What does the so-called hand test mean? Try to hold a girl's hand to see what she thinks.

I knew from an early age that as long as I held her hand, she would begin to love me. From the first time a woman is willing to walk hand in hand with you in the street, it means that she is saying to you, "Yes, that's right! I like you. I want you to be my boyfriend. I am willing to hold hands, kiss and even ... "

Since I knew this truth, when I walked with her, our arms were swinging. At that moment, the backs of our hands were so close that I could even feel the temperature of the back of her hand. At this moment, I will think to myself, "How tender her hands are. If I hold her hand now and let us connect with each other, will she be willing? " But then I didn't know what to do. As a result, we both missed this relationship.

What saddens me most is that a few years later, her best friend told me that she had been blaming me for not holding her hand. Just as a woman, she can't take the initiative to say to me, "You can come and hold my hand." She thought I didn't like her, so she wouldn't let the relationship continue. I didn't know she was expecting me to hold her hand, so we missed each other's relationship.

I swear I will never let this happen again. Now, I finally know what to do:

If we hit it off and chat for a while, I wonder if we can hold her hand. I will stare at her hair as I walk, then reach out and brush her hair from my forehead and say, "It's a little messy, but your hair is very comfortable." Then stop, turn to her front, look at her hair, and gently "arrange" her hair. If at this time, her head doesn't lean to the other side of my body, but stays still or even leans slightly in the direction of my body, then I know I can hold her hand. I'm not in a hurry. I slowly removed my hand from her hair, brushed her arm, gently stroked her fingers, then turned around, held her hand and walked on.

This "hand-in-hand test" makes all this happen so naturally. I am kind and a gentleman. I didn't give him a reason to refuse me. I didn't ask her if she could hold your hand. Because, she can answer no, I don't need her permission now, I have already held her hand. I will never be rejected. What excites me even more is that it only takes me a few minutes to immediately judge whether I can hold her hand. It may take days, nights, months or even years to figure it out, or maybe I just missed my whole life. ...

In fact, before the hand-held test, for the sake of safety, you can also make a small gesture to test the girl's affection for you. This is an unintentional touch.

Unconscious touch means that the other person doesn't understand your purpose, just casual or friendly touch. There are the following situations:

1. Touching each other unintentionally: for example, touching her body when there are many people.

2. Play in the process of interaction: When she behaves well, you can pat her on the shoulder or pat her on the head and tell her: You are so cute. When you have fun, you can read her palm, play thumb wars with her and so on.

3. Protect her body in public. Including crossing the road, buses, subways and other crowded places to clear the way for her, forming a protective circle.