Late marriage must be married to rich people, and late marriage can lead a good life.

The eight characters of marrying the rich late

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I saw a report about contemporary love and marriage the other day.

I know a new word-divorce rate, which refers to the ratio of the number of divorced people to the number of married people.

What do you mean? This number will tell you how many people get married and divorce at the same time.

According to statistics, last year, the divorce rate in China was astonishingly high, reaching 38%. In other words, every 100 people get married, and at the same time, 38 people get divorced.

Some time ago, Weibo talked about the topic of lower marriage rate in five years. Brother Kai couldn't help saying: The problem of marriage and love is much more serious than we thought.

In addition, the report also makes detailed statistics on the relationship between GDP and divorce rate in various regions of the country, and finally draws the conclusion: "The more developed the economy, the lower the willingness to get married; The less developed the economy, the more stable the marriage. "

This is a very interesting phenomenon.

To put it bluntly, the richer you are, the later you get married.

The "poor" are more willing to get married, and the "rich" have more capital for divorce.

Then why is this happening?

In fact, these rich people who marry late are not indifferent to love, but unwilling to make themselves too wronged for love.

They don't want to be a clingy person to be with people who have only money but no love;

I don't want to live a gloomy life without material and love future.

So they choose to make money by themselves and give themselves the confidence to pursue love freely.

"Love needs bread" is such a person.

Among them, some people have slowed down the pace of love because of their persistence in making money, so they have to marry late.

Some people, while busy with their careers to improve themselves, suddenly find themselves with more and better choices, and there may be people worthy of their love in the future.

So they are not busy with love, so they choose to marry later.

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Someone in Zhihu posted such a post and asked, "Are we really poor together but not like those people know?"

Anonymous reply to the main reply

My family is not "poor", but there are problems because of money.

Economic pressure makes people have no spare capacity to take care of other people's feelings. As long as money is involved, they are always nervous.

Mother blamed her for her lack of compassion, which made people shudder; I am disgusted that my mother has a bad attitude and finds fault with everything.

Once, they quarreled, and her mother kept crying, just beside her, staring at the TV without any comfort and motionless.

I know for the first time that people can be so cold-blooded because they have no money.

They fell in love, but the pressure of life prevented them from loving.

Now I'm afraid of marriage. I swear, I will earn enough money to get married, and I will never turn marriage into a war because of money.

Yes, some people are addicted to making money and getting married late, not because they really want money, but because money can bring them a sense of security.

For them, in their past lives, they have seen too many love tragedies caused by "no money".

They accepted the warning and armed themselves with money in love.

Over time, when they concentrate on making money, it will inevitably become a little late to meet love.

This is the case with Andy in Ode to Joy 2.

After returning from overseas, I have a successful career. Although I still look young and beautiful, I am also a real late marriage family.

Although she got married late, she really achieved self-reliance and was full of confidence in love.

In the face of her mother-in-law's unreasonable difficulties, she chose not to submit to humiliation, but to openly fight back.

The reason is simple and pure: you can't wronged yourself. As for whether Bao Xiao will leave her forever, she is not worried at all.

Seemingly indifferent, but actually rational.

Andy knows very well that there is nothing wrong with herself and that she doesn't have to give in, because her love is neither cheap nor humble, and she doesn't have to compromise to change herself.

Sometimes, your own strength can really make people feel comfortable in love, even if you don't stay old, you can get away with it.

It gives people the right to choose love or not.

In my opinion, those who work hard to earn money and choose to get married late are pursuing such self-confidence.

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Some people get married late, and only after making money and succeeding in their careers do they find themselves in another world. The past infatuation, the wrong pay, is not worth clinging to, and the one that is worth it is still on the road.

Just like Zhihu, there is another question: Why do people want money?

Both answers topped the second place and got the most praise.

One of the answers is short:

"People should learn to earn money, drive, dress up, have oil in the car, have electricity in the mobile phone and have money in the wallet. After all, the glamorous co-pilot is not as good as holding the steering wheel. "

Interestingly, after reading one of the answers, the respondents who praised the second place clearly felt something.

She said:

"Is the co-pilot than the steering wheel? When you become excellent yourself, you will find that the person sitting in the co-pilot is so inferior. He hurts your heart, tramples on your self-esteem, yells at you when he is slightly unhappy, and punches and kicks you when he is angry. There is no equality between you, only slaves. And you're still attached to him.

You really should become excellent early, so that you can realize how blind you used to be.

Now, someone who is really worth looking forward to appears in front of you. They are all excellent, successful in their careers and have no problem in moral cultivation. Just wait for yourself to discover and wait, who really has a crush on who. Don't be confused, you can wait for the right person quietly, or you can wait for the right love silently. "

Yes, some people work hard and strive to be excellent because they don't want their love to be dominated by money.

When they are truly outstanding, they suddenly look back and suddenly find that the world in front of them has already become magnificent and colorful.

At this point, they have more power to choose, and naturally they don't have to worry. They are waiting for true love.

In Divorce Lawyer, Luo Gu played by Sebrina is also a successful family who got married late.

One of her lines is particularly impressive.

"I'm serious, I'm working hard, so that one day when I'm around the person I love, no matter whether he has money or nothing, I can open my hand and hug him frankly. I don't have to think that I am climbing high when he is rich, and we will not be down and out when he is poor. "

Right?

How many people work hard to make money just to have the right to choose calmly.

Even if the people who excite them are so radiant, they have the confidence and strength to match them.

Even if relatives suddenly become poor one day, they will not be down and out.

Yi Shu said: "People really have to live up to expectations. As soon as the result comes out, the world is happy. "

Life is like this, and so is love.

In 2022, the marriage rate dropped to a low level in five years, and late marriage became popular among people.

Although "the richer you are, the later you get married" is a trend, it doesn't mean that everyone will get married later, let alone that people have lost their desire for love.

Perhaps the only thing it represents is that people try harder to improve themselves, and people hope to pursue their lives more freely, confidently and selectively.

Just like the lyrics in the song "Late Marriage": "I have never thought of being single, but I have a hunch that I will get married in the future."

What we are going to marry in the end is love, not time.

Only when you become better can you have the weight to fight against time.

At this time, you can safely sing the next lyric:

"I'm still waiting, waiting for the only soul in the world."

? End?

: Kai Zi

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The above is related to the eight characters of marrying late and getting rich, and it is about the sharing of marriage. After reading "Life of Late Marriage and Good Marriage", I hope this will help everyone!