What if extramarital affairs lead to family breakdown?

In today's society, fornication can be said to be the first harm to society. What is fornication? All couples except proper relationship are promiscuous),

In the process of fortune telling, I have met several such typical examples. About ten years ago, I met a man in his early thirties, and his face was not without happiness. But at that time, I measured my life and looked at my face. There is nothing wrong with the other party, but it is best to be feminine. He was persuaded at that time, but he didn't agree. He feels that some teachers also say that peach blossoms will flourish. I advised him to break the bad fate outside, but he didn't listen at all. On the contrary, it shows that my fortune-telling teacher is too rigid. Later, I observed him for more than ten years, and prostitution had a great influence on him: first of all, the relationship between husband and wife has been very poor. Although they appear to be husband and wife on the surface, their relationship has always existed in name only. Because of lewdness, looking for a woman outside, the relationship between husband and wife plummeted. His wife, no longer devoted to this, just engaged in beauty and dressing up. There is no real happiness when two people are together. Occasionally, I heard two people commenting on each other, and both of them were very disdainful. It's like commenting on a passerby who doesn't look at it at all. Looking back, it is really shocking that couples can respond to each other with disdain. Second. Prostitution affects wealth. He has been doing business for a lot longer than others, but every year, I don't know why, even if the business is good, he will eventually not make money or spend money because of other things. In Hengyang (where we are located is a small and medium-sized city, the house price is about 3,000 yuan per square meter), people who come out to do storefront business later than him have bought houses or facades. But he has been in business for ten years. No house, no savings, no debt. It's like this at the end of every year. People think his shop is not small, and business has never been so good. Why business is getting worse and worse, and finally the store is heavily in debt. I met his family some time ago, only to know that the shop he had been doing for a long time had closed down for some time. At present, life is very unsatisfactory. Nothing, debt, people live more negatively. In a word, things have been very bad. At the head of all evils, people are born of lust, which leads to family unhappiness. An adulterer and an adulterer and an adulterer and an adulterer, reporting their wives and daughters, lead to disharmony in the family. Others still have various bad results. "Fayuan Zhu Lin" said: "Ten sins of Buddhism: one always cares about the murder of another; The couple are not harmonious; Three evils increase and good decreases; All four wives are widows; Daily property consumption of five people; Six evils are often suspected; 7. Defamation by relatives and friends; Eight people make enemies; Nine died in hell; Ten people report men, wives are not chaste, and women are reported. Many people are monogamous. " It says that prostitution will consume property every day. Judging from his condition, it's true. Face is not bad, people are not without a little fortune, that is, after prostitution ruined fortune, people do things, how to do them, no matter what they do, the final result is very bad. In his early years, he took a very young girl and went out to do bad things behind his wife's back. I am really depressed now. When people reach middle age, they have no career and bad family feelings. So, I thought it was nothing at the time, but in fact, there will be heavy retribution later.

There is also a practical case, which is a friend of my husband. We have known each other for more than ten years. Mr. Sui knows each other and feels that the other party is quite good in other aspects, but I don't know why. They have been married for a long time and have never had children of their own. He knew that I was studying life. When I made an investment, he told my husband to let me approve a life to see if I had any luck. I checked the difference and was surprised to find that the other couple's palace was very poor, and all the empty robberies entered the couple's palace. It's hard to find a dignified wife. It is better to repair more blessings and improve your destiny. It doesn't matter if children can have children. It's strange why people who are not bad-looking have no children. Later, I learned from the side that the two of them met online and played games. At that time, the other party still had a husband, but after they met, they had a strange idea of being together. As a result, the other party divorced and he really got married. (Destroying other people's marriage is a tragic karma, and serious fornication will inevitably consume one's own blessings. However, after marriage, they once had a child who was found to be an ectopic pregnancy. Later, they didn't want any more children, and they didn't want any more children. Even if there is no divorce together, the relationship is very bad. Up to now, the only child in their family has no grandson. Later, the more I got to know each other, the more I found out that each other was greedy. I shouldn't have said this, just shared a case. No other meaning. Once, I opened the chat record between him and her husband. I didn't mean to, because I didn't mean to log on to my net number, and suddenly I saw him send a picture. I didn't have any vigilance, I just opened it and took a look. Because he sent it to Mr. Wang, I think there should be nothing not to see. As a result, dizzy, it turned out to be a photo of a woman wearing small clothes. Then I made a very boring remark. Scared me to turn it off at once. Hey. I didn't study Buddhism at that time, but I thought it was too much. Why should I send this stuff to my husband? I am really angry. The investment he made later asked me if I had made any money in the past. Wei Zi can find the people's Fude Palace. I think Fude Palace was badly consumed, and the fortune was not good at that time. Frankly speaking, there is no luck in the process of seeking money, but he is full of confidence that he can do something good. As a result, it's really a year's hard-earned money and human and material resources. In the end, all this was in vain. After I heard about Buddhism, I understood the cause and effect of fornication. And I keep hearing about this friend. The oldest business that I have been doing for a long time is getting harder and harder to maintain, and I can't afford it. I closed my company and was forced to move to a completely different industry to help others. Unfortunately, he is actually a very talented person. His looks and intelligence are not ordinary people at all. I just don't understand the importance of cultivation. This lewdness is really harmful! And many people who are still very smart can already understand everything when it comes to the outcome of prostitution. It is said in "The Record of Wandering Soul" that the punishment for adultery in the world is too light. In fact, an adulterer may be a pig in the tenth life and deaf in the next. It is not a little punishment. In fact, as long as he commits this crime, there will be serious obstacles in society, whether it is his life or his family. I really hope that my friends can see the great harm caused by lewdness, care for their hearts, cultivate their happiness and have a good child in the future. Don't really be punished like childlessness. That's terrible.

There is also a woman who has been an old customer for ten years. She is very beautiful. When we first met, they came to me for a group of fortune tellers. At that time, I thought everything else was fine, but there were too many doomed love peach blossoms. Advise her not to touch married men. Seriously find someone. She promised me, but she didn't do it later. She was a lover on and off, and even adopted. Among them, the feelings were not smooth, the abortion, and the other wife called home. But she doesn't want to give up the luxurious life at all. I thought I would get a good income by doing nothing, but I had no idea that it was completely harmful to myself. Sure enough, ten years later, she became more and more lazy and didn't want to do things by herself, but no normal good man dared to marry her. You don't know everything about others as soon as you come into contact with them, so stay away from her. Is to find that you can't stand the state of complete parasitism after contact. What is the result of prostitution for more than ten years? Observing her, it is not difficult to find that she is really much older. She is beautiful, but I don't know why she is aging so quickly. Girls who look normal look normal and young, but when they see that she should be in her prime, they feel even more decadent. And often get sick. Several children were knocked out in the middle, which is also very serious and harmful to girls' health. I once asked her, is it really good to toss yourself like this? She said, no way, teacher. I have no skills. The salary is too low, and I haven't found a husband yet. Hey, you can only mix. That sounds sad. In fact, in this society, as long as you do well, study hard and work hard, you can find an ordinary job, support yourself and live with dignity. Why rely on men, but also rely on men who don't belong to you, and consume yourself to live? After more than ten years, all she has is a little material. At that time, she was so beautiful that if she took a normal path, she would not lose her blessing. What she should live today is a life with a husband and children, ten times happier. Prostitution is really harmful, and many people who are poisoned by prostitution are beautiful women. Is the beauty unlucky I think more beauty also needs to be learned, and it is also necessary to understand Buddhism and understand that cause and effect are not empty. A good young man, a good face given by God is a double-edged sword. If wisdom is to cultivate one's morality and live a dignified life, and strive to walk on the right path, everyone will be happy everywhere. If you fall into prostitution, it seems easier to attract people. In fact, when I was young, I still had nothing, and even the blessings left by my parents and grandparents were consumed in intangible crimes, which only increased hell. Don't think that easy money is easy to earn, and don't take the old road of lewdness again. It's never too late to turn back in life. Do something wrong and turn back bravely. Determined to repair life, abandon evil.

There has always been a book by Professor Zhong on the shelf, which I think is very good. "My Fair Lady's Standard" When I invited you back to see it. There is no deeper feeling than this. There is a teaching about Song Shanggong about how women can settle down and cultivate their morality. Our traditional women's education in China is worth learning. If women are dignified and quiet, this society will be much more peaceful and quiet. It says, what is the real standard of my fair lady. A woman's virtue and integrity are not reflected in her vigorous behavior, but in her daily behavior. Her every move and even her eyes are the embodiment of virtue. You can look for it when you have time.

Because of time, I can only write here today. I hope everyone can see this and be moved. Internet is always a double-edged sword. If you are looking for positive energy, you can read and learn from the Buddhist videos of sages. If you seek negative energy, your vision and heart will become impetuous. We must resolutely stay away from obscene negative energy! Refuse to browse bad web pages! Don't be invited by friends to see pornographic movies! Don't accept impure information! Look at yourself quietly, get rid of evil thoughts and cut off the bad influence of evil thoughts on yourself. Thoroughly sweep away the haze of the soul. People who come into contact with prostitution can't lift their souls, so why bother! Be upright, even ghosts and gods admire you. Why not go to the bright world? So many unfortunate marriages, so many unfortunate life trajectories caused by lewdness. Don't take the road of no return from now on! I hope everyone will cherish life together, stay away from lewdness and practice good deeds. If friends around you have obscene problems, don't dislike or feel nothing. Find opportunities to persuade people around you to eliminate lewdness. How many people just because no one told him that lewdness is very, very bad! I don't know that fornication is the most harmful to myself, my family and my fate! This is why we often fall down! I hope those who are destined to read this article will cherish their families and never be harmed by prostitution again! Let your life be smooth sailing!