What if I'm the villain?

Question 1: I am the villain. How can I change myself? If I want to change myself, I have to change myself!

From the time when I was ignorant, on the fifth day of the first month, I saw adults happily chopping stuffing and wrapping jiaozi. While holding the side of the creature, they squeezed out a few words through their teeth: "pinch the mouth of the villain, pinch the mouth of the villain", and their faces were filled with joy. Seeing me playing nearby, I also lost no time in teaching: "We must never be villains". As a result, in my young mind, the image of "little people" is evil and as dangerous as wolves and tigers. As a result, in my young mind, it is hard to say that I am a villain, even a villain dare not mention it. I remember when I was seven or eight years old, I once watched my sisters tell fortune with cards, and I was also clamoring for it. As a result, I said I was a villain. I haven't thought about tea and rice for almost a whole day and whispered to my mother several times: "Mom, my sister said I was a villain." Mother casually said, "Little man, what are you doing?" In this way, there is a fifth day every year, there is a jiaozi every year, and there is a pinch every year. With the growth of age, the image of "villain" is becoming more and more common, and it is not terrible, but this custom has been deeply imprinted in my heart.

It was the fifth day of the first month, and I didn't go home to pack jiaozi because of something. At dinner in the evening, my mother-in-law took out some dumpling wrappers and a little dumpling stuffing. I froze, and I didn't understand what was going on at the moment.

Mother-in-law smiled: "I pinched my mouth this day, but you didn't." I'll leave you a few. " I was amused by my mother-in-law's almost funny and humorous behavior.

"Don't hold even if. What are you afraid of? " (sentences describing chrysanthemums)

"That can't do. An open gun is easier to hide than an open enemy.

Well, this' little man' has become an arrow hidden in the dark again.

Although this is a folk custom, it shows that "villain" is a taboo and sinister symbol in people's minds.

There are many meanings of "villain", but most of the villains in people's minds refer to those who are despicable and unscrupulous. Of course, such people are also large, medium and small.

Big "little people" have heavy power in their hands, but their minds are not pure. He was not thought by the people, not mourned by the country, and even overthrew the court for his own selfish desires, which brought disaster to the country and the people.

In the villain. Similarly, regardless of the overall situation, personal interests are too heavy. They often fight with each other in high-level and political circles, so naturally they can't consider playing cards according to the routine, and it is inevitable to do whatever it takes. The result is that they are either desperate or both injured, or they are in distress and have a tragic ending.

Little "villain" I have no skill, but it is not easy to convince people. I can't hide that others are living too well and smoothly. Once, I was jealous and suddenly shot a cold arrow to hurt you, causing a stumbling block to confuse you and make your behavior unsatisfactory and unhappy.

Micro "villain". Maybe they can't be called "little people", maybe they will expose each other's private affairs because of a few quarrels, maybe they will speak ill of each other behind their backs and curse some ugly words because they don't care about these. They call people with bad character and behavior, big or small, "villains", and naturally some people seem very wronged.

It is not easy to be a villain. Generally speaking, people who want to overthrow the imperial court and bring disaster to the country and people are in danger of dying at any time. They are always in fear, living in fear, and touching their heads from time to time. In short, they racked their brains, stayed up all night, broke down from overwork, and skinned them when they died; In short, if you speak ill of others and do bad things, you should touch your conscience from time to time (such a villain's conscience is still there) and look at the god on your head, fearing that your actions will be exposed and your face will be humiliated (such a person still has face). Alas, it's tiring to be a villain. (Message from parents)

People, on the other hand, are too extreme to "little people".

When life is good and the scenery is more, people will say that "small people succeed." The villain lives long, and people will say, "Good people don't live long, but evil people live for a thousand years"; People will say, "Good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil." . For these sarcasm, young people are also lacking in confidence: "Is there justice?" Alas, being a "villain" is humbled.

Once it gets out, how severe people punish the villains.

Qin Gui of the Song Dynasty still knelt in front of the world and provoked a pair of wonderful works: "People lost their fame after the Song Dynasty, and I have no face to be surnamed Qin in front of people." The traitors Rainbow, Wang Jingwei and Chen Bijun have become the eternal punishment of the Chinese nation, which is nothing more than adding some historical materials to books. If you don't do evil, the "four evils" on the edge of the town will not escape the judgment of the people and you will die. Even if you can't turn over the character of the big waves of life, you are also misbehaving and misbehaving ... >>

Question 2: What if I am the villain? Then we will give you the answer, and you will appear "yeah, yeah". In fact, what you're thinking is, what's wrong with nonsense?

Hehe, in fact, as long as you are alive and happy, don't think so much, because you didn't hurt others, did you?

Question 3: What if the leader is a villain? Such people are very common in society. In this regard, I suggest: 1 Do your job well and be responsible for the company. Pay attention to his behavior, back up all kinds of files, save all kinds of data and record his behavior. 2. Refuse to carry out the work according to company regulations, and hand over the tasks he told to other leaders along the provincial road. 3. Let him be everyone's performance standard. I am a colleague at work and a stranger after work. Unite colleagues and maintain a balanced attitude. You should do a good job and be modest at ordinary times. Let him know that you don't accept his advice and despise it. The most important thing is to let him know that you will not give up your job easily, and you are not afraid of others taking revenge on your position.

Question 4: I don't know how to get along with villains and annoy them. What should I do? Since you are a villain, you don't have to pay attention to them and make them apologize to him. Be careful next time, don't talk to villains, because you can't get their sincerity.

Question 5: There is a little man beside me. What should I do? Sometimes, we can't avoid the little people living around us. There is no way. There is an old saying that it is better to offend a gentleman than a villain. It can be seen that a villain is really troublesome, not to be taunted, and can't hide. What should I do?

The reason why villains are villains is because they don't want to face it, no matter good or bad, it makes people sick and gives people trouble. It seems that these are the purpose of their lives!

However, there are also experts who educate us to deal with villains. We regard him as a teacher who deliberately cultivates us. One is to cultivate our mind, the other is to exercise the will of many people, and the third is to educate us to grow up healthily in front of villains. The ancients said that if you want to succeed, you must have several kinds of people around you. It looks as if we need villains:

Immortals lead the way, nobles support, and villains supervise!

Think of them as evil teachers we need on the road to success, just use negative teaching materials!

The villain is just a villain after all. Current events can make people sick. There is nothing they can do about big things. When you succeed, look at the faces of those villains. Maybe we really have to thank them!

Question 6: What should I do if my friend is a villain? Just like a "brave" word, cut from the middle with a knife, it is "friend", and the deep meaning can be said to be useful as a friend. If it doesn't work, it is nothing. The so-called friends are nothing more than using each other. As long as you are of no use to him, he will gradually leave you. When you need him but can't get any benefits, he will not hesitate to ignore your existence and even kick you away. Don't believe in friendship. In today's society, friendship is an unrealistic thing that can't stand the test of time and money. There may be true friendship between the older generation, but in today's economic world, this friendship may be abandoned. I was betrayed again and again by people who thought I was a friend. After being cheated, I have calmly considered this problem. Don't trust anyone too much, even if you treat him as a friend, even if he treats you as a friend, because a friend at one moment may be the enemy of the other party at the next. Nowadays, the true meaning of "friend" has long been distorted by people. I can only blame the global economy and hate the greedy nature of mankind.

Question 7: I was ambushed by the villain. What should I do? The intrigue of institutions is no less than that of the functional departments of * * *, and I feel the same way about the experience of the landlord (I worked as a middle school teacher and an assistant to the principal, and later resolutely resigned);

I look at this problem like this: 1, first of all, you didn't do it, so you don't have to panic; 2. If it is determined that someone planted it, then you should take action, make preparations through detailed witness material evidence, and find opportunities to clarify your innocence; 3. Use all available personal or family relationships to find a backer (it is best to find the relevant leaders of the Education Bureau as a backer) to prevent the principal from giving you a hard time when the misunderstanding cannot be clarified in the future; 4, strive to improve their professional ability, as a teacher, strong business can be popular everywhere; I wonder if my suggestion will help you?

Question 8: What should I do in the face of the leader of the villain? Bamboo's answer: the kind of villain you mentioned is everywhere in reality, and it is impossible to prevent it. Since it exists, there is always a way to deal with it. Suggestion: 1. Knowing that there are some strangers around you, you should be extra careful what you say and do. In order to avoid much ado about nothing. 2 "hide. As the saying goes, I can't afford to hide. Avoid them everywhere when you talk or do things. To avoid being caught by them. 3 "Ignore. As the saying goes, a scholar meets a soldier, which makes sense. Don't reason with little people, the more you talk, the more unreasonable you become. 4 "No matter. As the saying goes, everything has its vanquisher. Don't pay attention to a villain if you feel unreasonable. You have your own master to take care of it. 5 "practice. As the saying goes, strike while the iron is hot. For the villain, in addition to the above four items, we must take active measures to confront you. If you are capable, I won't look down on you. 6 "Follow the trend. The villain bullies the weak and fears the hard. Once you have a few strong friends, he won't dare to mess with you! In a word, little people are everywhere. Be careful. Need to communicate again.

Question 9: What should I do if I offend a villain? Please tell me how to C villain. Villains are everywhere. Usually villains are not very kind and often use bad means to achieve their goals. Get along with the villain, a little careless, you will suffer a big loss; It is important to learn to distinguish villains. Their words and deeds have the following characteristics: 1. They like to create stories: there are usually other conspiracy purposes, not just fun; Sometimes, in order to get promoted, I will set off my own Excellence and vilify my opponents. They are afraid of chaos in the world and are used to making sentences by "listening", distorting the facts and making things out of nothing. 2. Like to sow discord: divide colleagues' feelings, create disputes and troubles, fight with each other, and the fisherman benefits. They are eloquent and good at clearing their responsibilities; Afterwards, he acted as a peacemaker and a double-faced spy, which is called a "double-edged sword ghost" in Fujian. 3. Like flattery: "Praise and encouragement" is different from "flattery and flattery". The latter is full of tricks, full of enthusiasm and sweet mouth, which makes people feel confused and at a loss in Tao Tao. They are more deliberately close to their superiors, and often wait for opportunities and have nothing to fear. 4. I like to obey Yin and Yang: In my work, my words and deeds are different. I am good at superficial kung fu and I am also good at taking the opportunity to take credit. When it comes to dealing with people, they are both two-faced. Sometimes they will praise you for telling your secret in front of you, but betray you behind your back. 5. I like have it both ways: whoever gains power will be attached to him, and whoever loses power will give up. Watermelon is close to the big side. They use the power of others to improve their position. Those who have no use value, they don't want to get close, at most they put on airs. 6. Step on other people's blood and climb on other people's shoulders: you plant trees and he enjoys the cool; Use you to open the way for them, and when they succeed, they will not repay you; Even turn your face and ruthlessly kill you; How can they be grateful when they take advantage of others and take it for granted? 7. Like to hit a person when he is down: as long as someone falls or fails, they will catch up and make up for it; For example, exaggerating that person "deserved it" and so on. They are also wise after the event, and often make sarcastic remarks of schadenfreude. 8. I like to find scapegoats: I know that my words and deeds are wrong, but I refuse to admit it. I have to find a big head (soft persimmon) to take the blame. Their eloquence is sharp, they dare to swear, and they can mislead everyone to send the wrong message. Over time, people will be eager for money and accumulate unsuccessfully. Sometimes the "truth" sinks into the sea and is always blinded by twists and turns. In fact, the characteristics of villains are not limited to these. Anyone who despises the law, despises the truth, is mean and heartless, immoral, mercenary, selfish at the expense of others, and easily obsessed with ghosts ... usually has the character of a villain. The ancients said that it is difficult to paint a tiger's skin but a tiger's bone ... They also said that when you meet someone, you can't throw all your words in my heart ... They also said that you can't hurt people's hearts and prevent them ... They also said that you can't judge people by their appearances, but the sea can't measure them ... They also said that an open gun is easy to hide, but an open arrow is difficult to guard against ... These are all teaching children. When you see who the villain is, you should know how to get along with the villain. ~ To put it simply: 1. Don't offend a villain: never expose him alone because of his sense of justice ... Villains never consider themselves treacherous and unfriendly, they are highly sensitive, have sharp eyes and sharp tongues ... you are definitely no match. 2. Stay away from them: keep a bland superficial relationship, and never be as close as friends, because the villains are ruthless, which makes you unprepared and can't finish eating ... 3. Be careful and be polite: if you criticize or talk about other people's privacy, it will definitely become their handle to make waves, or as a bargaining chip for revenge in the future; If they criticize or talk about other people's privacy, you should stop immediately and don't listen to a word, because they will definitely set you up anyway ... especially when they talk on the phone and often record your voice! Don't doubt ~ Are they that happy? Why are you so tired? This is the villain mentality! 4. Don't be interested: be sociable, engage in small circles, look lively and have many benefits ... but you must never rely on them to get benefits, because they must demand double returns, and you must lose more because of small things. 5. It doesn't matter to eat a small loss: because you are not only hard to get justice, but even more hateful; They are narrow-minded, cruel, endless with you, and you are more tired; The ancients said: endure a calm moment; Take a step back and broaden the horizon. You should take it as a practical lesson, so that you can grow up and win more respect.

Question 10: What should I do if I meet a villain? 1, which means you are annoyed.

2. Solution to the villain: 1) Younger than him 2) Make friends with him) Seize his shortcomings.