Ask an expert to analyze what kind of person I belong to.

Let me analyze you and let you know yourself better.

First, my heart is blocked because your simple and correct concept conflicts with your acceptance that you didn't do it this time. In other words, you don't think you should take it because you didn't make it yourself. Your concept is down-to-earth, and due diligence is your own. So your idea conflicts with reality, and you feel blocked.

Explanation: At this point, your idea is quite right. But don't feel blocked, this is normal. Since there is such a good thing, why not accept it? Sometimes people need to turn a blind eye when facing reality, but they can't lose their ideas and principles. It's already done, don't have any ideas.

Second, the idea in your heart is still very correct, and there is nothing extreme. After doing so much, some people will feel that they have done so much for others without working hard, and their ideas are extreme. Others say that you are stupid because you have a good impression, and he also says that you really are.

Explanation: Your thoughts may still be flawed, just like thinking. In action, no one can call you stupid. Those who stick to their own ideas, can always keep their own mentality and keep their own ideas unchanged will surely succeed in the future.

Third, at this point, like me, you are a perfectionist. Because of that perfect thought, perfect wonderful, we can taste and don't care about ourselves. Don't listen to others, you should know yourself. If people say you don't care about yourself, is it true? Self-concept still needs to be strengthened.

Explanation: You are trying to be perfect and make your mind beautiful, which has always been a perfectionist's idea. Many successful people don't want everything to be perfect, but many successful people are perfect in their careers without showing any mistakes. This is one of the reasons for their success, and it is also an idea that cannot be lost.

Fourth, people who are optimistic about themselves are extroverted, but are they introverted in the face of others? Anyway, I think you are an extrovert, but when you are in front of your good friends, you lose that inner barrier and make you relaxed and happy. You will feel uncomfortable with people you don't like. That's because of a vicious circle. If you are not happy, your impression will get worse and worse.

Note: But in making friends, you must be mature. If you think you can't make friends, there is no inner dialogue, but you are busy helping me and I will help you. You exist in use and friends are indispensable in society. No matter what kind of friends you are, you must make friends calmly and learn to look at people's intentions, which can help you eliminate these antipathy, that is, objectivity. Treat people objectively, you will be more mature, and you will see two sides, not one side, just as you dislike this only side.

Fifth, the image you set up in your mind is that you are a sincere person, and the most important thing to treat your friends is sincerity. This must be your idea, too. What can't you say in front of your good friends? You are also trying to make friends.

Sixth, just as I said, you are the smartest to do practical things, and the boss needs to do more and talk less nonsense. The boss will not be optimistic about such talents who just talk and don't practice.

Seventh, I don't think it is necessary to analyze this point. This is your character.

Eighth, you are only 17 years old. You are very contradictory, confused and not firm enough. This is normal. People grow up in constant pain, constantly reflect, constantly mature, constantly contradictory, peaceful, constantly confused and firm. These are all experiences, and experiences will make people grow. Sometimes it's like this. It's rebellious, unstable and not firm enough, but it's a process, and it grows slowly.

Ninth, you like to listen to sad songs, which shows that you are a quiet person and know how to have a bleak taste. Just like your own life, there must be some gloomy memories. Whenever I hear sad songs, I will recall myself. You should regard these as experiences, as life experiences and as memories. Memories, although sad, but ultimately left to themselves is the sweetness after sadness! People who have memories are happy, and those who have experienced them are beautiful! What matters is the process. To live better than others, to experience setbacks and to live differently is to make life wonderful. I like watching movies with more impact, which just shows that there is something in your heart that wants to explode and there is a fire in your heart. Where will you use fire? And in what way, what concepts are developed? It all depends on your own mentality. You must want to develop your great career and become a more successful person. Just like these movies with visual impact. It's very kind of you to build a car for the elderly, and you have a lot of psychological quality. This is formed in your own mind, but those who rely on the elderly will not let you. As I said above, there is a concept called objectivity. How old is he? Still an old man, many old people have a hard time thinking, and sometimes they are more like children. If you understand objectively and considerate, you will be more mature and perfect.

Tenth, if you don't understand something, you don't have to escape, but you know that you have to solve the problem in essence, and you have to reflect on your mind. It is precisely because of this reflective way of thinking that you can better understand yourself and see yourself more clearly. Some things are done before they are done, which is also because perfectionists are unwilling to melt in their hearts and have high requirements for their own personality, which is higher than the average.

Eleventh, this is caused by the environment. Environment and reality must make you change. You must laugh at your customers, even if you are unhappy. If the environment makes you happy in one period, it will make you lose in another period. The two extremes, after a long time, will become at a loss and even have psychological problems. So you need to establish your own principles, keep a cheerful attitude and update your thinking.

Your family environment must have an impact on you, even if you don't think so yourself. 17 years old, you have obviously proved this, and you can also be said to be very precocious. Be yourself. Those are life experiences. Now is the most important thing. Now is the beginning.

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