How to live a wonderful life?

1. Read others Everyone will cry when they step into this world, which will bring too much harm to people! Mom almost died for you, and dad devoted himself to you to support himself! Friends and relatives are ready to congratulate and care about you, and other family members think you are busy! They're only doing this for your good life! Don't catch something bad for your health and harm you! Let you grow up carefree day by day and provide you with food, clothing, housing and transportation to go to school! They dare not complain at all! But in real life, you may be a darling when you are young. Study hard and work harder! Maybe when you were a child, you were the rebellious type, fooling around and dropping out of school! In your heart, you think you live for them. Why do you live for them? Have you read the hearts of all your relatives, friends, teachers and classmates? They just want you to have a wonderful life. Are you worthy of your future life? 2. Know yourself and be kind to yourself! In real life, many people have a lot of complaints and sorrows, complaining about why they were not born in a good family; Complaining that your lover doesn't understand yourself; Complaining about family, friends, partners, colleagues, and bosses who are sorry for themselves, complaining that God is unfair to them, complaining about their bad luck, and complaining about their fate ... makes you feel extremely unhappy all day! Envy others is better than yourself, and you look down on yourself, so everything goes wrong! In fact, the reason is that I don't know myself. Think about it, as long as you are born like a person, your five senses are no less than others. God gives you 24 hours a day, 60 minutes an hour and 60 seconds a minute, and you want nothing. This shows that it is fair! Look at the so-called rich people, people with status and power in your eyes. They have the same body and time as you. The only difference is that they pay more than you! They have a correct and positive attitude to face what is happening around them! I remember seven years ago when I was the head of the human resources department in a company, something happened, which moved me now. Shortly after I took office, the whole company held an early meeting. It turned out that the task of the morning meeting was to be the captain of the security team, and he just asked for leave to go home, so this task fell on me. I have never been a soldier, and the password is always soft and unsatisfactory. Our general manager asked me to do it seven times in a row, but I still didn't do it well! He scolded me in front of everyone, and the employees below laughed their heads off. I really wanted to find a hole to drill out. It's really a taste that you can't walk without staying, but after the general manager scolded me, the topic changed. "You laugh so crazy, who can come up and try?" No one dared to stand up and praise me at that time. To this day, I am very grateful to him. It is precisely because of his so-called embarrassment that my ability to resist pressure has been greatly improved. He asked me. Without that experience, I wouldn't have been eloquent in various training classes and played it to the fullest! From the above case, I deeply realize that anything happens, as long as you face it with a positive attitude, it is so beautiful! We should not care too much, so as to make ourselves feel better and happier, so as to be worthy of ourselves! No matter how others treat me, as long as we can think positively about him, it will inspire his heart and he will be better to us. If you think on the bad side, you always feel embarrassed that others are with you. I am sorry for you, and you will be unhappy if you are proud of being petty! Instead of asking others what to do, it is better to change your mind and make yourself feel better. If others are sorry for you, you must always be worthy of yourself! 3. Believe in yourself and build self-confidence. Why can't others succeed? Are we really unlucky? Destiny takes a hand, lack of ability? Or did someone deliberately hurt you? Here, I want to tell you the answer: absolutely not! Everything God gave us was fair, but we didn't make good use of it! Everyone has duality, one is proactive, and this is the inner truth, goodness and beauty! One is laziness or even depravity, which is the devil! In daily life, truth, goodness and beauty will make you find the joy of success, which is usually manifested in doing what you like actively, being good at trying every means to achieve your goals, making yourself successful and finding happiness; And the devil will keep stopping you, saying that you can't do it yourself, you can't! Let you give up! The success or failure of a person's career depends entirely on how you play your role well, that is, your control over the truth, goodness, beauty and demons in yourself! When beat the devil is true, good and beautiful, you will succeed! When the demons overcome the truth, goodness and beauty, you will be mediocre, look down on yourself, and will not consider your own success at all, and your life will be wonderful! We believe that everyone wants to succeed. As long as you have the confidence to let your truth, goodness and beauty overcome your demons, you will certainly succeed! Harvest the joy of life! When we set a small goal in life, each of us has his own lofty ideal, dreaming of his own future, dreaming of his own future, and everything is so beautiful! In fact, this is what you want to achieve in life! When I grow up, I find that I can't do it at all. You even think I was so naive and ridiculous when I was young! Actually, you are wrong. If you don't have that potential in your body, how can you have that idea? If you don't do something that has nothing to do with your ideal from the moment you have this ideal, how can you not do it? What's the reason? Most people will regard it as a normal phenomenon, so they will constantly revise their goals as they grow older. If they don't achieve their goals within a period of time, they will lower their goals until they fail again and again and become aimless. So just complaining! 5. Plan and control your own goals. If your life goals have never changed, and you have a plan to implement step by step, your life goals will definitely be realized! How to plan? A. first of all, consider what conditions must be met to achieve the goal. What kind of interference will it be? How long will it take to achieve this goal? How to turn some factors that are not conducive to achieving your goals into help and help you achieve your goals? B. the goal must be achieved in stages. What should you do at these stages? When will it be finished? How? C. If the actual effect is different from the target, how can you remedy it? How to work hard to achieve it? Only in this way can your goal be achieved! 6. Be grateful and have a grateful heart. In order to get a wonderful life and realize your life goals, you must constantly thank the people around you who have defeated you, because they have inspired you! Let you no longer be weak! You must thank your parents for giving you a healthy body! You must thank your friends, they help you succeed! You must thank your lover, who gave you a guarantee of success! You must thank your teachers and classmates, who gave you knowledge and wisdom and made you succeed quickly! You must thank your colleagues, because they gave you the road to success! You must thank all the people in the society, because they have given you the opportunity to create miracles and success! Finally, I wish all those who have read this article and want to succeed but fail can succeed and find their own wonderful life! Happy life! If there is anything wrong, I hope to criticize and correct me! thank you