What if the eight characters don't match?

There is a saying, especially for the older generation, that is true. To tell the truth, marriage is not like falling in love. Marriage is often not just about two people. You said there was a strong opposition in your family, so you should think it over. You are both old, and procrastination is no good. No matter what the result is, you must make up your mind. If you love it very much, you still have to fight for it, but you have to think it over. Even if you really leave, it's good to be okay. If we do it right, everyone will be embarrassed. In this matter of feelings, others don't know your specific situation and can't help you make up your mind. You can only ask yourself, do you love it very much? If you love it very much, try it even if there are consequences. Happiness is our own struggle. If the relationship is not deep, just a blind date, then you can find another relationship.