When you are confused, never stop.

Some people say that when you are confused, stop, think clearly, and then start.

Experience tells me that when you are confused, don't stop, because once you stop, your brain, including your blood, will be still.

There is an awkward age, called boss, and I am at this age now.

When I came back from the Spring Festival, my class was already in class, but my thoughts didn't stop. It's not that my age made a mistake, but that I didn't complete the task that life told me.

I have no successful career and I am not married. Year after year, I am still myself, but time has put a spell on myself, an unbreakable spell, or a subconscious confusion, because you know, even if you stop, it is still useless, it is better to say that you will leave.

For example, improve yourself, work harder and love life more. ...

In short, you think so, although confusion exists, but the heart is not so uncomfortable.

I call it inaction. Once you reach the age when you want to settle down, you can't say that your body organs are aging. At least, he wants you to have a good rest. Some people are caring and attentive, and some people bring tea and water, so that your stomach won't work overtime all night, and you won't be unable to buy medicine for a cold. ...

Going home is a happy journey, no matter how far it is, you know it. However, home is a place where you have too many dreams but can't help you realize them. Even if it's not that demanding of you, give yourself a concept. This is the way home. How should I go from departure to return?

From the beginning of the year to the end of the year, going home is no longer just a reunion of relatives, but also a kind of thinking in disguise, whether it is confusion or contradiction, or yearning for the warmth of home and life. Where there is a job, there is no home, but where there is a home, there is no job, the soul can't fit in the field, and the body can't fit in the hometown. A place called home can't find a way to support the family, but it can't find a place to support the family. Since then, there has been wandering, distance and yearning. This is the reluctance and helplessness of life.

Speaking of which, it seems that it still has nothing to do with confusion. Why are people confused, and how should they treat them once they are confused?

You will be confused because you are at a loss, but you will be noticed if you are at a loss. If you don't follow your own plan, when what you want doesn't match the reality, your hopes will be covered with gray, and you will be confused if you can't see the road clearly.

A lost person is like a lost child. He may not be able to speak or write or remember his parents' phone numbers. And we adults, if we want to say anything, are too red to say anything. Faced with a piece of paper and a pen, we can write, but we have no thoughts. We clearly remember our parents' phone calls, but we have long been used to reporting good news instead of worrying.

In this way, I learned to comfort myself.

One is benign self-comfort, because most people are willing to accept white lies, including some self-deception lies.

One is vicious self-abandonment, because everyone doesn't want to live so hard, even though it may change.

When everyone learns to comfort themselves, many people will weave many lies. There was no good harvest last year, probably because of bad time, no promotion and wealth last year, maybe bad luck, no partners last year, maybe others were too realistic. ...

Everyone wants to believe that these are true. The coming year has passed, and the years are good. Everyone has everything he wants, whether it is fame and wealth or marriage, and everyone is very happy.

It's really been a year. Do you still remember the wishes made in the face of fireworks on New Year's Eve, the big words that parents and relatives vowed to say, and Kan Kan's brave words that three or five friends embraced and talked?

Those who are already on the road, I hope you can stick to it. Those who haven't set off yet, you can find a fortune teller to pick a good day and make great strides forward.

In addition, it creates self-worth.

One is the established self-affirmation. When you don't give up, everything is nothing to you.

One is self-affirmation in disguise. When you are weak, everything is still everything.

When you dare to face the confusion and create your own value, you are thinking about a higher realm.

Established self-affirmation, perhaps this is something that few people can do. As long as you think you can, there is no pressure. This is self-confidence from your ability, not boasting, not presumptuous, and not fantasy.

Self-affirmation in disguise, which is the universal state of people, thinks that they can. Born and immortal, Xiao Qiang is weak, at least hard-boned, short, and at least verve. This one doesn't work, and that one does. He can do it if he wants.

No matter what kind of realm, at least it has reached this level, and the connotation of life can at least be understood. Being a man is what people need to do. Anyway, it is better to give yourself some color than to suffer from life.

Never forget the life you want to go, remember the road you have taken!

Finally, keep walking. Remember, life must keep walking.