What's there to talk about with the girl you just met?

1. Tell me about reality. Don't talk about chicken soup for the soul with the girl you just met. Talk to girls about real things, learn more about them, and talk about many topics. 2. Talk about each other's study or work. If you are lucky enough to be a school and a company in the future, then you can talk to girls about their study or work. 3. Talk about hobbies and girls you just met. Don't be in a hurry to fall in love, and don't chat with others like checking accounts. Let's talk about each other's hobbies, first talk about ourselves, and then ask the girls. The topic naturally opened. 4. Talking about horoscopes Although things like horoscopes are not so accurate, they can really give people guidance. Instead of regarding the constellation as superstition, it is better to regard it as entertainment and an interesting and safe topic that everyone can talk about in male-female communication. In addition, most girls are interested in constellations. 5. Talking about Trilateral Topics Trilateral Topics are topics that have nothing to do with you or her. For example, what movies have been shown recently, what's the weather like today, what's the star news recently and so on. What's there to talk about with the girl you just met? 2. Talking about travel Now that the living standard is getting higher and higher, people pay more attention to their usual travel. If men can share the topic of travel with girls, then I think you won't be embarrassed when chatting with girls you just met. Because girls nowadays also like traveling very much, traveling can relax their body and mind. Now the pressure of life is also relatively large, repeating boring work every day. People will choose to travel to relieve stress. Therefore, when chatting with girls they just met, men can talk more about tourism and other topics, which can attract girls' attention. The premise that girls like a person is always because they are attracted, otherwise how is it possible? Therefore, brothers who want to take off their orders should work hard on their own attractiveness instead of kneeling to please. Bian Xiao read a secret book ~ Jiang Han had to fall in love a few months ago before he realized that attraction was too important for picking up girls, and then he established his attraction completely according to the method inside. Now that he has successfully won four girls, he is actually a bit greedy. Now he is struggling with the choice! I am still a single brother. I suggest reading and studying. It can be obtained on the Internet. Just look for it Don't be like me. It's so tangled now. Second, talk about eating, drinking and having fun. How do men chat with girls they just met? Men can talk about eating, drinking and having fun, and some men are good at eating, drinking and having fun. If men can share the fun of eating, drinking and having fun with girls they just met, they will also attract girls' attention. Because girls don't like to play as much as boys, sometimes men will share their beer and skittles with girls, and girls will like to listen to men share their ideas about beer and skittles, and the number of languages will increase. But when men talk to girls about eating, drinking and having fun, they must avoid some bad eating habits, such as smoking and drinking. Because girls nowadays hate their boyfriends smoking and drinking. Third, talk about interesting experiences in the past. Men are chatting with girls they just met, and they don't know how to make girls interested in themselves. Men can talk to girls about their interesting past experiences and share their interesting things, which will also let girls know more about you. When a man chats with a girl he just met, he can make all the girls happy, so you will get the girl's favor when you chat with her. As long as girls are interested in you, your chat results will satisfy girls. This is also to lay the foundation for getting along in the future. Therefore, when a man meets a girl for the first time and chooses a chat topic, he must pay attention to sharing some interesting things about himself, so that the girl can know you better. To make girls like themselves, men must have more love skills when chatting with girls they just met. Try to attract girls to your topic, which will also lay the foundation for getting along in the future. What can I talk to a girl I just met? 3 1. I don't ask for privacy. Many men chat with a girl I just met, and they are eager to know something about that girl, some of which are private. Asking if I don't know is disgusting and I feel offended. Some boys ask girls to send photos before chatting online. To be honest, serious girls don't want to talk to you. After all, they don't know you Why do they give you their own photos? I don't even know what your plot is. Usually photos are called from the beginning, and normal girls will black them out. Talking about hobbies is actually a very easy topic to deal with. Whether it is an acquaintance or a stranger, hobbies greatly reduce the interest relationship between the two sides, making people feel at ease in the conversation, without much purpose. When chatting with a girl you just met, it's best to look at her circle of friends, understand her hobbies and briefly talk about her hobbies. Of course, if her circle of friends is blank, you can't learn more about her from others. Tell her your hobbies first, guide her to chat and tell her your hobbies. 3. Polite and thoughtful If you are a strange girl and don't know you, you must leave a good impression. Serious girls don't like a strange man chatting with themselves. Even if the object is not yourself, seeing a strange man talking to himself all the time will not leave a good impression, so when chatting with strangers, be polite. 4. Release goodwill and care. Because of the internet, we can make friends with many strangers, but the potential risks are great. After all, strangers don't know if you can talk. At this time, it is easier to draw closer by releasing goodwill and concern. The conversation is not only polite, but also reveals concern and goodwill everywhere, which makes people feel good. Of course, if you want to be popular with girls, humor in conversation is a good advantage. If you talk funny, strange girls may be willing to make friends with you. After all, having a good chat is a good start. What's there to talk about with the girl you just met? 4 1. Constellation topic Girls are basically concerned about the constellation topic, and they can get to know each other quickly through this topic. Therefore, the topic of constellation is the best choice to chat with girls you just met. Of course, you need to pay more attention to the characteristics of different constellations in order to chat smoothly. For example, the other party is Scorpio, a frightening constellation. According to legend, Scorpio is dark, dark and cold. But if you really understand, this is actually a misunderstanding of Scorpio. You can say: "I heard that Scorpio is very cold, but you give people a gentle feeling." They must have misunderstood Scorpio! " Or put it this way: "Scorpio's high cold really deserves its reputation, but beauty, high cold is understandable!" "Girls can understand this wave of praise? If she is interested in you, she will definitely say, "No, I just watch the high cold, but after a long time, you will find that I am actually quite easy to get along with." "Are you? In that case, let's try to get along. I really want to see what you are like when you are not too cold. Haha! " Look, everything goes with the flow. Chatting with my sister, she ignores you or blackmails you directly. It's all because my sister is not interested in you. In the final analysis, it is her lack of attraction. I used to be like this. I didn't know how to chat with girls, which led me to be 28 years old or single. Later, my friend showed me a secret book "Picking up Girls ~", which Jiang Han loved, and it was really dry. I followed the inside method to pick up girls and relaxed. Practice directly when you learn, and it will work in minutes. 2. The topic of food eating is a common topic, and no one doesn't like it, especially girls. So chatting with girls you just met can start with eating, such as where you have been, what special food you have eaten, and maybe you will find the same hobby! You can also boast that she has taste and is a veritable "foodie". By the way, invite her to dinner next time! For example: use each other's curiosity to ask her out! Man: "Look at the photos you sent in your circle of friends last week to eat hot pot. Do you like hot pot very much? " Woman: "Yes." Man: "I know a good hot pot. Their sauce is very special. I have never eaten in another house. " Woman: "Which one? A little curious. " Man: "Haha, are you free this weekend? I'll take you to eat! " "or: pave the way for future chats and invitations. M: "Do you travel a lot? Food from all over the world is in your circle of friends. Woman: "Ha ha ha exaggeration, I just prefer food. "Man:" Then you must be a professional foodie. I will ask you more about choosing food in the future. " Woman: "No problem. If you want to know where there is delicious food, just ask me. "Do you understand? You'll have an excuse to look for her more often in the future, won't you? ) 3. The topic of wearing is actually a visual animal that doesn't distinguish between men and women, so chatting with a girl you just met can start a chat on the topic of wearing. For example: "Your earrings match your clothes today, and the whole feeling is cool and sexy." "Hey, I changed my hairstyle today, and my curly hair looks smaller." "Today, the color of this dress suits you very well, making your skin whiter and more tender. "In fact, no matter whether your praise is not in place, as long as you pay attention to these small details, it will make you greatly add points in the hearts of girls! But remember, praise is not the purpose, let the other side pay more attention to you and like you! Therefore, while complimenting her, you can also ask the other person to help you look at the clothes you choose, or let her help you choose. On the one hand, you can find out what clothes the other person likes boys to wear, on the other hand, you can let the other person observe you carefully (you must know you first if you want to find clothes that suit you). 4. Talking about hobbies Pleasing a person pays attention to what he likes. Knowing each other's hobbies can give you an advantage in the next date, and active boys are very attractive. Some people may think, what is there to talk about hobbies? Then you are wrong. Hobbies are not for everyone. People with hobbies are mostly interesting, active and love life. Think about your friends, don't you? So how to talk after knowing each other's hobbies? Let me give you a few small examples: Scenario 1: Let the other person have a sense of accomplishment. " Wow, you are so good, you know this. Is there a chance to teach me? ""It's so lucky. I have learned this, but I have almost forgotten it now. You are great, much better than me. "Scenario 2: Find similarities and increase opportunities to get along." You played the piano in primary school. No wonder you have such a good temperament. I have also studied piano for five years, and I can play with four hands when I have the opportunity. ""What kind of books do you like to read? The books I read are very miscellaneous. Maybe I can recommend them to you! " "I heard that you like watching Miyazaki Hayao's animation? I like it, too. It seems that a new book will be published recently. Shall we go and see it together? "Chatting with people you like is not only a pastime, but also an excellent opportunity to enhance feelings.