Reflections on the case of killing his wife in Hangzhou

There is no denying that I'm here to rub hot spots, too. Looking at the vast number of netizens and simple friends have expressed their views. I am also like a monkey who is unwilling to be lonely. I want to express my views: first, keep up with the pace of the public; second, beat up Reservoir Dogs; third, promote positive energy.

But before writing, I was still a little nervous, afraid that my thoughts could not keep up with the popular trend of thought, and I might become different if I was not careful. Instead, it became another object of criticism. But I always believe that the eyes of the broad masses are discerning and tolerant. Always have to accept some different voices.

With the details released by the police, the truth of the wife-killing case in Hangzhou seems to have surfaced, and the real murderer has also been arrested by the police. For a time, this murder case became a hot topic in the streets. The reason is nothing more than the reversal from the victim to the perpetrator in the case, the cruelty of killing and then dismembering the body, and the turning point in which the supernatural initially turned into killing. The articles published by netizens and simple friends are nothing more than these: first, women should marry the right person; Second, the importance of money to marriage; Third, the ugliness of human nature. In addition, we can see that in Jane's article, by analyzing the life of the protagonist's name, we can know the fate of two people, confirm the inevitability of this tragedy through their experiences before remarriage, worry about the reasons why young people are even more unwilling to get married through this case, and some people swear to analyze that Xu Guoli is the murderer from the beginning, and so on. Of course, some people are worried about the future growth of their 1 1 year-old daughter. It seems that netizens are really talented, including marriage experts, psychologists, sociologists, fortune tellers, detectives and, of course, more ordinary people in life.

Everyone has his own opinion, which is understandable. But I really hope that this personal view is based on my own analysis, rather than following the trend of most ideas. What is lacking in this era is not the public's thoughts, but independent thoughts.

A few days ago, I saw an article on the official account of WeChat, with the title: Marrying the wrong person will really die. I couldn't help laughing after reading it. Does the author mean that if you marry the right person, you will not die? How can an article with an illogical title like this be convincing? Besides, how to understand marrying the right person? This reminds me of a story in which a Zen master sent three disciples to a cornfield to pick the biggest corn. What kind of corn is the biggest? Or just different people have different opinions. Who can say that once a person chooses a path, he can never turn back? For example, marriage, a person is a lifetime? Like many things, if we don't know what is evil, how can we know what is good? Of course, marriage cannot be tested casually. But in our limited life, there will always be a moment to let us know that this is what we want. Just like the third disciple in the story of picking corn, after picking what he thought was the biggest corn, he told the Zen master without hesitation that it was the biggest corn. Never think about the past and never be afraid of the future. This is eternity.

Some people say that these two couples are the first love, and they meet again after getting married. Then separate and divorce to be together. Some people think that these two people are unfaithful to their marriage, some people think they deserve it, and some people call them love rat love rat. They deserve it. But few people admire their initial intentions together. Personally, in the world of love, it is actually very simple and does not contain too many things. It is based on love. If we want to consider other factors, we can't say that this relationship is not pure, just that it contains impurities. Imagine that even the highest purity gold is only 99.99%. How can we demand the purity of human feelings 100%? In fact, people's first love is the purest. At that time, feelings were not mixed with fame, power, money and others. It can be said that that is the initial heart. But in our world, how many first loves are good from beginning to end? Most of them are desirable. After that, first love became scarce on earth. In most people's minds, it is precisely because the first love is rare, so if the first love of two people finally turns into a positive result, it is definitely impossible. So these two people will definitely not have a good ending. There should be many people who hold this logic, but how many people will question its rationality? Emotion, the focus is "emotion", it is not life, not others, not everything around. Those are all derived from "love" Only in this case, love becomes a tragedy.

In fact, in my heart, I also hope that such a tragedy will never happen again. After all, in this world, although there will be tears, life and death are always unbearable pains for most of us.