I used to be very proud and never worried about becoming an older woman. Now I'm really a saint! External pressure and more exotic men make themselves.

Older women should never be in a hurry or make do. They must find the right person before thinking, and don't look at other people's attitudes.

Getting married is a serious matter. Never get married just to get married. Many older girls, who are in their thirties, are urged to get married every day at home, so they just choose a man and get married hastily. As a result, because they don't know each other well after marriage, two people quarrel every day and then divorce, and the children can only be with one side. The result is tragic, it is better not to get married.

I am a net friend, a girl from Fujian. She is just 29 years old and her child is three years old. A few days ago, he cried and told me, Teacher Zilong, I want a divorce now. what do you think?

She got married a little rashly. Her husband is now an employee of an insurance company, a single-parent family, with uncertain income, but a well-off family. His mother is a local official with a high income and a villa at home. After seeing her, her husband launched a crazy pursuit offensive and treated her well, arranging her to be a sales manager in a hotel led by his mother.

As a little girl, how can she stand such a courtship offensive? She was soon caught and they got married. When she got married, her mother-in-law was dissatisfied with her ordinary family, but her son insisted on getting married, and there was nothing she could do. I only gave her 30 thousand bride price and married her.

She is married and lives in her husband's villa, and her name is not on the property certificate. After marriage, the husband's nature is exposed. I have a bad temper, a bad temper and I don't care about my family. I don't earn much, but spend a lot. Often treat guests, eat and drink with friends, and a month's salary is simply not enough. Then I ask my mother for money, and my mother will fly into a rage if she doesn't give it.

Only after she got married did she know that her husband had mild mental illness. She was treated in a mental hospital before, but she came out without being cured. Now, I am addicted to fortune telling again. I asked her to follow me to Xiamen for fortune telling the other day. She just caught up with overtime and couldn't go. My husband shouted, smashed things and hit her.

Now, she is scarred. Her husband won't give money, and she has to rely on that little salary to support her children, which is hard to find. My mother-in-law was afraid of her divorce and didn't give her money. She offered to take her husband to a mental hospital for treatment, but he didn't go at all.

She said, Teacher Zilong, I really can't go on. He is unfilial, has no feelings for his parents, does not know how to work hard, always asks for money to open a shop, and has no capital and ability to start a business. And I don't go home every day, eat, drink and have fun outside, and find women. Always on the rampage, domestic violence. She can't see any hope.

But if divorced, her mother's family is in financial difficulties, and she has no ability to raise children independently. You may lose your job. However, she has made up her mind to divorce even if she doesn't want children, and she doesn't want to live like this for a day.

Before she was thirty, she fell ill, and the trauma in her heart was understandable to ordinary people.

Therefore, girls should never marry anyone just because they are old. Don't worry, don't settle for it, you must find the right person before you enter the marriage, otherwise you are likely to die.