I like a girl for three and a half years, but I haven't been able to be together ~ ~ Can someone help me figure out whether we can be together?

What you said is very touching, but I think the problem between you is that this girl may not feel like a lover to you.

I also think it's better for you to be friends, because even if you wait for her for many years, she may not accept you. The feelings between men and women are very subtle, and sometimes it is really unclear.

By the way, there is an article that suits you very well.

Once upon a time, there was a vowel temple. Every day, many people burn incense and worship Buddha, and the incense is very strong. On the beam in front of the Yuanyin Temple, a spider made a web. Because it is smoked by incense and devout worship every day, spiders have Buddha nature. After 1000 years of practice, the Buddha nature of spiders has increased a lot.

Suddenly one day, the Buddha came to the vowel temple and was very happy to see the incense here. When I left the temple, I suddenly looked up and saw the spider on the beam. The Buddha stopped and asked the spider, "It's really fate that you and I finally met. Let me ask you a question. What have you learned after practicing for more than 1000 years? How about it? " The spider was very happy to see the Buddha and agreed quickly. The Buddha asked, "What is the most precious thing in the world?" The spider thought for a moment and replied, "The most precious things in the world are' not getting' and' losing'." The Buddha nodded and left.

In this way, after another thousand years, spiders are still practicing on the beams of Yuanyin Temple, and their Buddha nature has greatly increased. One day, the Buddha came to the temple again and said to the spider, "You are all right. Do you have a deeper understanding of the problem a thousand years ago? " The spider said, "I think the most precious things in the world are' not getting' and' losing'." Buddha said, "Think again and I'll come to you again."

Another thousand years later, one day, a strong wind blew a drop of dew onto the spider web. The spider looked at the dew, saw it crystal clear and beautiful, and suddenly she fell in love with it. Spiders are happy to look at manna every day. It thinks this is the happiest day in three thousand years. Suddenly, a strong wind blew away the dew. The spider suddenly felt that she had lost something and felt very lonely and sad. At this time, the Buddha came again and asked the spider, "Spider, have you ever thought about this question for a thousand years: What is the most precious thing in the world?" The spider thought of manna and said to the Buddha, "The most precious things in the world are' not getting' and' losing'." Buddha said, "Well, since you have such an understanding, I will let you go to earth once."

In this way, the spider reincarnated into the butler and became a rich woman. Her parents named her spider. In a blink of an eye, the spider was sixteen years old and became a slim girl. She is very beautiful and lovely.

On this day, Staff Sergeant Lang Ganlu, the champion of the new department, the emperor decided to hold a celebration banquet in his back garden. Many young girls came, including Spider and Princess Changfeng, the little princess of the emperor. Champion Lang performed poems and songs during the dinner, which was very talented, and all the girls present were impressed by him. But the spider is not nervous or jealous at all, because she knows that this is the marriage given to her by the Buddha.

A few days later, as luck would have it, when the spider accompanied her mother to burn incense and worship Buddha, manna accompanied her. After burning incense and worshiping Buddha, the two elders were talking. Spider and manna came to the corridor to chat. Spider is very happy, and finally can be with the person he likes, but manna doesn't show love. The spider said to Ganlu, "Don't you remember what happened on the spider web of Yuanyin Temple sixteen years ago?" Ganlu was surprised and said, "Spider-woman, you are beautiful and attractive, but your imagination is a little rich." Then I left with my mother.

Spider came home and thought, since the Buddha arranged this marriage, why don't you remember it? Why doesn't manna have feelings for me?

A few days later, the emperor summoned the new champion Ganlu and asked her to marry Princess Changfeng. Spider and Prince Cao Zhi got married. The news came as a bolt from the blue to the spider. She thinks differently. The Buddha did this to her. If she doesn't eat or drink these days, her soul will be hatched and her life is at stake. When Prince Cao Zhi knew it, he rushed over, threw himself on the bed and said to the dying spider, "That day, among all the girls in the back garden, I fell in love with you at first sight, and I begged my father for permission. If you die, then I will not live. " He picked up his sword and prepared to commit suicide.

At this time, the Buddha came and said to the soul of the soon-to-hatch spider, "Spider, have you ever wondered who brought you nectar (sweet deer)?" It was brought by the wind (Princess Changfeng), and finally it was taken away by the wind. Ganlu belongs to Princess Changfeng, who is just an episode in your life. Prince Cao Zhi is a grass in front of Yuanyin Temple. He looked at you for three thousand years and admired you for three thousand years, but you never looked down. Spider, I ask you again, what is the most precious thing in the world? " After listening to these truths, the spider seems to understand everything at once. She said to the Buddha: "The most precious thing in the world is not' not getting' and' losing', but happiness that can be grasped now." Just after that, the Buddha left and the spider's soul came back. When she opened her eyes and saw Prince Cao Zhi who was about to commit suicide, she immediately put down her sword and hugged him deeply. ...

The story is over. Can you understand what the spider said at the last minute? "The most precious thing in the world is not' not getting' and' losing', but happiness that can be grasped now.