Some people say that "everything is predestined, not by people at all". Is it true?/You don't say.

I believe everything has been arranged. From school to work to marriage, there are some things that you really can't get through your own efforts. A lot of things feel like someone is pushing you step by step, and I really can't change it.

My friend has been telling fortune or drawing lots since he was born, which shows that he has no parents.

A friend was adopted as a child. One day, his grandmother was holding him in the sun in the yard. It happened that an old fortune teller passed by his house in the village. The fortune teller took a look at the child and told his friend's grandmother that the child had no parents …

Grandma is very angry and wants to explain a few words. The fortune teller walked very fast and left at once.

As the fortune teller said, there is no parental relationship behind it. First, his adoptive father died, and soon after, his grandmother died. He should have been nine years old by then.

Later, when I grew up, I went to the temple to draw lots in order to ask about my future. The person who cancelled his visa said to him again, Ah, you have no parents' fate, you are young and bitter, and you will have a son in the future.

That year, when I came home during the Spring Festival, the introducer (the middleman who took his father to adopt him) called and said that he had grown up and wanted to know his life experience, so he could go to his house to talk.

At that time, when his uncle knew it, he cursed and said that he would not recognize his relatives when he grew up. If he comes from here, he can only recognize it here. So I didn't go, and it didn't take long to hear the news of the introducer's death.

In fact, my friend also thought about whether to register at the police station or something. Ask, maybe you can ask your parents in those days, but after thinking about it, I gave up. Since there is no fate, it is futile to know each other.

So, since some things are predestined, don't force them. Accept what you can't change and try to create what you can have.

Don't! There is a real thing around me.

My distant cousin in our hometown is very handsome, about 1.78 meters tall. /kloc-at the age of 0/7, he went to the county town to attend a technical school. Who wants to go out to play with one of his classmates after school in the afternoon? Just as riding on a bridge at the corner, a big truck passed by and saw the classmates riding in front. The truck passed by and turned the corner, but he didn't see his cousin riding behind him and ran over him. ...

I thought my cousin would go there, but who would have thought my cousin saved his life! My cousin has had nearly 20 operations. Unfortunately, the doctor said that my cousin's IQ can reach the IQ of a child at most, and he can't take care of himself when he is paralyzed. My uncle and aunt were in pain, and then my uncle and aunt accompanied my son to do rehabilitation together.

After more than 20 years of unremitting efforts, my cousin has been able to walk with crutches, eat by herself and talk clumsily, but she can still communicate with people normally.

What I want to say is that it may be destiny takes a hand that my cousin is disabled by a big car, but my uncle, aunt and cousin's attitude of not accepting fate is artificial! Don't give up!

Some words, people's life is doomed, it is undeniable that some people do touch the light of fate, and some people just have smooth sailing and everything goes well.

However, there is also a saying that "my life is not determined by heaven", which is a true portrayal of my attitude towards life. I used my tenacity and persistence to write the highlights of my life!