Rugao wedding custom visits both parents.

Getting married is a very important thing for everyone. So, when we get married, we all want to look grand. This process also involves some local customs. Now let's learn about the customs of Rugao people getting married.

In the old society, the marriage customs of Rugao China were both boring and superstitious.

Engagement is also called matchmaking. People call it Big Guest and Old Moon.

Parents of both sides exchange visits privately, focusing on understanding each other's temperament, physical condition and family economic situation.

The matchmaker accompanied the man to meet a woman of this character, saying that he wanted to meet "xianggong". Most women don't. Don't stand up and peek.

Watching the matchmaker accompany the woman's mother, aunt and others to see the man's house, and the woman likes to eat at the man's house. Otherwise, please feel free to leave.

Stickers are also called speech metaphors, and they are used as toilet paper stickers. Write down the woman's birthday with papyrus, add a blank papyrus to show a pair, then cover it with red paper, fold it into a square paper bag, send it to the man's room, be led by the matchmaker, and press it at the foot of the incense burner on the right side of the holy ark. Within three days, if there is a broken bowl, a broken bowl, a big fight at night, and a noisy child at home, it is ominous, that is, the post is withdrawn and the proposal is suspended.

After the fortune-telling wedding, if the man's family is harmonious, he will ask for a sign, tell fortune and get married to see if the eight characters of men and women match or conflict.

After the marriage is negotiated by the matchmaker, the man gives the woman gold and silver jewelry, gifts or high-grade clothes. And the woman is often very demanding, asking for money and gifts.

Engagement is also called making up your mind and sending a small post. On an auspicious day, the matchmaker accompanied the man to the woman's house to exchange ceremonies and long Zhu Feng. After the engagement, confirm the marriage relationship between the two parties. The man's family will give gifts on holidays, and the woman will return them appropriately. The next day, I took my unmarried son-in-law to dinner and agreed on a happy day.

A bride who marries in makeup will give her husband a dowry. She will go home 1~3 days before the wedding, and she is proud of it. Give the dowry list to the man's matchmaker's mistress.

The American family who made the bed invited a couple from it runs in the family. Their families are harmonious and belong to a harmonious family, named Fu Raul and Mrs. Fu, to help make the bed and deliver the house to their relatives. A few days ago, the old lady Fu sewed sheets and opened curtains for the newlyweds. She's in stick grilles, in her new house. When making the bed, put some dried fruits such as red dates in the bed and let the children touch them.

On the wedding day, the man takes the deacon, musician, sedan chair or car to marry the bride. Go to see the sedan chair's husband's family, shoot and play music. The husband's family has red dates, tea and zongzi. The groom went to the hall to worship his ancestors, then released the geese and presented flowers and red crowns to the women. On the first day, the bride took a bath, lay still and ate dry food. After the sedan chair entered the door, she got up and dressed. When the groom arrived at the door, he bowed three times to the bride and said welcome. When the sedan chair leaves, fire a gun and play music.

There are drums and music, bright lights and candles to worship the man in the sedan chair. The sedan chair is placed in the middle of the room, the in-laws sit outside, the makeup artist lifts the curtain, and then Mrs. Fu takes the bride out. Sing to heaven and earth in turn, and ancestors, elders and newcomers worship each other. After the meeting, the bride and groom entered the bridal chamber.

The bridal chamber has seats, and some of them are accompanied by bridesmaids. The bride and groom drink S cups with each other, the groom comes back to treat them, and the bride sits on the stool in front of the bed. It's called sitting back and enjoying the benefits. Guests came to see the new house, accompanied by female guests, and toasted brown sugar tea.

The room was given by Mrs. Fu and the makeup artist's mother, using si.

Cook for three days, and the bride cooks.

Most of them come back in three days, and some come back with a full moon. The woman gave a banquet in honor of her new son-in-law. In the afternoon, before the sun went down, the bride came back from her mother. At home, people put sugar in tin teapots to show their respect for in-laws and other elders.

The first month after marriage is full moon. In the morning, the woman's brother comes to welcome guests and entertain them. The bride doesn't visit her neighbors. When she was in the moonlight. Otherwise, it is considered unlucky. Her feet were hairy when she came in. If you have anything special to do, you should put a fire fork on the threshold that the bride crosses, which means burning her feet to avoid taboos.

The pro-male family invited the female relatives to dinner, and the male and female relatives recognized each other. Friend: The bride has her first birthday at her husband's house. Her family must send birthday presents. This is called a friend. Her husband, an American family, celebrated with wine.