Be an old urchin in modern society

Being an old urchin in modern society is always curious about the world.

That surprised look is unforgettable.

One day, an old man Wang Fang knew was very interested in discussing various computer input methods with her. The old man is 82 years old. Wang Fang firmly believes that it is impossible for an old man to type a word on a computer keyboard in his life. The old man is a respected elder in his professional field, but his computer knowledge is flawed. Even Wang Fang, who knows little about computers, has heard many mistakes, but the old man's surprised eyes swept her soul like searchlights at this moment. Facing the old man's blue veins standing out and shaking hands, Wang Fang thought, I don't know if I can live for such a long time, but no matter how long her life is, she must remember this bright surprise, not just immersed in the familiar channel, but always exploring the vast sea until the end.

Rare treasures

Curiosity is actually an act of inquiry. Middle-aged and elderly people have a thirst for knowledge, and it is really important to know the outside world and everything.

With this mentality, the brain will always be in an active state, so that the brain function can be exercised, and people will neither become dull or dull, nor cut off communication with the outside world.

Otherwise, the indifference, boredom and idleness to the outside world will easily make middle-aged and elderly people lonely, lonely and depressed, and they will be locked in the house all day, becoming less confident and more bored. Studies abroad have proved that middle-aged and elderly people with strong curiosity live longer; However, domestic studies also show that middle-aged and elderly people who continue to work and use their brains have better memories.

Some middle-aged and elderly people may be as busy as a bee at work. Once they retire, they always feel empty and their mental state becomes very bad. At this time, children must not be emotional with them, because they always ask questions, because even discouraging them from learning new things once is likely to bring depression to middle-aged and elderly people. Tell them about some major events in society and let them do small housework. You know, life is colorful.

Keep a diary to cultivate curiosity

Curiosity is omnipotent, which opens the door for us to know ourselves and the world. If you want to know more about yourself and the world, you must cultivate curiosity.

To do this, you must allow yourself to be curious. Maybe your thirst for knowledge was blocked at some point, and the road to curiosity was blocked by too many meaningless facts. Remove obstacles, make the passage smooth again, and protect your curiosity from today!

In order to arouse curiosity and keep it awake, we might as well keep a diary like many creative people. Pay attention to your curiosity, what interests you and surprises you, and have good ideas and discoveries every day. Seize them at once, and continue to write and reflect at night.

In your diary, you should also start asking yourself more often: Why? How's it going? What, Heng?

Who is it? How much/how much? Where is it? What if? What do you mean? Once the problem appears, start research immediately until you find a satisfactory answer. Buy all kinds of dictionaries to know a good atlas, try to get yourself an encyclopedia, and occasionally look through it, you will always find interesting things.

Let your creativity fly freely.

Creativity is everywhere.

With the improvement of living standards, people's pursuit of beauty and individuality is more intense. Some people with personality and ingenuity advocate making some trinkets and gadgets in their spare time. Many middle-aged and elderly people often make small handicrafts with their hands and brains, which not only makes their lives full of fun, but also enriches their later life and cultivates their creativity. Some middle-aged and elderly people reuse waste products and make discarded cans into various decorations, which not only protects the environment, but also beautifies it. In my spare time, I invited a few middle-aged and old friends to organize some knitting activities in the community. Spiritual crafts were displayed in front of me, including Chinese knots and bows, all of which were beautiful.

This is creativity. Creativity is a comprehensive ability, an organic integration and promotion of knowledge, ability and personality. Creativity is not taught, learned or deliberately created.

Creativity cannot be taught. It is around you, in your daily life, in everyone's hands. The creativity of middle-aged and elderly people is also hidden in life.

Middle-aged and elderly people, the peak of creativity has just arrived. Scientists who study anthropology have found that creativity does not necessarily end when people reach middle and old age. Sometimes, the creativity of middle-aged and elderly people can reach a new peak.

Artistic creation and scientific invention do not take people's age as the absolute boundary. Physiologists have found that a healthy adult's brain has about 1000 trillion nerve cells. As a person grows older, some cells will die and his reaction ability will slow down, but other cells called dendrites will grow in his brain, which is especially beneficial to the further development of his creativity for people engaged in mental work. Many ideas need the cooperation of the left and right brains and the help of the hippocampus, which is responsible for information processing and memory. ((Genesis)-The author of this book, Dr. Ginny Cohen, wrote: At the age of 50-70, dendrites can reproduce in the most important information processing part.

Scientists also found that before the age of 40, people's creativity in abstract research fields (such as advanced mathematics) showed an increasing trend, and then began to decline, but for many people, practical creativity, that is, the ability to solve practical problems, may continue to grow. Therefore, some people's creativity can reach a new peak in middle-aged and old age.

Decorate your life with fashion and poetry.

The 70-year-old gentleman looks at the world brand sportswear; Women in their 60 s frequently enter international brand beauty cosmetics; This fashionable old lady has a strong interest in international fashion; Some old ladies travel online, and some old gentlemen record their lives with their camera bags on their backs. They experience the vitality of life in nature and taste the joy of life in music and painting.

I met a beautiful woman in a bar. I won't die unless I die.

1. Hello? Dad, who is it? Dad, it's me. Oh, no money? how much is it? I'm not asking for money. Miss you, just make a phone call and prepare to go home in a few days. Is there not enough money for the trip? Don't! Hey, dad, I bought you a pair of leather shoes. Aren't your shoes broken? I bought you a pair. So no money? Talking about money really hurts feelings. I heard an aunt's conversation. A: Didn't you bend it before? How did you get straight? I'm straight. I was shocked and lamented that the world is full of wonders and that Chinese aunts are not idle people! Then I heard them say, A: I remember you were bent the other day. Oh, that's a one-time perm. A: I think you'd better bend your hair a little! I want the crooked child to face the wall.

My friend made a beautiful girlfriend during the World Cup. I asked him how he did it. He said: You should support her favorite team and cheer for every goal she likes! The key is my anxiety: what is the key? He gave me a look and continued: the key is that you have one or two sports cars and then pat the keys on the table. When I finally knew the truth, my tears fell down.

4. A high flyers invited me to dinner today, and jiaozi paid for the mutton. Thirty dollars a copy, the gourmet thinks it's too bad. After finishing the account, I drank a bottle of vinegar on the table, and my friends and I were shocked! How do you know vinegar is free? )

Today, I am on a business trip with my client. The customer asked me: Do you like black-bone chicken? I nodded in surprise, and he arranged an African girl for me in the evening. (What's all this about ~)

6. It is said that a buddy has always been a bitch and made his wife angry before going to bed. There is no way but to coax her with sweet words. Very angry, he asked his wife: The child is over ten years old this year. The wife smiled happily and replied, I am twenty-five years old. The buddy habitually bursts out with a sentence: it doesn't look like a chest. Bang! Nosebleeds explode instantly. If you don't die, you won't die.

7. A tourist went to a hotel in a small town and chose a room for the owner with 1 0,000 yuan. When going upstairs, the shopkeeper paid the butcher 1 ten thousand yuan in arrears; The butcher went to the pig farmer to pay back the pig money; Pig farmers also paid back the feed money; The feed dealer went to pay back the money of the young lady; The young lady hurried to the hotel to pay back the house; This 1 0,000 yuan has returned to the owner. At this time, the tourists went downstairs and said that the room was not suitable, so they took the money and left, but the debt in the town was paid off. (I always feel that something is wrong)

8. A man met a beautiful woman in a bar, hesitated for a long time and asked in a low voice: Can I talk to you? The woman shouted no, I won't sleep with you! The whole bar was staring at them, and the man was embarrassed and returned to his seat. Later, the woman came up and whispered, I'm sorry. I am a psychology student. I'm just testing people's reactions in embarrassing situations. At this time, the man shouted: 200? It's too expensive! (Well, when will I get revenge? )

9. On the subway, a mother took the subway with her children, and the carriage was crowded with people. The child kept crying while saying my yellow ball. Finally, the whole car helped the children find the ball, searched the whole car, and found no ball. The child suddenly stopped crying, put his finger in his nostril and said, I'll make another one. (or make it easy)

10. Once I went to have a midnight snack with my sister, I usually paid the bill. This time I learned my lesson and deliberately didn't bring my wallet. When I finished eating, I said, Oh, my wallet is gone. What should I do with the boss? I saw this guy slowly take my wallet out of her bag, mine! Then he said, I knew you were forgetful. I just went out and saw that you didn't have your wallet. I brought it for you. (It's really my own sister)

1 1. Recently, my buddy invited a girl to eat ice cream every day. I was puzzled and asked why. The answer is: science shows that girls have a high probability of success in menstruating, and they are too embarrassed to ask their date, so they are invited to eat ice cream every day. When a girl doesn't eat, she must have come instead of running (new skill Get).

12. I found a fortune teller to calculate a divination for me. He looked at it and said, Brother, you must have been born in the early hours of the morning. I'm surprised: how can you calculate so accurately? He stroked his beard and said that it was ugly from one to three in the morning. There are countless grass mud horses galloping in my heart.

The wise man's life advice

1, don't let yourself look down on yourself.

On the road of life, you may encounter many choices. First of all, your choice should be worthy of yourself and never forget why you exist.

2. Be grateful to those who care about themselves.

No one will give it to you for no reason, be grateful, and don't make people who care about themselves sad.

3. Know how to cherish what you have now.

Escape from those illusory ideas, beautiful scenery is always ahead, but don't abandon your backpack. What you have now is the key to the front.

4. Put your ideas into action.

Some ideas are really wonderful, but if you keep looking forward, those opportunities will leave you.

5. Don't do something that you regret.

To do something, we must first think about whether we will regret it in the future, and finally make the right choice.

6. Calm down before making a decision.

In a calm situation, the decision made is often the most correct.

7. Love becomes a stranger in the depths.

Don't let people who care about you be lonely. Gradually estrangement is a prelude to strangers, and it hurts the most when you are in love.

8. Never be satisfied with the status quo.

Life is sailing against the current. If you stop, you may be the next person to be abandoned.

9. Remember to enrich yourself at all times.

This era is always progressing, so we should learn to enrich ourselves and master those new things.

The advice of an old man is worth cherishing!

Life is given by parents-cherish it.

Go by yourself-be careful.

Your spouse asked for it-just bear it.

Friends help each other.

Happiness is perceptible-just relax.

Worry is asking for it-forget it.

Mentality is practiced-be calm.

Friendship is cultivated-be pure.

Success comes with effort.

Failure is inevitable-relax.

There are thousands of loads of grain, and it is also three meals a day.

Money is also a black and white day.

There are ten houses and a couch.

Ride a hundred cars and you will have troubles and troubles.

Delicious food, but also full.

Prosperity has become the past.