What are the rules of modern counseling?

The traditional mentoring relationship is second only to the father-son relationship, that is, as the saying goes, "My parents gave birth to me, and I was taught to be a teacher" and "Being a teacher is like being reborn". In some industries, once they enter the teacher's school, they are all disciplined by the master, and parents have no right to interfere or even meet. Establishing such a great relationship naturally requires grand customs and etiquette to confirm and protect. Generally, mastering etiquette is divided into four procedures.

First, ancestor worship and industry protector. Show respect for this industry, show piety to this industry, and pray for the "blessing" of ancestors to make their studies successful.

Second, pay homage to the teacher. Generally, master and apprentice sit in their seats, and the disciples kowtow three times, then kneel down and send red envelopes and posts to the teachers.

Third, the master lectured, announced the rules and called the roll. Generally speaking, giving lectures is to educate disciples to respect their ancestors, obey the rules, and encourage them to be innocent and study hard.

Get along with modern tutors.

First, choose teachers carefully. Set an observation period first. The master's team has always been a mixture of good and evil, and it is easy to learn from the teacher and be deceived. Even if you meet a kung fu master, due to various factors, many teachers can't teach a master all their lives, so it's no use following him.

Whether our teacher's history is brilliant, whether the master's kung fu, character, personality and cultivation are too conservative, whether he is good at practicing but not good at teaching, and which high-level apprentices he has taught are all key factors related to your future study, which need to be understood and observed.

Second, we must understand the original intention. What you really want to learn and what you want. Health preservation, internal skills, boxing, pushing hands, Sanshou, ... are all outstanding cultural heritages of the motherland, and continuous cultivation is unfathomable, which can be chosen according to different physical conditions, interests and other conditions.

In addition, there are many differences in the pursuit of kung fu, leisure and entertainment. Some people are healthy for leisure and entertainment. Later, when they saw that this elder brother was good at boxing and that younger brother was good at Sanshou, they became jealous, and then they were dissatisfied with the master and forgot their original intention.

Third, we should respect ourselves and others. Once you learn from the teacher, you should always respect the teacher first in various occasions. Respecting the teacher means respecting yourself. Even in the development and changes of various relationships in our school, new situations have emerged, which makes us have to choose to leave, but also know how to advance and retreat in an orderly manner and maintain our last grace and dignity.