How to improve your love skills? Nine principles of successful love.

So how do you have a successful relationship?

Pursuing girls is an art, and it's a learning worthy of lifelong study, because love and marriage are the second mission of life. I have the following feelings:

First, chase girls when they are in trouble.

A friend of mine often goes to a Sichuan restaurant for dinner, and one day he suddenly finds a beautiful waitress in the Sichuan restaurant. What's going on here? This small shop is very humble. I used to recruit waiters, but no one came to apply. By chatting with the boss's wife, he learned that the girl was from Guizhou. It turned out that she went to find a net friend. As a result, after arriving in Guangzhou, the netizen didn't answer the phone. The girl had no choice but to stay in the hotel for a few days, spend almost all her money and come out to look for a job.

This friend thinks this girl is nice and wants to make friends with her. And this girl is a stranger, isolated from the world, so they soon become friends who talk about everything.

Men tell fortune when they fail, and women fall in love when they fail.

Second, let girls take the initiative.

After friends and girls get familiar with each other, they try to go further but find there is nothing they can do. The girl turned down all his invitations, such as going out for dinner and going to the movies.

One day, this friend was on a business trip with a suitcase and happened to pass by the hotel. The girl suddenly became very sad after seeing it.

A few days later, when he came back from a business trip and went to a restaurant for dinner, the girl immediately showed great enthusiasm for him. So he casually asked the girl to go out to play after work, and the girl actually agreed. Later, they naturally came together.

He asked me why.

I told him that girls are used to getting it in the face of constant pursuit, but they will guard against it and hope to get more. When the other party suddenly hints to quit in some way, girls are worried about losing, so they will cherish each other and take active measures. Therefore, superb love skills are wave-like, not linear.

Third, it is useless to be glib.

In order to enhance their ability to win the hearts of girls, many boys have read many books and learned many methods, especially praise. But in fact, the effect is not good, but it will make people feel that this person is glib and unreliable.

Girls have seen that kind of flirting. When boys say the last sentence, girls can say the next one. You still have to have the necessary words, but if you expect words to succeed in love, you will be disappointed.

Every girl's inner needs are different, so there is no universal saying. Only those who really understand the girl's inner situation can say what touches her heart.

Of course, if it is effective, otherwise how can it be called a professional? Let me introduce it to you.

Fourth, after catching up with girls, we should bind them as soon as possible.

If two people determine the relationship, we should try to make their lives overlap, because excellent girls often have more opportunities to be noticed, so there are many opportunities to be tempted. Once the relationship is confirmed, it is necessary to appear in his circle of friends and let others know that this girl already has a boyfriend. Forget it, and don't introduce friends. Even if girls want to find another spare tire, they will have scruples.

If conditions permit, two people live together. In this way, most of the spare time of girls can be mastered by boys, avoiding the possibility of complications.

Greenland Zhang Yuting can have an affair with her boss and get pregnant, which is of course a matter of personal morality. But there is an objective reason that her husband is not around. Let a beautiful and vain wife fly thousands of miles away. Isn't such a man just making wedding clothes for others?

I have mastered her time and space, so isn't she yours?

Fifth, never lick the dog.

Didn't lick the dog before. Dog licking was born in the 1980s. Licking the dog is active and unconditional. His biggest injury is not that his previous efforts will not be rewarded, but that he will be used and trampled. The most typical one is Wang. If you find that when you are fine, the other person shows high cold. Then let go. There is no chance.

Even if you lick enough, and the other person agrees to associate with you or even get married, he will only look at factors other than you, such as status and wealth, not you. Ma Rong and Zhang Yuting are used to licking dogs.

Individual women don't want to fall in love and get married at all, even homosexuals, even hate men, are licking their eyes. Maybe they will dig a hole for you.

I have a friend who is a writer. When working in a newspaper, she found that the designer was an unmarried older woman, so she felt itchy and was forced by him to chase her, and they finally got married. But it has been disharmony, and the woman hates him very much. Because of physical and emotional reasons, she once decided not to marry for life. Having a child is not healthy, and I hate him more. I have been married for many years and divorced.

Sixth, girls don't return to WeChat, which means they refuse you.

Girls don't like to return to WeChat, which means they are not interested in you. In this way, they inject negative energy into you.

The purpose is to make you retreat from difficulties, and don't cut yourself off. Learning to reject men is a basic skill for women to survive 1. Otherwise the football field will turn into a rotten vegetable field.

Why is this happening? Is the girl really so heartless? Don't!

Because your early words didn't touch her heart, her heart was closed to you!

When giving sales training to female salespeople. We have taught WeChat dialogue skills.

First, reply should use two words. Commonly used are: yes, not bad, not bad. Thanks, I'm busy.

Second, inject negative energy into non-target customers: set his WeChat not to be disturbed; /kloc-reply in 0/0 minutes.

Third, the conversation is serious: it is very unacceptable to talk only about work-related and personal things and stop immediately.

Dear friend, if you chat with a girl through WeChat, when she treats you in the above way, she actually treats you as a worthless customer!

Seventh, we should bomb indiscriminately at first, and then brake in time.

Boys are male animals. When they see a new opposite sex, they instinctively show strong interest. At this time, the mood is high and the work efficiency is strengthened. Fully express yourself, hoping to attract the attention of the opposite sex, and finally close the relationship between two people.

In this way, some people have eliminated the psychology of guarding against the opposite sex in a very short time and entered an intimate relationship.

Some people try hard and find that the other party's reaction is not obvious enough. I felt that the other party didn't like me, and it was useless to work too hard, so I gave up.

In the courtship process, men also calculate the input-output ratio.

Most women enjoy being pursued by men. Because it means more free resources can be obtained, which can lengthen the process that women like to pursue very much. Although some women don't like to establish intimate relations with men, they enjoy being pursued by men very much, which is a privilege given to women by God.

When men feel that they can't achieve their original goals, they stop investing. And women are still immersed in the pursuit of happiness. So women will feel all kinds of discomfort.

So how can women attract men to pursue themselves for a long time? The secret is to give positive feedback at different stages, which is the motivation for men to maintain enthusiasm.

Women's contribution is very simple, mainly in attitude and language. By constantly shortening the physical distance, the illusion of intimacy between the two sides is created. Women with high emotional intelligence enjoy the ambiguity and pursuit between men and women very much, and they even think that these values have surpassed love itself. This is a certain degree of love exploitation.

Love is an art, some people learn from teachers, others need to learn from teachers. In any case, it is wonderful to finally achieve the goal.

Eighth, how do girls identify whether the other party is cheating or falling in love?

Picking up girls and falling in love are actually the same thing.

Picking up girls is a short-term relationship, and love is a long-term relationship.

Loving a person is more about considering whether his social identity matches himself.

Whether public identity will be recognized and respected.

And whether you want to have a baby with her.

If you have a short passion with someone, you don't have to think so much, as long as you feel exciting and fun.

If a man is just having sex or having fun, what are the characteristics?

1. He doesn't want to know about your work, family and living conditions.

2. When it comes to practical problems, I avoid talking about them, without interest and enthusiasm.

I don't want to meet your friend, and I don't want you to meet his friend.

With these three characteristics, that's accurate, booty call! ! !

Ninth, the core competitiveness of love is charm, not beauty and education.

Education only represents your knowledge, and beauty can only bring the first impulse. Charm, however, can make people intoxicated and difficult to extricate themselves. Charm is not equal to temperament, which is innate, innate and static. Charm is an education and the embodiment of emotional intelligence, which can be cultivated by gestures and smiles.

I know a beautiful woman boss who runs several clothing stores. Such an excellent woman actually has an idol, and this idol turned out to be an ordinary shop assistant under her. The boss said that the girl was plain, with a high school education and a very ordinary family. But it has attracted many high-quality men to chase. Almost every day, boys come to the store to pick her up for dinner after work. There are white-collar workers, primary school teachers and Communist Youth League secretaries of large state-owned enterprises in the company. Sometimes several boys meet secretly and compete with each other, but this girl can take her time and arrange it properly, so that the boys dare not be jealous.

Such a girl is terrible.