Blind date is also a kind of learning. What did you learn from blind date?

Blind date is a great test for people's psychology. Experienced the psychological process of blind date and graduated smoothly. I'm not an expert on marriage and love. The following is my blind date harvest.

First, the road to blind date is a process of self-cognition, and preferences are not necessarily fixed.

Maybe we didn't have a clear image of our future partner at first, but in the process of blind date, we will gradually understand which qualities we appreciate and which ones we don't appreciate, and this image will become clearer and clearer in our hearts. On the other hand, you can also deepen your understanding of yourself. Maybe what you thought you couldn't accept before is actually not that hard to accept. Or something I didn't notice before, but it turned out to be absolutely unbearable.

My friend has always admired the tall and handsome type, but the object he finally found was his ugliness, innocence and understanding. This change in taste is something she never thought of.

Second, all the bumps and twists and turns are temporary, so there is no need to worry too much for a while. If you try to find something inappropriate, stop the loss in time.

It's natural to have a blind date, and it's normal not to have a blind date. Keep a clear head. Don't be too anxious, don't care too much about other people's eyes and words, and don't make a hasty decision because of the idea of "making do" and "almost enough". It may be ok to confirm a relationship, but what about a lifetime?

If the attempt is inappropriate, you must stop the loss in time. Instead of getting married and divorced, it is better to wait patiently and keep yourself in a good state, and happiness will eventually knock at the door.

Third, don't regret the missed opportunities in the past, just like you didn't have time to cry over spilled milk, missed the sunrise, and don't miss the rainbow again.

The opposite of being too anxious is to wait and see and hesitate. I always feel that there are better things to come. Finally, I found that I missed all the great opportunities, which is also not desirable. Although, it is easy to hesitate to choose a person as a lifelong companion; Although, everyone is afraid of choosing the wrong tree and giving up the whole forest; Although, the blind date is still a little less interesting than the other half in your mind ... but, dear, you never know whether it is suitable or not until you try it, and you never know how rich and interesting it is until you open a book. Who was born for you according to their own ideas?

All the past, all the sunk costs, all turned over. Miss the sunrise in the morning, don't miss the rainbow after the rain.