"Know": It seems that the indisputable old lady Sheng is also cruel enough to teach these five tricks.

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In the TV series Do You Know, Mrs. Sheng is a soul figure. She is unhurried, neither supercilious nor supercilious, and has a degree of advance and retreat. Although she doesn't appear often, she is resourceful and wise in everything, and she is a very attractive figure to the audience.

On the surface, it seems that the undisputed Mrs. Sheng is more caring and caring. It can be said that her five unique skills for Ming Lan are the great wisdom of human beings. In today's era, we can also borrow them to be invincible in our current marriage life.

There is a detail in the play. After Gu Jiangong's career, he got married after careful calculation. On Ming Lan's wedding day, her grandmother cried and watched her girl leave as if she had been picked up.

This is because Ming Lan lost her mother when she was very young and grew up beside her grandmother. In addition to the affection between grandparents and grandchildren, there is also a feeling of being a teacher and friend, which has accompanied him for more than ten years. In addition, when he returned to Sheng's old house, Ming Lan was desperate to save his grandmother. The feelings of two people are inseparable.

Therefore, sending Ming Lan to get married, my grandmother's mood is the same as most mothers who marry their daughters. She is happy and worried, and her feelings are complicated.

"I don't see you for a day like Sanqiu, but for three days like every ten years." The old woman finally looked forward to the return of Ming Lan. It's really a big smile. She's happy. She looked Ming Lan up and down while laughing.

At the same time, Ming Lan is also very considerate and turns to her grandmother: "There is not a hair missing, and there is not a piece of meat missing."

At dinner, my lovesick grandparents had a long talk, and grandma told Ming Lan not to lose his manners and make people laugh. Ming Lan quickly comforted the old lady: "Grandma, don't worry, my granddaughter takes care of everything. Who dares to bully me in their family? "

What my grandmother said next was simply a golden saying: "I will teach you to be a lady with 18 martial arts." After coming out of the closet, he was hidden in the house by a man and kept nothing. Is it shameful to lose? " Your uncle is an unruly person, and he hates being controlled by others in his life. However, a man with such a temper should never stand up to him. "

"Although he protects you, you can't rely too much on him. As women, we should stick to ourselves, have money in one hand and have bosom friends around us. It was a comfortable day. Judging from several things he has done, she is a person who doesn't rub sand in her eyes. If there is anything, she must make it clear to him. Never pretend to be virtuous, so the husband and wife will be alienated. "

This kind of household talk is not unusual at all. Every sentence has a mystery, which contains the old lady's life experience for decades. It is a magic weapon to ensure the smooth life of granddaughter.

There is a lot of wisdom in grandma's words, which can be summarized as five principles for women to get along with their husbands. It can be described as a vicious move to make women stronger.

First, women can't be arrogant and can't rely on them.

Every skill handed down by the old lady is an essential skill for managing the family. If you don't use this skill, it will be useless. Second, if a woman loses the right to manage her family, someone will take advantage of it. Because of the greed for enjoyment, others take advantage of it, and the loss outweighs the gain.

Second, get along with bloody men, don't be forced.

Because women are naturally weak, compared with men in strength and rigidity, they will fall into decline, so we should make good use of our own advantages. "coquetry and adoration" and "combining rigidity with softness" are much more useful than being a bitch.

Third, there is money in hand.

Money is not everything, but you can't do anything without it. Women should be confident and have money in their hands. No wonder when she got married, her grandmother gave Minglan a generous dowry.

Fourth, have a confidant around you.

"One hero, three gangs", in the past, if there were no reliable people around you, you would always put yourself in danger. If Fluttershy, the girl around her, was not driven away by people's tricks, the little girl in Ming Lan would not be lonely when she died.

Fifth, husband and wife treat each other with sincerity.

Mutual trust and frankness are the basis of harmonious coexistence between husband and wife. If you play tricks with the person sleeping next to you, there will be bad blood between husband and wife, which will only make the two hearts farther and farther apart, and there is no possibility of making up for it, so there will be no peace at home.

These five principles, seemingly powerless, are actually vicious moves, and each one is the ultimate magic weapon for husband and wife to get along. Love needs fate, and marriage needs management. By mastering these five principles, women can take the initiative in marriage and live a comfortable life.

There will be many difficulties in this world. If we compare life to a long game, we can't fight alone in this game, but need a partner, even if we quarrel, we need an opponent.

If we are lucky enough to get a partner who can walk with us, we need to maintain this relationship and run this marriage together, so that we can grow old together.

And these five principles are the magic weapon for us to manage marriage.

In other words, in marriage, we should pay attention to five things: money (economic independence), career (career independence), friends (independent social circle), heart (frankness) and strategy (softness).

In fact, this is what Professor Carl Whitaker told us in the book "Family on Hot Pot": Family members must first become independent individuals, and then learn to accept each other and establish a free family relationship that can be separated and combined, so as to be closer to each other!

From here, Mrs Sheng is actually a wise man in ancient China. She is a clever person. It seems that she doesn't fight for it, but in fact she is ingenious.