What if you are dissatisfied with the status quo and unable to change it?

First of all, calm yourself down, calm yourself down, calm yourself down and say what you think is important three times. Nowadays, people are impatient in the fast-paced life and general mental state. Even people with a slower pace of life (such as the student party) have games in their lives, including short videos, Weibo and Aidou, all of which are movies and TV series. It can be said that the mood rarely calms down. So, why change yourself first and then calm down? Because people usually make more rational and real decisions when they are calm.

When you calm down, think about what kind of life you want and who you want to be. Only by clarifying this issue can we stimulate the follow-up efforts. Some people may say, I don't understand this question, and the goal is not clear. Anyway, I'm confused So, he quoted Mr. Lei Jun, the founder of Xiaomi handheld, as saying, "So, what are you doing? I don't like it until I find something I like. " This means that if you are not sure about your goal, start from the other side, decide the lifestyle you hate, change your posture and stick to it until you are satisfied.

In other words, although many goals have been set before, they can't persist because of lack of motivation. In other words, you are chasing the girl you like to watch, watching one or two boys, and making him (her) a better motivation than you. We should not underestimate the power of love. I've heard such words. In the youth of many successful men, a woman has hurt him. If you are a friend of the cashier, you should try to give your partner better conditions. Of course, here is an example. Different people have different situations. What I want to say is that if you want to completely change yourself, you must find your own power source.

And, become able to face yourself. Since childhood, we have been learning how to communicate with others, how to know ourselves correctly and how to communicate with ourselves smoothly. Each of us has different moods every day, every month and every year, just like the sunny moon and sunny weather, which are all natural laws. Therefore, it is necessary to unify the mind, so that fatigue will be gone. The development trend is to work and study according to the mentality. When I am in a good mood, I will finish my work more efficiently and passionately. This is a wonderful time, but I will hold myself in my hand, relax myself, and then work and study when I am in a good mood.