You're not friends with each other yet.

? The most embarrassing thing about sending New Year greetings is that your New Year greetings are all edited. When sending them, I will remind you that the other party is not your good friend, please add them again.

? Nowadays, more and more people like to set the status of friends circle to three days, and some friends circle can only see one line. In this case, the other party may have deleted you, which is human nature. Don't take it too seriously.

? I know there are two ways to verify whether the other party has deleted your WeChat. One way is to secretly drag the person you want to verify into a group in the dead of night. If you can pull it in, it means that the other party has not deleted you. If you can't pull it in, it will be deleted. Dissolve the team in time after verification, and it will go away. However, if you accidentally quit the league when you dissolve, then as long as you are not embarrassed, it will be someone else who is embarrassed. Another way is to transfer money to the other party. If you can enter the payment password, it means that the other party has not deleted you. If you can't pay, then the other party has deleted you. I haven't tried the former, and I have used the latter. It really works. If you accidentally delete an important person and then regret it, you can find the dynamics of your previous circle of friends. If he praises you, you can add him back through this like link, and he won't notice. I tried, no problem.

? A few months ago, at three or four o'clock in the middle of the night, my father called me, but I didn't receive it because I fell asleep. When I woke up in the morning, I checked my mobile phone and found that there were seven or eight missed calls. I thought something important had happened at home, so I quickly called back. My father seems to know I'm going to call, but he answers every second. I asked anxiously, "What's the matter? Make so many calls? " "Don't contact your uncle's family later. Wechat will be deleted directly. I have broken up with them. " There was a trace of resentment in my father's voice.

? I also recognized the anger in his words. I didn't dare to ask more questions, but said, "All right, all right." When my father was almost angry, my mother told me that his own brother, that is, my brother-in-law, came directly to our house to ask for a contract because of some interest disputes. My father called the police directly, and it was not decided until the police came. My uncle left a penalty according to the contract and took it away. Both sides were very unhappy, and in this way, the relationship between father and him was completely destroyed. Although there have been some quarrels in the past, they are not as serious as this one. It's all a family, but it turns out like this.

? Because they are elders and I am a child, I don't participate in their affairs. My dad asked me to delete all their WeChat messages, and I didn't delete them either. What I'm thinking is that there's nothing wrong with staying there, and I won't contact them anyway. But just a few days ago, when I was looking through the WeChat list, I glanced at Mo Niang's circle of friends, which was a familiar line. I checked it according to the above method, and it was deleted. At that time, I thought to myself, you deleted me on your own initiative before I deleted you. I have no feelings at all, and I have nothing against you.

? Later, I also realized that as long as interests are involved, there is no such thing as a true friend. Talking to people, talking nonsense. If your life is better than theirs, they will be jealous of you. If your life is a mess, they don't know how to belittle you behind your back. You have a set of rhetoric, and he has a set of rhetoric. People don't know which of you is right or wrong. In the end, it became the laughing stock of everyone.

? There is a saying that I think is very reasonable. The person who helped you when you were in trouble may be the one who will accompany you for a lifetime. And those who have helped you may betray you in the end. So you must be grateful to those who have helped you. As for those people you have helped, you should never expect them to repay you. As long as they don't dislike you when your life is not satisfactory, you will be grateful.

? Now that I think about it, it's really like the story of The Farmer and the Snake. When their family was so down and out, my father wanted to help them with everything. Now their family conditions have improved in recent years, that is, they look down on others, a typical egoist. Even if your words are good and your actions are inconsistent with your words, a person will eventually pay a painful price for his actions.

? Fate is fair, a person can't live a miserable life forever, and it can't be smooth sailing forever. Do you believe in life? I don't believe it. There are so many people born in the same year, month and day in the world. Why is fate different? To put it bluntly, a person's fate has both innate factors and acquired opportunities and efforts. Just because some people win at the starting line doesn't mean it's the end. If fortune tellers are really so powerful, why not calculate their own fortune?

? As long as you don't break through your moral bottom line, you can do whatever you want. Fast has the advantage of fast, and slow has the advantage of slow. Some disgusting people and things are nothing as long as you don't take them to heart. Life is your own, you can't live what others think.

? -Text/purple? 2022/2/4