She said, "No matter how old a woman is, there is still a little girl living in her heart." What should I say?

You answer him, you are a little girl who will never grow up in my heart. I will protect you, I will love you, and I will protect you all my life.

In order to survive, human beings must explore the environment (curiosity), spit out foreign objects that they accidentally eat (nausea), establish social relations (trust), avoid harm (fear), reproduce offspring (love), fight (anger), ask for help (crying), and do things that are beneficial to them repeatedly (joy). In the daily life of primitive human beings, emotion can make human beings automatically seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and make choices that are more conducive to survival. Although anger doesn't look good, in primitive tribes, it can make a person feel scared and build prestige. Shame and pride can urge a person to maintain his social status.

In social life, emotions help us communicate with others (for example, babies can communicate successfully without talking). Affect other people's attitudes towards us. Show goodwill, eg if not out of joy, just smile politely.

Biological explanation

Everyone may experience different emotions in life, and different people also show great individual differences in each emotion. Originally, as far as the existence of the subject is concerned, it is a subjective phenomenon to evaluate the state change of affirmation or negation. However, because it also produces physical manifestations, we can study this point in biology and objectively examine the conditions and mechanisms of feeling. Emotional state changes weakly and continuously, which is called emotion, and changes strongly and violently, which is called emotion (joy, sadness, fear, anger, surprise, etc. ). Because there is a certain unified process of excitement, the body has changed obviously at this time, so it is easy to conduct biological research on many animals other than people, that is, when excited.

Behavioral aspects:

For example, muscles become unable to move at will, or tremble at will, leading to a chaotic state that is usually invisible.

Therefore, as a means of studying excitement in biology. In addition to observing muscle reactions such as expression and posture, people should also measure breathing, pulse, blood pressure, brain waves and skin resistance. The last one is particularly sensitive and effective for the accurate analysis of excitement. This phenomenon is thought to be due to the increase of ion permeability of skin secretory gland cells (sweat gland and mucus gland) caused by the excitation of autonomic nerve center and sympathetic nerve, and the electrical conduction of secretion itself. The so-called "polygraph" is based on this principle.

dialectical relationship

The relationship between emotion and value is subjective and objective, consciousness and existence, the latter is the basic problem of philosophy, so the relationship between value and emotion is also the basic problem of axiology and emotionalism. The relationship between value and emotion is dialectical unity, which is mainly manifested in four aspects.

First of all, emotion is based on value.

Emotion is people's subjective reflection of value. Although there will always be some deviations, even serious deviations and complete inversion in this kind of reflection, on the whole, the changes of emotion are always based on value, which are mainly manifested as follows: the basic state of emotion depends on the basic state of value, the overall scale of emotion depends on the overall scale of value, the scope of emotion depends on the scope of value, the mode of action of emotion depends on the mode of action of value, and the intensity and direction of emotion depend on the size of value. For businessmen, mutually beneficial economic exchanges are the objective basis for maintaining and developing mutual feelings. Without this reciprocity, the feelings between businessmen cannot last. For politicians, political mutual support and cooperation is the objective basis for maintaining and developing feelings. Without this kind of mutual assistance, the feelings between politicians can't last. For young men and women, mutual support and cooperation in work and life is the objective basis for maintaining and deepening love. Without such support and cooperation, the love between men and women cannot last. The friendship between friends mainly depends on their interests. Only by deepening the interest relationship between them can their friendship deepen. If there is a fundamental conflict of interest between them, their feelings will decay sooner or later and eventually become hatred.

Second, the emotional response to value.

Emotion is not completely passive to value, it can produce a certain degree of reaction, mainly as follows:

(1) Emotion can prevent, inhibit, induce, transfer, strengthen or induce people's need for a certain value to a certain extent, and they can choose their own living environment and development direction relatively independently. People sometimes consciously suppress their desire for a certain value. Over time, this lust may really basically disappear, and people's objective demand for this value has indeed changed or shifted. People are usually willing to take the initiative to help those who feel good subjectively, and take the initiative to establish mutually beneficial relations with them, while avoiding those who feel bad subjectively, and even intentionally interrupt the existing mutually beneficial relations; People who work or live in a certain place are unhappy, sometimes they will resign or move, and they can quickly adapt to the new life and working environment.

(2) Driven by emotion, people can react to things and add value to them. This is the fundamental difference between human beings and other animals. Of course, this kind of reaction can't be arbitrarily and infinitely imposed, but it can only be conditional and relatively limited, and it is subject to the decisive role of value on emotion as a whole. People's value creation activities driven by emotion must strictly follow the basic law of value and be carried out within its permitted scope.

Third, the relative independence of emotion.

People's emotions are generated and run in the brain, which is inevitably restricted and interfered by many factors inside the brain, thus deviating from the value it reflects to some extent. This deviation of emotions is the relative independence of emotions, which is mainly manifested in the following aspects:

1. Out of sync in time.

If the form of value changes, it will take some time for the corresponding new emotions to form and develop. In other words, the emergence, development and disappearance of new emotions can't keep up with the emergence, development and disappearance of new values, which needs to be delayed for a period of time. For example, when a stranger suddenly becomes your brother-in-law or brother-in-law, your good feeling for him usually won't be established immediately; People usually miss or miss their old friends who have left or died.

Step 2 measure differences

If the value changes, it is difficult to keep pace with the intensity of emotion. For example, some women don't hate their beloved man very much after being hurt or abandoned by him; On the contrary, some people get angry just because a few words are not speculative, and they will regret it afterwards.

3. Limitations of this approach

The change of value relationship is infinite, but there are emotional reflections.

Girls will be happy if you talk to them like this, right? Because of a girl, this boy will be regarded as her big brother. Alas, there is dependence, dependence and a sense of security, so you should give her a sense of security, so you should be her big brother.