Ruan:/kloc-became famous at the age of 0/6. At the age of 25, he drank poisoned porridge. After his death, five fans committed suicide and 300,000 people were buried with him.

1in the early morning of March 8, 935, a controversial woman was slapped by her husband and committed suicide by putting three bottles of sleeping pills in her porridge, but her husband didn't dare to speak out for his reputation and watched her die. Her death shocked the whole Shanghai beach, and then five fans committed suicide and 300 thousand people buried her.

She is Ruan Yuling.

Ruan can be said to be the representative figure of China's silent film, but she is such a popular actress, but her life was bumpy and she finally chose to commit suicide by taking poison.

What did she go through and why did she choose to commit suicide at her peak?

Ruan, formerly known as Ruan Fenggen. 19 10 was born in a poor family in Shanghai. His father is a worker in Shanghai Pudong Asia Oil Warehouse. But when Ruan was 6 years old, his father suffered from tuberculosis due to overwork and eventually died. After my father died, my mother took Ruan to a large family named Zhang as a maid.

Perhaps knowing the importance of culture, the mother sent her daughter Ruan to a private school to study, and changed her name to Ruan in order to get her daughter out of the lower class. Because Master Zhang is the principal of Chongde Girls' School, his mother begged Master Zhang for help and sent Ruan to Chongde Girls' School for a new education at half price.

If Ruan studies hard at school, he will definitely turn over and enter the upper class in the future. But unexpectedly, she fell in love and neglected her studies. At this time, Ruan would never have thought that this man would bring her a lifetime of pain, and even eventually let her go to the road of death. This is Zhang Damin.

He is the fourth young master of the Zhang family, six years older than Ruan. Different from others' ridicule, Ruan never looked down on her because she was a servant's daughter, and even quietly pursued her, while Ruan even left Chongde Girls' School in order to be together.

But paper can't wrap fire after all. When Zhang Damin and Ruan were known by the Zhang family, they drove Ruan and their mother away. And for Ruan, I will not hesitate to fight with my family and find a house outside to let Ruan and her mother stay.

You know, Ruan was only 15 years old then. She was deeply moved by Zhang Damin, and from then on, the two began to live together.

At first, it was good for Ruan. Besides sweet words, he often gives her gifts. Just when Ruan thought he had found someone he could trust for life, his unexpected nature was gradually exposed.

Zhang Damin is a member of a big family. He has no ability to make money at all, and he likes to have fun. At first, the living expenses were paid by the family every month. However, after his parents died, he lost his financial resources, but he still wandered around casinos and dance halls, regardless of Ruan's life and death. On the contrary, Ruan must find ways to make money to support his mother and adopted daughter, and others are wasting their time every day.

1926, 16-year-old Ruan was admitted to a star film company, renamed Ruan, and officially embarked on the road of performing arts. In the same year, Ruan starred in his first film "Nominal Husband and Wife", and then appeared in many films such as Monument to Blood and Tears, Baiyun Pagoda, Gadgets and Goddess.

Most of Ruan's characters are very sad. In that silent film era, with her superb acting skills, she vividly interpreted the sad women and was even called the "silent film queen".

With his acting career, Ruan has completely achieved economic independence. But at this time, instead of getting rid of Zhang Damin, she met the second man in her life, Tang Jishan.

1932, the "November 28th Incident" broke out, and Ruan went to Hong Kong to escape the war. At a party, he met Tang Jishan, a wealthy businessman in the tea business. At that time, Tang Jishan already had a wife, but he still pursued Ruan without hesitation. In fact, Ruan didn't agree with Tang Jishan's pursuit at first. However, Tang Jishan, who is rich and powerful, has invested heavily in Ruan's Lianhua Film Studio and become a major shareholder.

In order to get Ruan, Tang Jishan bought her a three-story building on Xinzha Road. At this time, Ruan could no longer resist Tang Jishan's sweet words and material temptations, and finally broke up with Tang Jishan.

While Ruan and Tang Jishan were madly in love, they received a letter from Tang Jishan's ex-wife, which said, "See me today and see you tomorrow. Tang Jishan is not a good person. " If Ruan stopped at this time and cut off contact with Tang Jishan, perhaps there would be no subsequent tragedy. But at this point, she has been confused by Tang Jishan's sweet words. In the face of advice, Ruan didn't listen at all, and even moved to the three-story building that Tang Jishan gave her, and the two began to live together.

At this point, Zhang Damin was penniless. Seeing that Ruan broke up with himself and threw himself into Tang Jishan's arms, he felt resentful in his heart, so he found Ruan and made a scene, proposing that Ruan give himself 400 yuan living expenses every month to let her go. In fact, I have no feelings for Ruan at this time. All he wants is money.

Tang Jishan grasped this point of Zhang Damin and negotiated to give him 100 yuan every month for two years. If you don't agree, you won't even get this 100 yuan. Finally, an agreement was reached with Ruan.

Like many feelings, Tang Jishan took good care of Ruan at first and loved him very much. But slowly, his playboy nature began to be exposed. He often beat and scolded Ruan, and even shut her out and refused to let her in. But this is not the saddest thing for Ruan. The saddest thing is that Tang Jishan cheated on her again, and it was none other than Ruan's good friend.

After a change of heart, Tang Jishan began to beat and scold Ruan more and more, and the affectionate three-story building began to make Ruan extremely afraid and cold.

Nguyen is slowly becoming the next one at this time.

In other words, the ending was worse than that of Zhang Zhiyun.

1934, Ruan took over the movie "New Woman". Frustrated Ruan was in urgent need of emotional comfort, so he got closer and closer to the director Cai Chusheng. But unlike Tang Jishan, Cai Chusheng is married. For the sake of family and reputation, he didn't go with Ruan.

Ruan Zheng, whose feelings have been frustrated repeatedly, is approaching death step by step, and the last straw that crushed her is the film "New Woman" being filmed.

The film "New Woman" mainly tells the story of Wei Ming, an intellectual woman, who, after her marriage failed, relied on her own efforts and her daughter's strong life, but eventually suffered from the hardships of life and all kinds of gossip, and finally committed suicide in anger.

Another character in the story is very eye-catching, that is, the reporter. It is precisely because the reporter created all kinds of false news that the heroine died with hatred.

This film profoundly reflects the image of journalists in real life, but because it is so real, many journalists are not satisfied after the film is broadcast. Several journalists, led by Cho Joon-Ho, Hua Qian and Jin Huating, thought that the characters in the film insulted the reporter's image and jointly proposed to the Shanghai Journalists Association to discuss how to deal with this matter.

Under the oppression of journalists from all sides, Lianhua Company had to delete the clips of journalists. Things should have ended here, but unexpectedly, the reappearance of a person made these reporters take aim at Ruan again. This is Zhang Damin.

It turns out that I have been worried about Ruan's departure, and I no longer meet the requirement of 100 yuan per month, and I jumped out to accuse Ruan. He denied divorcing Ruan, said Ruan and Tang Jishan were related to Jane, and accused Ruan of stealing property and giving all the money to Tang Jishan. Finally, Ruan and Tang Jishan were taken to court for forming a party with Jane.

You know, in those days, tongjian was a big crime. In order to avoid trouble, Ruan kept silent. However, Tang Jishan disagreed, thinking that he had been slandered, and asked Ruan to clarify. Finally, Ruan declared in the newspaper that when he was with Tang Jishan, the economy had long been independent.

But a paper statement, how can you resist the outside gossip? People began to accuse Ruan and Tang Jishan of being Jane's wives. Tang Jishan became angry from embarrassment, took it out on Ruan, and beat, scold and humiliate became a common occurrence.

Tang Jishan's vilification, abuse and abuse, as well as all kinds of foul language from the outside world, made Ruan breathless. She wanted to escape, to leave, to talk to someone, but everyone was cynical about her. Where does anyone really understand and love her?

On March 7th, 1935, Ruan and Tang Jishan, who have separated from each other, came home for dinner. At the banquet, Ruan, who has always been cautious, began to talk and laugh. When he left, he kissed every colleague.

Although everyone noticed Ruan's abnormality, no one thought that this time, it turned out to be Ruan's last farewell.

After returning home, Ruan and Tang Jishan had another fierce quarrel, and Tang Jishan slapped Ruan in the face. The collapsed Ruan had nowhere to vent, and her inner despair was extreme.

1in the early morning of March 8, 935, she left two suicide notes, poured three bottles of sleeping pills into porridge and took poison to commit suicide, ending her life at the age of 25.

It is said that when Ruan took medicine, Tang Jishan was nearby, but he didn't stop him. Even after taking the medicine, Ruan dared not send it to a big hospital, but moved to a remote Japanese clinic, which delayed the best rescue opportunity and eventually led to Ruan's death.

The most exasperating thing is that, in order to hide people's eyes and ears, Tang Jishan also forged a suicide note, creating a "scary" public opinion and shirking Ruan's death to the pressure of public opinion.

At this time, although Liang Saizhen also participated in forging the suicide note, he also saw the true face of Tang Jishan. In order not to follow in the footsteps of Ruan, she published two real Ruan suicide notes, which were left to Tang Jishan and.

In the suicide note to Tang Jishan, Ruan wrote: "If you hadn't hit me that night and hit me again tonight, I probably wouldn't have done this." At the last moment of her life, the helpless Ruan entrusted her mother and adopted daughter to Tang Jishan.

Ruan wrote in his suicide note that he was forced to die and regretted not being a competitor of the two. However, it is too late.

Ruan's death shocked the whole Shanghai. At the funeral, many big names in Shanghai carried coffins for her, nearly 300,000 people came to see her off, and even five fans committed suicide, saying that Ruan was dead and there was no point in living.

After Ruan died, he remained unrepentant and even used Ruan's ex-husband status to make money. The year after Ruan's death, Hong Kong director Shen made a film about Ruan, Who's Wrong, and Zhang Damin introduced it. But the money earned in this way will not last long after all. Zhang Damin was still poor and eventually died of pneumonia at the age of 36.

Zhang Damin died of illness, and Tang Jishan didn't get a good end. After Ruan's death, Tang Jishan married another wife named Wang Youjia. Wang Youjia is not an ordinary person. She was a great beauty and social butterfly in the Republic of China, and graduated from Cambridge University majoring in drama. The ex-husband is Luo Longji, the founder of NLD, who married Tang Jishan after divorce.

After marrying Wang Youjia, Tang Jishan still couldn't change his playboy nature, and finally they chose to divorce. After the divorce, Tang Jishan's business was also very bad, because he was cheated into bankruptcy and finally died in the street.

Some people say that according to Ruan's ability, you can support yourself completely, but why should you rely on men to live? Maybe all this is inseparable from her origin.

Born in poverty, my father died young, and the only person I can rely on is my mother. However, my mother repeatedly told her, "Don't say that you are the daughter of a servant outside, because you will be looked down upon by others." Even in Ruan's most difficult time, her mother not only failed to help her, but also often said, "It's all fate".

Is it that the mother doesn't love her daughter? Of course not. The reason for this is that I am at the bottom of society, and many things are very helpless, and I can only blame life. This also directly led to Ruan's inferiority complex. Even though she earned enough money, she still felt helpless and insecure. She can only rely on men for comfort.

Ruan once said in the movie "New Woman": "How I want to be a new woman, a new woman who can get rid of her own destiny, but I am too weak."

Yes, Ruan was too self-abased and weak all her life, and pinned her life on men. But in the end, no one cherished and loved her, instead, she was humiliated and scolded.

Ruan is a tragedy of an era, and her story also warns many women that they must be independent, love themselves, and cannot pin their happiness on men. Only in this way will the tragedy not repeat itself!