Don't lend money to the poor

The poorer a person is, the more he needs backbone.

People with backbone are poor for a while; A spineless man is poor all his life.

Being a man, meeting a noble person is a happy event. If you don't meet a noble person, you will become a noble person yourself. Don't casually stretch out your hand to borrow money from others, let alone beg.

No matter how poor a person is, don't ask the people below for money. Not everyone is willing to lend you money. It is better to be self-reliant and slowly get through the trough of life than to refuse flatly.

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Don't borrow money from people who like to bully.

Some people, by virtue of their wealth and power, suppress the weak, or get rich by bullying and calculating the profits of others.

Such a person, although the economic conditions are ok, is likely to suffer if you ask him for money. He will take the opportunity to bully you, make fun of you, and may not lend you money.

For example, someone in your village has opened a quarry. If you borrow money from the quarry owner, he will let you work in the quarry and pay your debts with your salary. Of course, it is understandable to pay off debts with wages after borrowing money, but he pays you less, which is bullying you.

When they are poor, they are often vulnerable groups. Don't get close to bullies, get close to compassionate people.

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When you are poor, your parents will probably try their best to help you, even sell all the poultry in the family and give you all the money. Parents' concern for you is the warmest.

Not all old people have pensions, savings and houses. If your parents are over 60 years old and still make a living by farming, you should try to help your parents instead of expecting them to help you.

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Don't borrow money from relatives who look down on you.

Two years ago, my cousin Xiaohua opened a garage in the county. Xiaohua used to work in Dongguan, living a well-fed life without any savings. He wants to open a shop. On the one hand, he has matured; On the other hand, he wants to start a business in the county and take care of his elderly parents.

Before opening the shop, Xiaohua said among her relatives, "I'm going to open the shop. Please support me. "

Cousin Xiaowu immediately replied: "I have no money, so what shop should I open?" Going to work in a factory is not without food. "

Xiaowu started his business in Changsha and should have earned millions. But he looked down on his poor relatives and was afraid that they would borrow money from him, so he "preempted" others to borrow money from him.

It stands to reason that it is normal for rich relatives to help poor relatives, but rich relatives often look down on poor relatives.

If you are poor and want to borrow money from your relatives, you should distinguish between "alienation" and "intimacy". Looking down on your relatives has been alienating you. Don't ask for money, lest you ask for it

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Don't borrow money from "black-hearted" people.

Some people smile at you on the surface and promise you everything, but they like to play tricks behind your back. It is wrong to associate with people like you. If you ask him for money, it's wrong.

For example, if you want to open a hotel and borrow money from friends. My friend promised to lend you money, and he also lent you ten thousand dollars. After a while, friends will ask you for dividends, or often come to the hotel for free. As a result, you borrowed 10 thousand yuan and lost more.

Those who are friendly to you, if they have bad character and ulterior motives, you should still stay away from them and don't be confused by their appearance. Be cheated when you are poor. It's really hard. You may become poorer.

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Don't borrow money from people who are "mercenary"

For usury, it is estimated that everyone hates it. But there are always some people who make a fortune by this means and put aside morality and law for the benefit.

When you meet a mercenary, you still borrow money from him. On the surface, he will help you solve your urgent needs, but then you are always "unclear", which is terrible to think of.

Also, after you borrow money from him, you borrow money from you in the name of "benefactor" or make a profit in some way. What is hateful is that he still borrows money and doesn't pay it back, trying to put the benefits into his pocket.

Borrowing money should help each other. If it's for profit, be careful. As the saying goes, "mutton is not eaten, which causes a lot of coquetry." If you can't join the mercenaries, you are in big trouble. This is asking for it.

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Don't borrow money from "very hypocritical" people.

Very hypocritical person, likes to eat, drink and flatter, and looks very friendly. There may be such a person around you who often praises you. When you ask him to do something, he always agrees.

When you are in trouble and meet a hypocritical person, you just beg for help, but there is no result. He just pays lip service to your kindness and never puts it into action.

For example, if you invite some friends to dinner, they will readily agree to lend you money. But when you wake up, you can contact these friends again. They faltered one by one, pretending that they didn't say anything and didn't know anything. They won't lend you money anyway.

False people often talk but don't do it, break their words and follow the trend. If you are poor, most of them "fool" you, not really help you.

1030 10 wrote: "People with aspirations don't drink stolen springs, and honest people don't eat stolen food."

When a person is poor, don't accept "bring your own food" and don't reach out and beg. The way you reach out is ugly, and you are likely to be laughed at instead of getting help from a noble person.

As the saying goes, "helping the strong does not help the weak." A true good friend is often evenly matched, a partner, and not necessarily a good person. The better, the more good friends.

Have the ability to make a fortune on their own, but not short-sighted.

Related Q&A: What should I do if I borrow money from my relatives and friends? Be random and see what kind of relatives or friends you are. It is best not to borrow them. Related question and answer: Your ex-boyfriend who just broke up recently came to borrow money from you. Do you want to borrow it or not? I think the ambition of this ex-boyfriend is too short. Since you can't fall in love, why go to your ex-girlfriend? Is it necessary to borrow money?

If I were you, I wouldn't do it anyway. I shouldn't have borrowed money from my ex-girlfriend when I borrowed thousands of dollars.

Borrowing or not depends on the ex-girlfriend, so I guess the ex-boyfriend, maybe borrowing money may be fake, and it is also true that he wants to get back together through his ex-girlfriend.

I don't know how you analyze this ex-boyfriend's mentality of borrowing money from his ex-girlfriend. We can analyze it together.