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Why can't girls accept the love of their sister-in-law?

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According to the data of the Civil Affairs Bureau, the number of "brother-sister love" has been on the rise in recent years, and by the end of 2022, "brother-sister love" marriages have accounted for 40%.

In this contemporary society where men and women are equal, women are no longer accessories of men and do not need to rely on men to survive.

They are no longer the objects of choice, but have mastered the initiative of marriage and love.

In this case, they have every right to choose the type they like.

From the perspective of human nature, it is human instinct to like the young and beautiful opposite sex, regardless of gender.

So it is reasonable that women tend to be "sister-in-law".

If you are full of yearning for "brother-sister love", or there happens to be a boy younger than you who is pursuing you, and you also have the idea of trying, then please remember the following three sentences.

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First, the "brother-sister love" with an age difference of less than 4 years old is more likely to get a good ending.

According to the data of the Civil Affairs Bureau, 90% of the marriage age difference in China is controlled within 4 years old.

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In other words, although the "sister-in-law" marriage has reached 40%, almost all the "sister-in-law" couples are not much different in age.

In a sense, they are not even "brother and sister love" because they are about the same age.

Through real data, we can understand a truth: the probability of "brother-sister love" within 4 years old is very high.

On the one hand, there is little age difference, there is no generation gap, it is easier to communicate and realize ideological synchronization.

On the other hand, because they are similar in age, they are not easy to be concerned by their parents. If their parents don't object, the success rate is half high.

If you want to talk about a "brother-sister relationship" and expect a good result, you'd better choose a man under the age of 4.

The greater the age gap, the greater the risk.

If you are not young now, there is no need to take risks, lest you not only have to endure the pain of lovelorn, but also bear the ending of unmarried Chinese New Year.

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When a woman is old, she should measure her love with a clear head, and never act rashly or impulsively, lest she regret it.

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Second, the more self-abased and humble you are, the less the other person takes you seriously.

Although young people keep saying that men and women are equal, many girls also make it clear that men can find girls a few years younger than themselves, and women can still find boys a few years younger than themselves.

But in the face of this matter, there is actually a clear gap between men and women. Many men find that a girl who is a few years younger than themselves will not feel inferior.

In their view, this is a very normal thing. They will not give in to each other because they are younger than themselves, let alone show humility.

Women are different. When many women find a boy a few years younger than themselves, they will subconsciously feel that they are not worthy of each other, so they put themselves in a humble position and please men in various ways.

Psychologically, when a person is held high enough by another person and has been in the role of flattery, a sense of superiority will be formed psychologically.

Even if the object he actively pursued at first, or even if he spent a lot of time and energy turning it into a girlfriend, as long as the other party showed a humble attitude, he would immediately change roles.

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Gradually, he will put on a condescending posture and hint at your age in language, thus achieving the purpose of suppressing you.

According to this plot, you will become more and more humble in this relationship, and he will pay less and less attention to you.

If you want to avoid such a thing, you should correct your attitude from the beginning.

You have to understand that since the other party actively pursues you, since he chooses you by hook or by crook, it proves that you are worth it.

Since you are worth it, there is no need for you to feel inferior. Instead, you should treat this relationship with confidence.