Historical allusions of attitude changing fate

During the Three Kingdoms period, Mi Heng was arrogant and made friends with Kong Rong. Originally, Cao Cao was going to recruit Mi Heng for Kong Rong's sake, but Mi Heng was very uncooperative. He also beat gongs and drums to scold Cao Cao and was finally sent to Liu Biao by Cao Cao. Later, because of his bad attitude, he was sent to Huang Zu, the magistrate of Jiangxia. Finally, he was killed because of a verbal conflict at the age of 26. This is the best example of attitude changing fate. Let's look at an inspirational story told by a successful scientist about changing fate with mentality:

I had a very interesting experience, which influenced my life.

Once, I visited a friend who had a successful career and chatted about my fate.

The second time, I asked: Is there a fate in this world? He said: Of course.

Let me ask you one more question: What is fate? Since destiny takes a hand, what's the use of struggle? He didn't answer my question, just smiled and grabbed my left hand and said, I'd better read my palm first. I am a fortune teller.

He told me a life line, a love line, a career line and so on. Suddenly, he said to me, reach out and do an action like me.

His action is to raise his left hand and slowly grasp his fist more tightly.

He asked: Did you catch it? I replied in confusion: Hold on tight.

He asked again: Where are those fate line? I answered mechanically: in my hand.

He asked again: Excuse me, where is fate?

I was shocked and suddenly realized that my destiny was in my own hands!

He went on calmly: No matter what others tell you, no matter how the fortune teller calculates it for you, remember that your destiny is in your own hands, not others' mouths! This is destiny. Of course, if you look at your fist again, you will find that part of your lifeline is still outside and has not been caught. What inspiration can it give you? Most of our destiny is in our own hands, but some of it is in the hands of "God". Throughout the ages, the meaning of "struggle" is the part of "destiny" that God has bought in the hands of "God" with his life's efforts.

I sat quietly for a long time, only to feel like a spring ... fate is in my own hands, not in others' mouths!

Later, a student came to talk to me about her love problem and asked me for help. She is over 30 years old and has no boyfriend. However, it is not that she has never had a boyfriend, but when she was 23, a well-rumored fortune teller once told her that she would not get married until she was 33.

After that, I had several opportunities to talk about friends, but every time I talked about marriage, she would think of the fortune teller's words, so she would say to herself: I won't get married until I am 33 years old, and I won't get married for a long time now. It's better to break up early than to give up what I love! In this way, in the long run, until today, I have made myself mentally miserable.

I remembered the story and told it to her again. Of course, I did it again according to the "original".

In the process, I found that her feelings were strikingly similar to mine. Say that finish, she stood up and shouted, oh, I was miserable by that damn fortune teller! Say that finish, we all laughed.

The belief that fate is in my own hands, not someone else's mouth, has almost changed my life.

From 65438 to 0995, we began to talk about success and do success training. At that time, I don't know how many people poured cold water on me, and even directly ridiculed you for being unsuccessful. Why teach others how to succeed? I have really experienced many low tides in my life: I went bankrupt twice. After graduating from college, I have probably done more than a dozen different jobs. I have been a university teacher, a civil servant, a karaoke singer, a small painter, managed a food market, went to the countryside, opened a restaurant, worked as an assembly line worker, engaged in decoration, engaged in real estate, and engaged in sales ... I came to Shanghai because Zhuhai failed to start a business. In my first two years in Shanghai, five attempts to start a business from scratch ended in failure ... Whenever the low tide comes and I suffer setbacks again, I almost always secretly hold my left hand and say to myself: My destiny is in my own hands, not someone else's mouth.

Really, it's strange that whenever I hold my hand, I can feel my infinite confidence and motivation almost immediately. This belief has helped me to this day. What is so important to me should be equally useful to you. Why don't you try?

Now hold your hand and say loudly to your subconscious: your destiny is in your own hands, not in others' mouths!