What do you mean, husband and wife can't take Lao Zi?

Husband and wife live in harmony, they can't grow old together, and their children are tired, so they should cultivate their self-cultivation. Literally, husband and wife have a good relationship, but they can't grow old together. They have fewer children and need to pay more attention to them. They need to cultivate self-cultivation and be kind to others. Is this the result of computer fortune telling? Don't believe this, it's not allowed.