Is the proud traditional culture suitable for the present and what are its disadvantages?

In the history of China for thousands of years, many people in China have been influenced by traditional culture in their thoughts, lives, behaviors and values. There are all kinds of traditional cultures. Rob Vientiane can be seen everywhere in our life. Some traditional cultures are very suitable for us at present, such as national self-confidence and Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism. However, some traditional cultures have gradually lost their value with the progress of the times. For example, the culture of men marrying women, splashing water on married women, paying too much attention to filial piety, etc., are all ills.

First, it was the greatest unfilial duty for a man to marry a woman and not have children in ancient times, so in ancient times, he could get married at the age of 15 or 16. In the society at that time, men who don't marry or women who don't want to marry will be regarded as unfilial and will be gossiped. In ancient times, marriage was mostly decided by parents, and there was no freedom of love. Some couples only meet for the first time on their wedding night. For modern people, not only freedom of marriage, but also people should be more tolerant. Modern people are still very tolerant of men and a little harsh on women. After the age of 30, people who can't find friends are called older women. Now women have greater ambitions in the workplace, and many top managers have also appeared women. However, the society should also show greater tolerance for the phenomenon of women marrying late.

Second, the water spilled by married women will still be said throughout history. In ancient times, a woman had to take her husband's surname when she married him. This custom can still be seen in the older generation until now. When a woman marries her husband's family, she belongs to his husband's family and disowns her family. However, the daughter is also a baby born after ten months of pregnancy. How can you make it clear? This phenomenon still exists until now. The phenomenon of favoring boys over girls and discriminating against women still exists in the highly developed civilized era of modern times.

In addition to the above, there are traditional old concepts such as attaching too much importance to filial piety and valuing virtue over merit. For these traditional cultures that hinder the progress of modern society, we should liberate them from the old ideas and discard them. The traditional culture of China should be an inclusive and rational culture.