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What if my son can't get into high school?

If the child can't get into high school and doesn't want to go to a technical school, parents are advised to persuade the child to repeat. If the child does not accept re-reading, it is suggested that parents can open their hearts to their children and talk about their future life plans. If the child has his own goal life plan, although it is not what parents expect, the suggestions can also be referred to appropriately, and some targeted opinions can be given to the child. Don't deny or criticize children, otherwise the parent-child relationship will be stiff, which will lead to children's rebellion.

In China, children's enrollment rate is a top priority for parents. Especially for children under the age of 18, if their children can't get into high school and don't want to go to technical school, this is what parents are most worried about. After all, for children under 18 years old, it is the most painful to rush out and work in society. Unless children of this age are highly gifted and capable, they usually work at the bottom of society, which makes overtime much harder, less paid and often vulnerable to bullying. The reason why parents are most worried about their children is that they are more worried that their children will not adapt to the beating and scolding of the society and eventually become a useless child, or be decadent all day, or even commit illegal acts.

However, because the children are still young, they have not seen how to survive in society in the future. They just feel that they are studying hard and don't want to study. Here, parents are advised to take special care of their children's psychology. It is necessary to analyze the children from their social environment, and everything is from their perspective. For example, starting from children's current internet society, talk about the general development direction of various industries in the future, what kind of talents are needed at that time, and ask children what kind of people they want to be. Encourage children to start from their dreams and make further efforts.

If children don't have dreams, it is suggested that parents can create them for their children, such as observing their talents and habits, and giving them more than three career choices according to the development trend of the industry in society, so that children can work hard to develop. I believe that communication is the best way, and parents can discuss the direction of life with their children.