away. Niuniu and I are both looking forward to the small family in the future. ...

A burst of footsteps from far to near, a huge shadow fell, followed by an exclamation: "found it!" " "In the blink of an eye, my Niu Niu was gone. Niuniu, where are you? I didn't shout rationally. Maybe my voice is too loud. I have never made such a high decibel sound. It attracted another child. For a while, I came to another world. You can't see the blue sky here, and you can't smell the humidity. There is no soil or green under my feet. God, what the hell is this place? " Ah, what is this? "Shiny, like a person's eyes, as if it didn't hurt me, suddenly a piece of green fell from the sky. Gee, it's a green leaf. Oh, ridiculous person, where do I have an appetite? My life is a mess. Will I never see my girl again? Is my career as a traveler over? Hey!

Driven by teacher Tao, the students' weekly diaries are getting better and better. They are willing to write their little secrets in their weekly diaries.

There is a child in Mr. Tao's class, and his grades are very good. She wrote in her weekly diary that she hated her mother very much because she always peeked at her diary and forced her to study. She is looking forward to growing up, getting married, leaving her mother and home. Teacher Tao contacted the parents in time after discovering the child's psychological dynamics.

It turns out that she didn't grow up beside her mother when she was a child. After coming to Beijing, because my mother is very busy at ordinary times, I seldom communicate with her. Therefore, she thinks that her mother doesn't love herself. In fact, my mother loves her very much and cares about her. She always keeps reading, and her mother is worried that her myopia is getting worse and worse, so she won't read for a long time, but she doesn't understand her mother's good intentions, thinks that her mother is limiting her freedom, and even hates her mother from the heart.

So, Teacher Tao told her in her weekly diary that mom loves you very much, but you haven't realized it yet. It is unrealistic for you to grow up quickly and escape from the status quo. You can't choose to get married just because you want to avoid your mother. Marriage is an unknown number. Maybe you can't understand mom yet, but mom is a known number, and the teacher must love you. Remember, children, escaping is never the best way to solve the problem. Try to get close to your mother and understand her.

Later, although the child didn't tell Teacher Tao about their mother and daughter, the happy expression on the child's face said it all.

Weekly diary is a good form of communication, from which the class teacher can gain a timely insight into the subtle changes in children's hearts and take measures to avoid some bad situations. Teacher Tao said this.

Pay attention to the fashion trends, so that you will never fall behind.

Like all children, Mr. Tao's students are very fashionable. What brand of clothing is the most popular, which TV program is the most exciting, what new songs are produced in Jay Chou, and what about Han Geng of Super junior ... These popular factors are all "magic weapons" for Mr. Tao to educate students. Instead of going upstream, she went downstream. In her spare time, she collected many topics and materials that children are interested in, and used their experiences and persistence in their dreams to educate and guide students. Behind the brilliance of the stars is their persistent pursuit of their dreams.

Some time ago, Mr. Tao's students fell in love with Vincent Fang. Jay Chou and Fang Wensen kept humming Hair as Snow or Qilixiang every day. Teacher Tao looked at it and said no. He just didn't know much about each other, so he acted immediately to collect Fang Gang's information. When she talked to Kan Kan in front of the students, they were all stunned. She not only talked about vincent fang's achievements in pop music, but also talked about the characteristics of his lyrics, and what she talked about most was the life experience of this frustrated young man who worked hard to realize his dreams in his early years.

Vincent fang was once a frustrated young man in the suburbs of Taipei, working hard to realize his dream in Taipei. 1978, he worked as a salesman for anti-theft equipment and also delivered takeout for others. But no matter how hard life was, he never gave up his ideal. His original ideal was to become an excellent film writer and then a qualified film director, but at that time, the overall decline of films in Taiwan Province Province discouraged him, so he had to try his best to create lyrics, hoping to achieve his wish in a roundabout way.

At that time, he distributed his works to various record companies and musicians, and sent out hundreds of such "application letters" every time, but it was always sinking into the sea.

Finally, at midnight 12, Fang Gang suddenly received a phone call from Mingzui, inviting him to work in his newly established music studio. Vincent fang was so excited about the unexpected surprise that he immediately summed up his motto: "Opportunity is more important than strength." But there is a supplementary condition: "when the strength is not enough, the opportunity will definitely be lost."

Vincent fang and Jay Chou are the same employees recruited by Wu Zongxian, and there are more than a dozen colleagues, some of whom specialize in writing lyrics and some in composing music. Wu Zongxian let them combine freely and try to pair up with different colleagues. At that time, Jay Chou's songs became popular, but only Fang Wensen could accurately read his mind and write perfect lyrics. As a result, the combination of Jay Chou and vincent fang has gradually settled down.

Vincent fang became Jay Chou's best partner. After he entered the Chinese pop music scene, his lyrics have a strong national flavor, and the lyrics are full of pictures, and the text editing is like a movie scene, which is the biggest feature of his works. Its unique lyrics creation is unique in the field of traditional lyrics creation.

At last, Mr. Tao uttered more than 10 lyrics written by Fang Wensen for Jay Chou in one breath, such as Double Knives, Shanghai 1943, Hair as Snow, Huo Yuanjia, Chrysanthemum Terrace, Blue and White Porcelain and One like You. The students were dumbfounded.

When students are completely convinced of you, you are worthy of respect in front of them and in their hearts, so that they can receive your education and listen to you. Although they are outspoken and sincere, the educational effect may not be good for different students in different situations. This requires teachers to find a new breakthrough in educational methods. Teacher Tao's wisdom shines in her exploration of finding educational opportunities according to children's wishes.

Don't invite parents easily if students have problems.

Students have problems, the class teacher must first find a way to solve them, and it is best not to take the lead in asking parents. My parents are also very busy at work. If you always invite your parents, what will your parents think of you? Over time, my parents didn't come, what else could I do? Therefore, it is Mr. Tao's work creed to rely on oneself for something.

Huan Li (a pseudonym) always fails to finish his homework on time. Since Mr. Tao took over, this habit has not been corrected. At this time, she remembered the teacher Yuan's words: "The teacher is Chinese medicine. You should allow children to make mistakes. You should take your time and finally solve the problem. " Thinking of this, Teacher Tao reminded himself that this can't be changed in a day and a half, so we must be patient. Every day after school, Teacher Tao will call Huan Li to the office to do his homework, and then go home after finishing his homework. One day, it was late, and before he finished writing, Teacher Tao took him home to write. He does his homework and Teacher Tao cooks. When the meal is ready, Huan Li and Mr. Tao's family sit around for dinner. Parents saw that Mr. Tao was wholeheartedly good for his children, changed his previous indifferent attitude and actively cooperated. The children's homework habits are much better. Although I make mistakes occasionally, I can accept Mr. Tao's request with the cooperation of parents and the recognition of teachers' education by children. Sometimes, he has a good grasp of knowledge, and Teacher Tao allows him not to do his homework.

Whenever Li Huan makes a little progress, Mr Tao will tell his parents at the first time. Parents are particularly happy and their children's self-motivation is getting stronger and stronger.

The key to educating individual students is to prescribe the right medicine.

Most children with poor grades are not poor in intelligence, but poor in habits. Everbright (a pseudonym) is a child with particularly bad homework habits. His homework is always written in a dragon and phoenix dance, and his academic performance can be imagined. After Mr. Tao took over, he decided to help him develop the habit of finishing his homework carefully by writing good words. Rome was not built in a day. Correcting his bad habits will not happen overnight. Teacher Tao signed an agreement with him: write the words neatly within a week; Keep the homework carefully completed within one month.

After the agreement is signed, Mr. Tao often encourages him to say, don't worry, write slowly. When his calligraphy has made progress, Mr. Tao will post his calligraphy on the publicity column in the class, creating class public opinion, making him full of confidence and making faster progress.

"The feet are shorter and the inches are longer; Lack of things, ignorance. " Although top students get better grades and read more books, they often have more psychological problems. Once the school issued a red scarf medal, and one was issued in the whole grade. Because there are many excellent students in Mr. Tao's class, I recommended three candidates, which invisibly increased my competitiveness. Fang only got one vote, so he was extremely embarrassed in front of teachers and classmates, and his self-esteem was seriously challenged. In this case, Mr. Tao immediately called her parents and explained to them that the choice was fair. Fang is an excellent child, but the number of places is limited. Don't hit her when Fang goes home. Be calm.

The next day, Fang came to school and felt much better. Teacher Tao asked her to be the host at the class meeting. She was so happy that she gradually forgot the unhappiness of losing the election. When Fang lost a book when she participated in the red scarf selection, Teacher Tao gave her one and wrote words of encouragement on the title page of the book. Fang is very happy.

Teacher Tao said that the class teacher's attitude towards a child directly affects the students' views on him. When a child encounters difficulties, the class teacher should first help the child in attitude and emotion. When his mood and psychology are normal, the class teacher's attention will return to normal and he will be treated equally. If the class teacher likes a child subjectively, he may actually be hurting the child.