Why do you find it difficult to take care of children? But no one helped me, so I had to bite the bullet and bring it myself?

Needless to say, raising children must be the hardest. As the old saying goes, getting a daughter-in-law is a happy event, but having a child is a trivial matter. It is difficult to eat and drink water. Children are too young to talk to adults. They just cry and make noise, which is very annoying. The young mother doesn't know what to do to calm her child down.

Although the child is still young, I don't feel wronged at all. They cry when they are hungry, when they are thirsty, when their diapers are wet, when they defecate, and when they are sick. Four hours of breastfeeding, two hours of water feeding, eating and drinking urine, can't eat well and sleep well. Every mother who has raised a child has experienced severe crying. These cries require young parents to make correct judgments on the reasons for their children's crying and take correct measures. Do you think it is not difficult without help?

After six months of immunization, the child should be ill. Today, he has a cold and a cough. Tomorrow, he is most worried about his parents. Don't you think it's hard to run between home and the hospital with your child in your arms and no one to help you? Young parents are heartbroken for the healthy and happy growth of their children. Children can talk and walk, and parents can finally communicate with their children in words. With other troubles coming, it's time to make trouble for you. Today, they cry for their children, and tomorrow they will break the neighbor's glass. In short, happiness is accompanied by bitter brain children growing up day by day.

Motherly love is great. I gave everything for my child's mother, and no one helped me when my child was growing up. Do you think it is not difficult to take care of this child?

Hello, I am Xiao Liu! In response to this question, I want to talk about my own thoughts: when I first became a mother, I encountered such a situation. A person with children, a person for the healthy growth of children, often exhausted. There will be times of collapse, and there will be many, many problems and big problems. To tell the truth, it's really tiring to take care of children alone, but why insist? Because of love!

I remember that I brought up the child myself, and no one helped me at home (my mother-in-law is in good health, and I don't want her to take it, even if she is in good health). Were you tired then? Of course I'm tired! But every day, watching children grow up little by little under their hard care, there will really be unspeakable happiness! I think all the efforts are worth it!

The above is just a personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it. thank you