Hidden rules of life: you asked for everything you met.

In life, there are always some wonderful phenomena. I don't know if you found them:

There are always some people around who like to find someone to calculate their luck, calculate their future and avoid obstacles. Although I didn't believe it at first, I finally felt it. Amazing, so accurate!

In fact, it's not that you met the man of God, but that the fortune teller's words have planted seeds in your subconscious. Once you encounter similar situations, they will take root and sprout, causing you to unconsciously rely on what he said, go in that direction step by step, and even take the initiative to cater to his hints.

In addition, people are always used to remembering those fulfilled parts, so they have this illusion.

This is the power of language.

People are always the easiest to accept hints, so, on the other hand, if you want a positive life, a better and better child, a considerate and gentle lover ... you should use more positive language power.

Positive energy language will not only shape the people around you to develop in the direction you expect, but also apply to yourself.

Therefore, everything you encounter is actually what you asked for.

If you say something enough times, it will really come true.

The fact is so wonderful that the more words you use to describe each other, the other person will really become that person in the end.

For example, for your child, the more you criticize him for procrastination, the more he will delay, not change the speed a little.

The more you complain that your lover is indifferent and doesn't care about you, he will only make you more disappointed, not become what you want.

The more you persist in hating your situation and the injustice of fate, you will only find your sky darker. ......

Have you ever tried to describe these things in positive language?

For example, don't criticize children, but praise their initiative; Stop mocking your lover, but praise his merits and dedication; Instead of complaining, tell yourself that everything will pass and life will get better and better.

You will find that the child seems to be a different person, your lover seems to be different from the past, and life seems to be much clearer. What's not going well has also become inexplicably cute.

Stick to it, and you will really find that life seems to have changed dramatically.

So, what kind of life do you want? If you want the other person to meet your expectations and express it in a positive and praise way, you will get unexpected results.

Criticism is actually a curse, and the power of praise is enormous.

William james said that the deepest essence of human nature is the desire to be rewarded.

Have you ever been in such a situation that when someone praises you for your novelty and beauty, you especially like it and feel it. Whenever I wear it, I feel particularly beautiful and confident.

I have such a very real example around me. My mother wore cheongsam for the first time when she went out one day. To tell the truth, she is a little fat and not particularly good-looking, but at the grocery market, a passer-by praised her for her elegance and beauty.

However, it was such a simple sentence that affected my mother's life. Until now, she likes wearing cheongsam very much. Whenever she puts on cheongsam, she feels particularly beautiful, and even begins to consciously pay attention to diet, exercise, and walk with her head held high.

This is the effect of praise on people. Everyone wants to hear the praise in their hearts. The key is that they can't help but respond to the praised behavior.

Therefore, what kind of person you want him to be, you often praise him with what kind of words.

What kind of self do you want to be and what kind of words to motivate yourself.

I especially like a sentence, that is, who you are, you will meet.

Similarly, what kind of attitude you take towards life, what kind of life you will encounter.

Therefore, the situation you meet and the people you meet are all yourself.

Just like, behind every excellent child, there is a parent who can be sure of him; Behind every gentle and considerate lover, there is a lover who likes to praise him; Every sunny and confident person has an optimistic positive energy behind him.

Be more sure of the people around you, and your interpersonal relationship will get better and better.

Praise the people you love, and you will get a better and better family.

Give yourself more positive hints, and you will get better and better.

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