Why are there old fools and old dicks? Is that really the case?

In fact, there is not much difference in IQ between the two children. The reason why they feel this way is mainly because Bauer is more eager to please his parents because of the influence of his living environment, which gives people the illusion that Bauer is smart. Families with two babies generally feel that the boss is slow to respond, always likes to be willful and spoiled, and the second is smart and likes to do things very much. Gradually, there is a saying that the boss is stupid and the second is fine.

Actually, it's not. You know, there is usually not much difference in IQ between two babies born to the same parent. However, due to the different living environments of the two children, it will have a great impact on them. Before there were two treasures, the whole family set their eyes on Dabao, which was simply a collection of thousands of pets. After his younger brother and sister, Dabao will think that his love has been separated, which will lead to some rebellious psychology. He wants to express his dissatisfaction in this way and attract the attention of his parents, so Dabao often feels that he is willful and unreasonable.

And many parents are prone to make such mistakes when educating their children. When two children have conflicts, they will point the finger at Dabao and often ask him to let go of his younger brother and sister. Dabao will think that his existence is a mistake and finally choose to break the jar and break the fall. People often say that the palms of their hands are all meat, but most parents can't be absolutely fair. From birth, the second child will face the competition of human feelings and wits. In this process, they will learn how to please their parents and win more favorable feelings. For example, some Bauer likes to sell their cuteness to their mothers.

So don't post it to the children so early? Stupid? The reason why they are in the present situation is mainly due to the educational problems of their parents. Too many differences between parents will make Dabao lose more and more, and make Bauer fall out of favor and become proud. This in itself is a vicious circle. Parents should also review their own problems in the education process.