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Pursuing five compulsory measures for girls

Bo Yibo, a classmate becomes a wife (how to pursue his female classmate)

Nowadays, young people are all looking for fun in groups of three or five. On the surface, they are male and female, but in fact, they inevitably have their own "goals" in a group of people. How can she "treat you differently" in a group of people and then date you alone to develop a relationship with only two people?

Here are 20 ways to "make a good impression" so that she can make a good impression on you in a large group of people. Of course, you don't have to follow these 20 methods completely to succeed, but you have to do at least half of them to have a greater chance of success. You need to pay attention to this

1 shows that caring for a woman needs the care and love of others, especially in some small things, which can easily arouse her feelings. For example, lending her a scarf in cold weather is a feasible and effective simple method.

2 eye contact using eye contact is also a good way to impress her. When she finds out that you look at her from time to time, she will definitely feel special.

No matter how short the time is, you and he should strive for the opportunity to get along with her alone, which will directly and effectively make her have a "different" impression on you.

4 pretend to be innocent. Many people will mature in a group and have experience in male and female affairs. You can do the opposite and pretend to be innocent, which will attract her attention.

5 Sit as close as possible. Usually, women only pay attention to the people around them. So you should sit as close to her as possible at every party (preferably next door), which will make you perform better.

When discussing a problem, if you agree with her, it will make her feel that you are in the same boat and have an extra favor.

7 food attraction women are interested in some small foods that are proud of their appearance, so it is a good way to prepare some such things often.

8 strengthen contact. Ask her to call you, by saying that she didn't wake up in the morning or other similar reasons, to strengthen the frequency of contact with each other.

9 Divination and fortune telling All women will be interested in some fortune-telling predictions and the like. So, if you are familiar with one or two of them, you will have a better chance to get close to them than others.

10 *** The same hobby pays attention to all her daily necessities and then buys the same. Then, when she sees you, she will call you a "bosom friend" and feel kind.

1 1 Borrowing things means "thinking about people when seeing things". When you or she has the other person's things, you will miss each other. Therefore, often borrowing things from each other (such as books and small bags) can increase the mental impression.

12 pet policy has love for small animals and women. Therefore, if you have a pet at home, it will be very helpful to study it.

13 often happens to a group of people, and the male and female fronts are separated like primary school students. If you put on a biased attitude towards women, she will think you are a lovely person.

14 appearance is close to appearance. The closer you get to her, the closer and special she will feel.

15 When you meet her with a smile, don't forget to bring a kind smile, which will make her feel happy to meet you and leave unforgettable memories.

16 righteously refute and stop a friend from insulting women or saying nothing, so that she feels special respect for you.

17 Painting her portrait is the easiest way to please. The cuter she is, the better the effect. So, learn some skills in this field from now on!

18 Give her something lovely or not available in the market, which will definitely make her happy. The value of the gift is not expensive, mainly because you have to create a good reason to emphasize that it is memorable.

19 emphasize that the other party's consumption is usually "AA system", but when you collect other accounts, you should exempt her and let her know that you are different from others.

Intimacy is that you show your concern for her with some small gestures (such as dusting her clothes and handing her paper towels). As long as it is not too explicit, she will accept it and will not resist.

Pursuing five compulsory measures for girls

The first trick: know yourself and know yourself. Know yourself first: What is my personality? What are my interests? What is my outlook on life? What about values? Then recognize the object: what personality is the object of pursuit? What are her interests? What is her outlook on life? What about values? Recognise the enemy: Who is her suitor? Which one stands out? What are his characteristics? On the whole, after several thoughts, find out your own strengths, carry forward them, find out his weaknesses, be careful not to make mistakes, know yourself and know yourself, and win every battle.

The second trick: nothing ventured, nothing gained, courage and care. After recognizing the enemy and me clearly, you should be confident and bold, actively launch an offensive, and take the first step bravely if you love her. Rose perfume, phone card: a phone call every day, a rose, don't forget to send a small gift on your birthday, such as a fragrance and a small card, which is a hundred times warmer.

The third measure: a father loves his brother and loves his brother. A girl can be said to be a combination of weakness and greatness. She sometimes looks like a little girl and needs to be taken care of; Sometimes like a little mother, she is good at taking care of others. Taking advantage of this trait, the boy constantly plays the kind father to care for her, and occasionally plays the little baby to let her play the maternal glory; Sometimes playing the role of mentor and friend, and sometimes playing the role of big brother, the road to love must be smooth and unparalleled.

The fourth measure: combine hard and soft, be kind and gentle, be obedient to girls from beginning to end, not necessarily good. The cleverest way is to combine rigidity with softness. Sometimes gentle, sometimes a little overbearing; Sometimes spoil her, and sometimes establish a small authority image, the flexible use of the two will surely win every battle.

The fifth measure: tight encirclement. Although the object of your pursuit is her, please remember that the decision is up to her and the influence is in her family! So you must go to her house often, from grandparents, parents, uncles and aunts, to brothers and sisters, and even her domestic dogs and pets, you must show your versatility and go through customs clearance. As the saying goes, "the population is soft and the manpower is short", I will put in a good word for you in front of her, making her feel that losing you will be a lifelong regret. (Gao Jiawen)

Small means of chasing girls

(1) Chasing girls who are silent and arrogant.

At first glance, this seems to be tricky. In fact, these girls are indifferent in appearance and often fanatical in heart. They generally like boys who are a little wild. If you are the kind of gentle boy, with a long difference and little possibility, you'd better choose another beautiful woman. If people say, "That's cool!" Then you hope big! If your first invitation is not rejected, then you must not miss the opportunity! They may be extremely careless about you at first. Don't be discouraged at this time.

Be sure to persist, even if it is repeated. Watching movies, dancing, skating and going to her usual study room are all good strategies. Be sure to find more opportunities to express yourself, a lot (of course, Iloveyou will save it for the last time, hehe) ... For this type of girl, your true feelings are very attractive.

This kind of girl usually has to chase for a long time. If you are about to graduate or leave school now, it seems best not to start. So as not to waste ... hehe. However, after catching up, she will generally be dead set, and you will be on cloud nine and feel that you are the happiest BF in the world! Ha ha.

(2) Girls who pursue romantic fantasies

If you really like such a girl, let me remind you first-you are going to taste the ups and downs! This kind of girl seems to pursue spirit more than material, but in fact it is just the opposite. Romance needs money to build. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you'd better reconsider. Because she likes romantic things, flowers and chocolates, you can touch her heartstrings most by giving more gifts.

If you want to catch up with this kind of girl, don't be stingy with your little money. Besides the moon in the sky, there are other things on the ground (what? As long as she wants it, you should try your best to get it without hesitation. Usually roses and snacks are more subtle ... in short, if you want to chase such girls, you must cultivate your mind-reading ability. Don't forget to bribe the roommates of the girls around you.

They will tell you a lot of useful information. And you must think more about your dress, and don't be rustic all day. After catching up with a girl, you can safely show your true colors, because in her eyes, you are no longer rustic. Haha)

If you want to play with her, you should also go to more romantic places, such as spring outing, dancing and watching love stories ... she will gradually be inseparable from your care, haha! Although such a girl costs you a lot of money, it will also bring you a lot of wonderful fun. As long as you really like it, you can still live happily.

(3) Chasing tender and considerate girls

This kind of girl is dedicated. Once she becomes your GF, she will take good care of you, be gentle and amiable, and let you feel the warmth and reliability of love. If you can catch up with this kind of girl, theoretically you will become the most comfortable man. This kind of girl should be easy to chase (also suitable for all kinds of boys), as long as she doesn't hate you, you deserve her. Now let's discuss the means.

First of all, you should pay more attention to her in life and study. She doesn't need any material things, but needs a heartfelt concern to appear in front of her when she needs help. (Reminder, you must observe more at ordinary times to find a good opportunity to start. Of course, if you are a romantic, it is foolproof to send flowers and gifts on holidays.

At first, you can send something friendly, and when you feel you can express it (for example, she looks at you differently from others or seems a little overwhelmed in front of you), you can send roses! If you don't want to be so extravagant, you can reveal some in the chat after self-study on weekdays. When the time is right, you will suddenly say something like "It feels good to be with you". If she doesn't hide, you can strike while the iron is hot and say what you have long wanted to say. The best time is at night: people's defense ability is weak at night. If she starts to avoid, don't force her, you can care silently until she is moved.

BTW: If you don't have much contact with her at ordinary times, you will have a goal when she doesn't know you. You can pretend to meet her by chance through friends like her, and then deepen your impression through several "encounters" in the same study room, and then you can start. Don't think that this kind of girl is honest and safe to catch up with. Actually, it depends on someone. Some people won't let her leave you in an emergency. If you can't, you should always write and call.

(4) Chasing lively and lovely girls

This kind of girl seems to like a lot of people. Moreover, in the new environment, boyfriends are often the first. Not because they are easy to chase, but because they often have to take the initiative. If you like this kind of girl, if she likes you, it will be easy. Get in touch with her more, occasionally show your affection for her, and she will be close to your goal at the same time.

If she doesn't like you (worse, she likes another person), don't lose heart. As long as you still have a chance, you should fight for it (of course, you are just so-so to her, so you don't have to). You can first exist in the form of friendship with her and try to cultivate a hobby similar to her. In the meantime, your humor and openness are very important, so that she can still think of you on her way back. If the person she likes is not interested in her, then you can take your time until she takes the initiative to you.

At this time, you can take obvious strategies to make her really become your girlfriend. If she and he like each other, if you think she deserves to be accused of stealing others' love, you can give them a final blow before they talk to each other. At this time, opportunities are very important.

You should observe carefully. When they have conflicts and misunderstandings, take advantage of them (it doesn't seem very ... haha) and arrive first. Victory may well belong to you in the end! (Generally, girls won't have other ideas after catching up, haha. ) This kind of girl may be liked by unsuspecting people after having BF, so you should tell "Please! She belongs to me! " The result should be optimistic.

(5) Chasing hysterical girls

The typical feature of this kind of girl is emotional exposure. She can cry whenever she wants, smile happily, which often makes people feel a little ridiculous.

Four secrets of chasing MM

The first trick: touch

This "touch" is different from what you think, it is to find out the details. My grandson said: know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle. My brother is a lout, he can't think abstractly and he can't speak clearly. You are both biology and chemistry, so you should be able to understand this truth.

There are two ways to touch: those who can touch the heart and those who can't touch the watch. What she likes and dislikes, what perfume and lipstick she uses, her pet phrase, hobbies, family background, political background and so on. , are classified memory. Remember, you are not studying for the exam. No, it's not difficult to say it is difficult, and it's not easy to say it is easy, as long as you are willing to work hard. At that time, my brothers and I, every time we saw the girl we liked, our sisters felt it clearly. With this information, we can be invincible.

The second trick: shit.

The soldiers and horses did not move, and the food and grass went first. People in love are very unstable, sometimes a word can cause waves and the situation takes a turn for the worse. So, let's take care of the people around the girl first.

If she has a boyfriend, first become close friends with her boyfriend, wait for the opportunity, and use up all the bad water in your stomach, and one day you will be righted. Look at the ancient history, Zhao Gao, Prince, Yongzheng and other big brothers. What a beautiful job they have done. It would be easy if she didn't have a boyfriend, but it shouldn't be careless. Brother, I didn't do this well. As a result, her sisters said, "He is just a kind of distance beauty!" " "My brother and I were inseparable and stood alone for several weeks.

The third measure: stickiness

As the name implies, stick to her. The so-called sincerity, the stone is open. In this regard, brother Li Bai is very clear. He knows that grinding iron bars can also sharpen needles. Girls are made of water, so they can move easily. When I come home from work, it must be "all shall be well that ends well", and no one will make irresponsible remarks again. To do this well, it is recommended to look at the thick black several times first. Don't be too persistent, do something different. Combine rigidity with softness. What roses? Jacky Cheung and Dabao, please be diligent. Liu Huan said: Do it when it's time. He did it for your own good!

This has always worked. So far, there have been no cases of failure. Don't laugh, girls. If you meet such an opponent, but that guy doesn't belong to the white horse series, you are ready to cry. You ask me, and I will give you a solution. Who told me that my old man has passion?

The fourth measure: trial

The so-called fourth formula is dispensable. Trial is to think carefully about which category you and she belong to. To put it bluntly, they deserve it, otherwise they won't get good fruit to eat. Not worth it! But it's up to you. You said you deserved it, and you said you didn't deserve it. If she says you don't deserve it, brother, I'll lock her up and feed her 20 Jin of lard every day. Five years later, let's see if she still deserves it!

True and false judgment method

The three words that girls like to hear most are probably "I love you" spit out by the population in their hearts. The young man knows this well, so he often uses this trick to win hearts. As an aunt, please don't be intoxicated by such sweet words. There is a difference between sincerity and hypocrisy. How to judge? It's not complicated, just: look at her "I love you"

Did you force it out? You induced it? Or did he say it after "careful consideration"? If it is the latter, it is reliable for men to speak.

Women often complain: "Men don't keep their promises".

What a man says when he is "forced" is beyond his ability, so what he can't say is naturally "not what he said" Women should realize this.

The beauty is hugging, translucent light, her hair is fragrant, her breath is blue, her body temperature is electric current, he sits side by side with her, her head rests on his shoulder, and her hand is next to his. How many people can be "peacocks" without opening the screen at this time? As a result, when he touched his face, she also "whispered". As long as he is not dumb, he will say "I love you" gently. -this is "induction". After being "induced", they walked out of the lover's cafe, and he thought, where is the money? !

Why get married? Don't you have money to love her with your mouth open? Of course, such "I love you" doesn't count.

You can test him appropriately, but you should pay attention to the method and degree. Please use your head and set a small trap.

It turns out that women need it most

Women should tell the man they love something important.

1. The gift is not expensive, but sincere. From a woman's point of view, the best gifts are simple gifts, not flashy and exaggerated gifts. The husband collects Valentine's cards and gives them to his wife at any time. Whenever she is in a bad mood, he puts a card where she may find it, which makes his wife very happy.

2. Many women are really afraid that they are not beautiful enough. Women need a clear compliment: "I like that hairstyle" or "You look good in red". This kind of praise can give women encouragement, make her pay attention to dressing up and keep love moist.

3. Women also attach importance to work. Women want their husbands or boyfriends to attach importance to their work as much as their own. Every time the wife talks about her work, the husband has to listen. Needless to say, due to good communication in this respect, the affection between them will be deeper and deeper.

4. Women need men to listen to her patiently. Conversation in men's minds is a way to study problems, debate right and wrong, and find solutions. In order to achieve this goal, he may repeatedly interrupt a woman and ask her to "understand" his meaning. However, women prefer men to listen kindly rather than express their opinions all the time. They will keep talking until they feel comfortable again.

Women don't fall in love as easily as men. When choosing a spouse, women usually pay more attention to various practical factors. Women may need love very much, but there is still an expert in their hearts asking: Is this man reliable? Therefore, men should not only pay attention to hair style, clothes and manners, but also be kind, generous, loyal and reliable.

6. Women want to be friends with their husbands. A woman wants the man she lives with to be regarded as equal, to respect her strengths and tolerate her weaknesses, and to treat him in the same way.

In short, what she needs is to know her friends, lovers and partners.

The secret of winning hearts.

Secret 1: Avoid a fixed life. Women are quite fond of changing animals, so don't show a fixed posture and attitude in front of women. For example, if you are dating in a familiar place, you can try to change your dress, such as changing a pair of glasses or wearing a hat. If you surprise the other person unexpectedly, it is likely that this small change will make her who was not easy to get close to quickly become a lot closer.

Tip 2: Praise each other's body language in time. Body language is quite rich. Besides listening to her language, she also wants you to respond to her. Among foreigners, the Italian nation can be regarded as the most sought-after nation. They tend to spread their hands and use exaggerated pursuit to achieve their goals. In the face of women, it seems that simply speaking is not enough. Try to use your gestures to see if the more exaggerated gestures are, the easier it is to win people's hearts.

Tip 3: Don't sit face to face. Sitting face to face can enhance feelings. Sitting face to face, it is easiest for people to grasp the intention of pursuit and lose the opportunity to pursue success. Moreover, sitting face to face can easily expose shortcomings. You might as well sit side by side with her, especially on her right. In this form, you will get incredible help and pursue success.

Tip 4: You like the same food and interests, but you can approach them as you like. In order to get close to the woman in your target, you have to collect some information about her, so that you have the same interest in food, because if you have the same interest in food, women will think that they are highly homogeneous in other aspects, so the fruits of success are not far away.

The secret of the relationship between five friends and lovers is that modern women don't like overburdened relationships, so the relationship between friends and lovers is women's favorite relationship between men and women. So you don't have to use "love" to close the distance from the beginning. This method should be better for women who are easy to refuse you. But remember to create more opportunities to get close. For upper-class men who send flowers once a week and college boys who pick them up every day, women are always more attracted to the latter because they have more opportunities to contact each other.

Cheats can also be used as a means of pursuit. Deliberately throwing handkerchiefs to the right people is a way for many men and women to start dating. In modern times, handkerchiefs, key rings or watches can be used, and sometimes they can produce unexpected effects. If you drop some books, you will have the opportunity to communicate; You can find out what the woman is interested in from the lost book and pursue it. Actually, it's not stupid to embroider your name on a handkerchief.

Tip 7: it's okay. Use this pursuit in a retrogressive way. At first, you can say, "Let's go to the seaside next time …" Of course, it is likely to be rejected. If rejected, change it to a cinema or a park. After being rejected, it is very effective to induce the other party to have the idea of "so be it". Give it a try!

Secret eight gave her a dream in communication. Some people think that women are stupid and easy to be deceived by men. In fact, a woman will think "even if she is cheated, she will be very happy" when facing the prince charming in her heart. In order to meet Prince Charming who may only appear once in his life, he is willing to be cheated, so he can't say that women are stupid. After understanding the mentality of women, the most important thing in dealing with women is to give them some dreams. At the beginning, her attitude and every promise could not be changed. Simply put, you should give her a dream when you are in contact. If you keep her dream, your relationship will be deeper.

Secret nine makes her laugh, which often produces many subtle effects in the use of words. Even if you are not good at pursuing women, if you can make her laugh, you will certainly get good results. Usually, we should cultivate a sense of humor and practice telling funny or yellow jokes, even strange jokes, which can make women smile.

Secret 10: create opportunities-women are easily attracted to men they meet by chance. Mystery is very important to women. Men who meet by chance are more attractive to women than men introduced by others or met in the workplace. If accidental opportunities happen repeatedly, then women will be convinced of the existence of fate. I will be moved by this accident. Remember that anyone can arrange a second meeting after the first meeting. For example, you can check in detail: 1, where the company is located; 2. The route and time of commuting; 3. Is there any place you often go, etc. These are some key questions, of course, not directly asked each other, but from the usual conversation or ask your friends. If you can take some time to get information, it will be much easier to make a second accident.

Skills 1 1 Say "change for you" Up to now, most people often say "like you" and "love you" to their favorite object, but if you tell her "change for you", even if it is a lie, it will have a good effect. "You are beautiful" seems to be hard to remember in terms of moving degree, but "I change for you" is easy to move. Try to use this language in communication, which will certainly cause some surprising reactions and affectionate eyes.

Secret 12 One of the ways to approach a woman who has the same experience as her is to create an opportunity for them to experience the same experience and dance in a ballroom sweating profusely. Two people eating a bowl of instant noodles together can have the same experience. In this kind of experience, two people's hearts often get closer together in an incredible way.

Secret 13: Show women's surprise when meeting; In foreign countries, it is often seen that some men stick their heads out of the window and stare at women on the trail. These are exaggerated and direct ways to pursue women's actions. Magic is also one of the most important props. Even if you use tricks to make the current 100 yuan disappear, or let the handkerchief float in the air, if you can use it to pursue women, metropolis will gain something.

Tip 14: attract women with change. The principle you should pay attention to is to attract women's attention. There are four things that can attract a woman's attention: clothing, hairstyle, fragrance and carrying things. These four items are likely to attract attention before the two sides say hello. Therefore, in the pursuit process, we should do something distinctive on these four products. When a woman can be by her side and give her favorite man some unexpected surprises, she will think of him every day even if she does nothing in the future. Don't forget to attract women with some changes!

Secret 15: Understanding a woman's family environment is an important part of getting close to a woman, because a woman's family environment can be said to be the benchmark for her choice of a male partner. Women who lost their fathers earlier are more infatuated with older men; Women with only sisters at home are more attracted to older men; Women who only have brothers at home will naturally have feelings for young men. After understanding the female family environment, you can know what role you should play and how to get along with each other.