I was born in Shihai, and they all say that I was born in Shihai and my life is not good, which will harm others and myself. I had a hard time and hurt my family around me! Is it true?/You don't say.

Superstition is not credible and totally unfounded.

A strong person will reflect on himself if he fails and makes mistakes. However, if a weaker person makes a mistake and fails, he will not look for his own reasons. He will blame others for his fault, so that he will not show his incompetence and maintain his face, the so-called dignity. Because you are weak, it is easier and simpler for them to blame you and make them feel better. So they won't blame themselves.

But you can't think like that. I think you've heard of the law of attraction. No matter what you think is good or bad, God will absorb your thoughts, feel them, and then he will create something according to your thoughts. In other words, your destiny is written by your own subconscious mind. If you think you are lucky, then your luck will come soon. If you think you are miserable and unhappy, then sooner or later, those things will test your mind around you. At that time, the thoughts in your head will say, see if I'm right, it's all because of you. I wish I didn't want you.

Such is also the case with me. I have been a family member since I was a child, and I blame myself for all the bad things and negative things. But how can I be so capable? By the same token, how can you be so powerful? You caused everything. How can you be so capable?

They blame you because they are incompetent and fucking cowardly. They can't face what happened in reality and who they are. This is probably due to birth. After all, parents' age, education and knowledge are limited, please try to understand.

But if you don't agree, people will subconsciously kick you out of this idea. . It's all their fault, but they dare not admit it or face it. this is nothing to do with you.

We must change this view from the bottom of our hearts, otherwise it will have an impact on the future. I suggest you see why Wu Zhihong's family hurts people. I wonder if it's your parents. Most parents and families do this, which makes children very painful. But as you grow up, you have to distinguish between the truth and the labels that others have imposed on you to avoid responsibility. That book is really good. I feel much better after reading it myself.