Buddha said that extramarital affairs were predestined.

1, extramarital affairs are predestination in previous lives: Buddha said that the predestination of extramarital affairs is due to various reasons, and the reasons are very complicated. Couples are destined for generations. I like to investigate the improper love, responsibility, marriage attitude, morality and so on. Getting married is a very cautious decision. If I decide to cheat, I will definitely choose divorce. Because I'm sorry about my original match. Just like the traditional western wedding ceremony-[I will take care of each other, love her, protect her and tolerate her in sickness and in poverty ...] This is an oath. Personally, I am more serious and cautious about taking the oath. When I got married, I promised my other half that I would never leave, but I ended up having an affair. I broke my oath, and I don't deserve to be an honest, upright and trustworthy person ... (The above remarks belong to my 2 1 year-old, unmarried. ) My mistress in this life is the original match of my last life. I have read Le Jia's book, if analyzed from the perspective of personality. People who have a passive affair are generally green, people who have an active affair are generally red, and yellow is rational+controlling desire. Everything is based on interests. The rest is blue. Blue is a person who is cautious, restrained and respects vows and rules. Generally speaking, he can't accept cheating. & To understand a person, we need to know what he wants, and understand his innermost desires and needs. One's own personality, family education, social atmosphere and mode of thinking will all affect a person. In short, people who understand the twelve causes and the four noble truths will certainly cultivate their own concentration. In order to surpass the six divisions in the wheel of karma, we must break the desire of men and women and adhere to the principles of abstinence, wisdom and no omission. Emotion is a combination of multiple conditions, which is a causal method, a promising method and a birth and death method. False is not true. If you regard love as a lifelong pursuit, you can't be called a wise man if you can't let it go. Buddha said that extramarital affairs were predestined. 2. Extramarital affairs are the fate of a previous life: what was the cause of extramarital affairs in a previous life? Occasionally listening to a sad song, tears will unconsciously spin in my eyes. But as long as we look up at the sky gently and take a deep breath, tears will drop into the deep ditch like river water. Sometimes I think, if there is a chance to save those tears that flow quickly but don't flow into the container, I'm afraid we won't worry about drought in one year, right? 3. Extramarital affairs are predestined in previous lives: Is extramarital affairs predestined in previous lives? People have no previous lives, and extramarital affairs are emotional infidelity, betrayal of marriage and betrayal of wife. The idea of being doomed in a previous life is just an excuse for extramarital affairs. Buddha said why he became a lover. 4. Extramarital affairs are the fate of a previous life: Buddha said that lovers in this life are husband and wife in a previous life, right? From the perspective of Buddhism, there are many connections between people. The unfinished love in my last life, will it continue in this life? There are many unclear and ambiguous places in people's destiny. If they can meet, it is fate. If we are separated, it is fate. First, the Buddha said that people will meet in this life because of the unfinished fate in the previous life. Buddha said, looking back 500 times in previous lives, this life passed by. You said that it takes 500 times to look back at past lives in this life to get the same feeling. Causes and consequences of extramarital affairs in previous lives. In the interpretation of Buddhism, only by looking back 500 times in previous lives can you get a pass in this life. In other words, it is not easy for people to meet, so we should cherish it when we meet. This is the fate between people. For a person, it is 500 times to look back at the past life, in order to get the possibility of interdependence in this life. There are so many people in the world that the possibility of two people falling in love is almost one in a billion. It seems that there is no fate between two people. What should I do if I meet them? Quantum entanglement of unfinished people. Buddha said, looking back 500 times in the past life, only once in this life. You said that I prayed in front of the Buddha for 500 years for this meeting in this life. The lover I contacted every day suddenly died. Two people can have a entanglement, it must be that there is some kind of will between them. Buddha said, looking back 500 times in previous lives, we can have each other in this life. This extension of mutual affection has long been a time when we can't be alone. The other person will tell you when you don't know it. It took the other person 500 years to meet Xiangyun in front of the Buddha. Between two people, if you want to meet each other, you have to wait a long time to see the Buddha. It is difficult for men and women who have sex to break up. Second, Buddhism pays attention to reincarnation, and all encounters in the world are reunions after a long separation. Buddhism has always paid attention to reincarnation, that is, if a person dies in this life, then he will be reincarnated and become another person in this world, so that he can pass on to each other in this life without having broken wishes in previous lives. This is the so-called reunion after a long separation. Is extramarital affairs predestined in previous lives? Maybe it's "how can we meet if we don't owe each other?" The person who has been making you tired all your life may be the person who has been taking care of you all your life. The fate between people is always accumulated in this cycle, and the accumulation of mutual affection between people is the fetters of this life. How lucky you will be if you meet someone you love in this life. This relationship must be doomed love. Third, if a person's obsession is deep, then the affair in the past life will continue in this life. In fact, I still believe in one thing, that is, "the unfinished relationship in previous lives can continue in this life." This is a person's obsession. If this obsession is deep, I can hope that this feeling can be passed on to this life. If there is not enough love, there will be an affair in this life. Couples are actually meant to be. When you meet someone who loves you, you don't agree, you do it and cherish it. This is the meaning of love between two people. Is extramarital affairs predestined? Buddha said that extramarital affairs were predestined. 2 1. Extramarital affairs were predestined in previous lives: Is extramarital affairs predestined? Sometimes feelings depend on fate. Extramarital affairs can also be said to be fate, but whether it is destiny takes a hand depends on personal choice. Extramarital love is an unacceptable thing, and most people find it difficult to talk about it. After all, it is not recognized by the public. If you really want to be responsible, you should be responsible. See if you are willing to abandon your family. Can parents survive this? Buddha said that extramarital affairs were predestined. 2. Extramarital affairs are the fate of previous lives: Buddha said how to know that marriage has arrived, and Buddha said that extramarital affairs are also the fate of adultery. In the law of causality, adulterers are the most serious, and their punishment is particularly fierce. Especially between couples, if they divorce each other and then get married, according to the law of causality, at the end of their lives, their bodies will be split in two. Because there is a relationship between the two sides before death, the karma after death shows that there is a big saw sawing people from the top of their heads to their toes. How many times did you commit adultery before your death, how many copies did you cut after your death, how many times did you get married before your death, and how many copies did you get after your death? Even everyone has a little. So, what's wrong with separation? It's not easy to get it piecemeal, and I'm afraid I can't get it back after hundreds of billions of robberies at this time, and my spirit will be disabled, rot with the vegetation and become a ruthless plant. Naturally dispersed, it is not easy to be a sentient being. Even if you can become a sentient being, such as a person, you can become 84,000 mosquitoes, but it is not easy to reunite those 84,000 mosquitoes in a tree. Most mosquitoes have become mosquitoes again, emerging, living and dying. They never knew that they were sleeping together and returned to the right. As the saying goes,' If you lose your life, you will never come back'. Don't be afraid if you can deeply understand its meaning. The wonderful old monk revealed that the mistress of this life is the original match of previous lives. When you have an affair, after death, your god knowledge (commonly known as soul) will be divided into half and combined with the other half. You have had two extramarital affairs, and your divine knowledge will be divided into half and the other half. If you have three extramarital affairs, divide them into three, and so on. The more extramarital affairs, the more divided you are, and your subjective spirit will be disabled. If you want to get back together, it's even harder. The deity, who is half-combined with the other party, was born bisexual and had a low IQ when he was given another chance to be a man after going to hell. Not only did he suffer, but he was also discriminated against by others. Therefore, people who convert to Buddhism must break evil and cultivate good, and don't think that supporting monks to print scriptures can lead to bliss and rest easy. Buddha said that extramarital affairs were predestined. 3 Buddha friend asked: But every time I break up, my heart is very painful. Is there any mantra that can help end this relationship? Is this relationship destiny takes a hand? Master Miao She replied: These are the karma we planted in the past. Now, it's not destiny takes a hand, but it's not without reason. Because some of us feel destined, let's go to work! We have moral standards in life. This kind of extramarital affair is against human relations. This is also when you get what you deserve, you will add new evil causes and be more painful in the future. In fact, every time you break up, the pain you feel inside has already paid off. It is very troublesome to owe this kind of emotional debt, and the consequences will be tragic in the future. This is the result of going to hell. So you must make up your mind to end it. Because although there was a cause in the past, the cause of the past was the cause of lust, the cause of life and death, the cause of depravity and evil, and the cause of bad. We're not saying that chanting can end this relationship. First of all, we need to know this truth. Feelings are actually circular, which is our external expression of lust. Then what are you going to say? Actually, you can read Guanyin Bodhisattva. Because avalokitesvara has such desire, for all sentient beings with heavy lust, saying her name can eliminate lust very correspondingly. Your desire has faded, so your pain in this respect will naturally be alleviated. You read the name of Guanyin Bodhisattva and pray for Guanyin Bodhisattva to bless you and let you get rid of this emotional pain, that's all. You can also give it back to the other party and let him get rid of this emotional entanglement. You must make an oath that you will never have such a dirty relationship with any sentient beings from now on. You must have a clean legal relationship. Make a big wish to turn all karma into pure karma, and then everyone will die in the western paradise and become Bodhi's family. You made this wish and prayed wholeheartedly for the blessing of avalokitesvara. Every day, you should give yourself a certain number of requirements to recite the name of the Bodhisattva and do your homework in a down-to-earth manner, so that this problem can be solved. Amitabha!