Is it silly to be a person who would rather be miserable?

Some people may hold the idea that losing is a blessing, which may stem from their values and beliefs. In their view, losing money can make you more tolerant and kind, and also make you cherish your gains more.

But in some cases, excessive pursuit of loss may bring some negative effects. For example, in business transactions, if a person always makes himself suffer, he may be used by others and cheated by others. In addition, too much pursuit of loss may also make you lose some benefits you deserve, which may affect your life and career.

Therefore, whether to recover losses depends on the specific situation, weigh the pros and cons, and decide according to your own values and actual situation.