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Zhang Mo, daughter of famous director Zhang Yimou and his ex-wife Xiao Hua, 1983, from Xi, Shaanxi. When Zhang was 5 years old, her parents divorced and she lived with a single mother.

The divorce of parents has become a dark cloud hanging over the growing sky. She grew up in the shadow of her parents' divorce. The broken family made Zhang feel insecure.

Zhang had a failed marriage. Her ex-husband is an American, and they divorced in 2008. Now 13 years have passed, what is Zhang Mo's emotional state?

Zhang Mo was born on March 3rd1983. It was the end of the month, and her father Zhang Yimou named her "Zhang Mo". She learned from her mother Xiao Hua's autobiography "Past Events Like Smoke" that when she was born in a hospital in An, her father directed the film "One and Eight" in Guangxi.

After the nurse cut the umbilical cord, the mother struggled to get out of bed and went to the hospital office to call her father: "I was born and I am a daughter. We are all fine, don't worry."

Zhang Yimou's voice trembled with excitement: "I really want to see my daughter and hug her. My daughter was born at the end of the month. Call her Zhang Mo. "

It was more than half a month after Zhang was born that his father came back from outside.

In order to take better care of his family, Zhang Yimou applied to be transferred back to his hometown to work. With the help of Wu, director of Xiying Factory, Zhang Yimou officially transferred back to Xiying Factory from Guangxi Film Studio.

In Zhang Mo's memory, my father often brought friends home. At that time, Zhang lived in a small apartment of more than 40 square meters. Someone is sitting on the bed, sofa and floor. While smoking, everyone talked about movies and art.

Xiaohua is cooking water for everyone in the kitchen. Zhang Mo was lying at the door, looking at the uncles with big eyes. Later, the smell of smoke was too strong for Zhang, so he ran out to play with the children in the yard.

Zhang Yimou is a workaholic, working outside for more than 300 days, 365 days a year. Zhang Mo grew up behind her mother's bike, and her mother used it to drive her around.

But there is also a warm and beautiful moment at the end of Zhang, that is, when her father comes back from outside, he will bring her fruits and sweets he has never seen before, and then take her to grandparents' house for dinner.

The two houses are several stops apart. Father doesn't ride a bike or take a bus, so Zhang Mo sits on his shoulder and walks all the way. On the way, my father and Zhang Mo were talking and laughing, counting the buttonwood trees in the street together. My mother is also very happy to follow.

However, Zhang's happy childhood ended early. From 65438 to 0987, Zhang Yimou won the "Golden Bear Award" at the 38th Berlin International Film Festival for directing the film Red Sorghum, which was the first time that China won the highest awards at the three major international film festivals in the world. Zhang Yimou has thus become the hottest young director in China.

Because of this movie, it indirectly changed the fate of Zhang Mo and her mother. During the filming, Zhang Yimou fell in love with Gong Li, the heroine of the film. Zhang Yimou felt that Gong Li was her bosom friend, and they shared the same language, goal and pursuit.

Zhang Mo still remembers that when her father came back from receiving the prize, she and her mother went to the airport to meet him. The father actually held his mother's hand and said, "Thank you, thank you." Mom is puzzled.

Many years later, Zhang Mo realized the meaning behind his father's behavior. He betrayed his mother emotionally, felt guilty and had a complicated mood, so he made such a move.

Sure enough, my father filed a divorce with my mother soon after he came home. Five-year-old Zhang Mo doesn't know what divorce means. She saw big tears in her mother's eyes and gnashed her teeth and said, "We all have daughters, and I won't divorce."

Dad said it didn't matter if he didn't get divorced, and he wandered around the world from now on.

Zhang Mo still doesn't understand, is the magic of love really that big? Why did dad leave home for a woman?

Since then, my father really seldom goes home, and even if he stays at home, he rarely communicates with his mother.

1988 During the Spring Festival, my father only stayed at home for three days and then went out. Mom didn't ask him where he was going, and dad didn't say a word to her.

This year's winter comes very early. In June165438+1October, there were many snowflakes floating in Xi 'an. One cold evening, my father came back from outside with snowflakes on his hair and eyebrows. My mother reached out and patted him, but my father turned away.

Then mom and dad went to the study, and Zhang Mo sat on the sofa, watching the snowflake "poop-poop" flapping against the window, feeling particularly sad.

After more than half an hour, my father came out. He kissed Zhang Mo's hair and went to his grandparents' house with a scarf.

When her mother came out, she hugged Zhang Mo tightly in her arms and said with tears, "Your father wants to divorce me." Zhang Mo cried with a "wow", and her mother held Zhang Mo tighter, tears dripping on her hair.

Dad wants to divorce his mother, but grandparents and all relatives and friends are against it. However, my father still has to leave my mother without hesitation. My mother is a proud and self-respecting woman, and she doesn't want to live on her knees anymore.

Soon, mom and dad divorced, and Zhang Mo became the list of children.

After the mother divorced, although she seldom sighed and shed tears in front of Zhang Mo, her heart was very painful. She has difficulty sleeping, with deep crow's feet around her eyes and white hair on her head.

As his father is a public figure, his affair with his mother was reported by the media, and everyone around Zhang Mo knew about it. At the end of Zhang's school, some people sympathized with her, some people ridiculed her, and even looked at her differently.

She often hides at home and cries when she comes home from school. She doesn't need pity and sympathy from others. She just wants to have a complete family, but it's not too much. Why is it so difficult for her?

Under the pressure of public opinion and secularism, my mother lived a very depressed life. But the psychological burden on Zhang Mo's back is enormous. She became sensitive, lonely and insecure, struggling in the shadow of her parents' divorce.

After the parents divorced, my father would visit Zhang Mo when he returned to his grandparents' home. During the short time with her father, Zhang Mo will be a little happy, but once her father leaves, she will live with her single mother, and that loneliness and shadow will wrap her again.

When Zhang Mo was in junior high school, her father took her to the crew, and she met Gong Li. Zhang Mo already knew that her parents' marriage broke up because of Gong Caili. She was resentful and didn't say a word to Gong Li.

At that time, the media often hyped up the feelings between his father and Gong Li. Every time I see these reports, Zhang Mo's heart is bleeding. I think it's unfair to my mother. And wherever she went, it also became the focus of attention of others.

In this way, Zhang Mo grew up to 16 years old in the shadow of his parents' divorce. 1999, Zhang Mo graduated from junior high school and wants to study abroad. In a strange foreign land, no one knows herself, no one knows her parents, and she can live a quiet life.

This summer, when her father came to see Zhang Mo, she expressed the idea of studying abroad. Zhang Yimou agreed.

He quickly contacted a high school in new york, USA for his daughter, and completed all kinds of procedures for studying abroad for her.

On the eve of leaving home, Zhang's heart was full of sadness. After my parents divorced, my mother was heartbroken, no longer believed in love and marriage, and never set foot in feelings.

In fact, my mother's figure and appearance are all right, and she has literary talent. She also works in Xi 'an Film Studio, and everything is good. Someone introduced my mother to someone, and she declined.

My mother is like this, not only because she can't get out of the shadow of widowhood, but also because her daughter will be wronged after remarriage.

Zhang Mo knew that her mother had no marriage and husband, and she became her emotional sustenance, and all her life revolved around herself. Now I'm going to study in the United States, and my mother has to face longer loneliness.

However, my mother is very strong. She said to Zhang Mo, "You can study with peace of mind, and everything will be fine, mom." The mother and daughter parted in tears at the airport.

While studying in Zhang Mo, my mother was laid off from Xiying Factory. My father wanted to help her financially, but my mother refused. So Zhang Mo worked for her mother or sent her money in her own name.

After finishing high school in the United States, Zhang Mo was admitted to the Department of Architecture of Columbia University, and then entered the Department of Film Script and Director of new york University for further study.

In 2006, Zhang Mo accepted his feelings under the pursuit of American boy Tony. Neither mom nor dad approve of Zhang Mo dating foreigners, but Zhang Mo, who grew up in a single-parent family, is particularly eager for family warmth. In spite of her parents' opposition, she married Tony in America that year.

Because of the huge differences in personality, living habits and cultural background, the marriage between Zhang Mo and Tony was not harmonious, and Tony even insulted her. In order not to worry mom and dad, Zhang Mo has been hiding her real marital status from her parents.

It was not until 2008 that Zhang Mo and Tony went through the divorce formalities and told their parents. The breakdown of her daughter's marriage made Xiaohua particularly sad.

Her feelings are vicissitudes. She only hopes that her daughter's marriage will be smoother and flatter. I didn't expect her daughter to stumble on the emotional road again.

After Zhang Mo returned to China, Zhang Yimou took her daughter to work together. Zhang Mo studied directing, scriptwriting, editing and subtitles in his father's company. Zhang Yimou accepted his daughter as a closed disciple and taught her all kinds of experiences.

Since 2009, Zhang Yimou has directed Three Guns Surprise, Hawthorn Tree Love, flowers of war, Return and other films. Zhang Mo is an assistant director, editor and subtitle.

Influenced by her parents' divorce and her own divorce, Zhang Mo became afraid of marriage, and she no longer set foot in love, which Xiaohua could not accept.

My daughter is so young that she has no children. She must have an emotional home. During the years when Zhang Mo returned to China, her mother kept urging her to get married.

Xiaohua said, "If you don't get married, your mother will have a hard time in her later years, and it doesn't make much sense to live. For you and for your mother, you must have a small family again. "

Zhang Yimou is also very concerned about her daughter's personal problems and often instills in her the beauty of marriage. Under the influence of parents, Zhang Mo married the Swiss Meng Danqing on 20 13.

Meng Danqing was born in South Korea. He is Swiss. I graduated from the University of Florida, studied in Tsinghua University for one year, and worked in a well-known brokerage company in Beijing.

On Zhang's wedding day, Xiaohua also rushed to Beijing from Ann. Many years later, Zhang Yimou and his ex-wife reunited, and the feud has long since passed. They greet each other like friends.

Xiao Hua thanked Zhang Yimou for making her daughter grow up so well, and Zhang Yimou thanked Xiao Hua for raising her daughter. This scene made Zhang Mo burst into tears.

After Zhang Mo and Meng Danqing got married, their marriage has been stable and happy. After his father remarried to Chen Ting, he gave birth to three more children, and the family lived well. I can think of my divorced and lonely mother, and Zhang's heart is not a taste.

Now that my mother has entered her later years, she lives alone in Xi 'an, and there is a lot of loneliness in her life. Zhang Mo's single mother, who is distressed by divorce, always has tears in her eyes when she thinks of her mother's hard years along the way.

Under the guidance of her father, combined with Zhang Mo's talent and hard work, in 20 17, she won the "10 China screen billboard" newcomer director award for directing the comedy film "28-year-old minors".

On July 30th, 20021year, the film "Sniper" directed by Zhang Mo, which reflected the story of the sniper to resist U.S. aggression and aid Korea, was grandly released in major theaters all over the country and won wide acclaim.

Now Zhang is 38 years old. Because of my busy career, I have never given birth to a baby. Mother wants a balance between career and life, so Zhang Mo puts having children on the agenda.

"Best Celebrity" Comments: Zhang's parents divorced when she was 5 years old, and she was undoubtedly unfortunate. However, it is gratifying that after the divorce, Zhang Yimou did not forget that he was still a father, and always took good care of his daughter and ex-wife.

He sent his daughter to study abroad, and then took her to the road of directing, which warmed her inner pain with fatherly love and gave Zhang a brilliant life.

The author sympathizes with Xiao Hua. She was only in her thirties when she divorced Zhang Yimou. That is a woman's best youth, but she has been single for various reasons.

A psychologist once said that women are emotional animals. After falling in love with a man, I can't get out of the shadow of the other person all my life. Perhaps in the love marriage with Zhang Yimou, Xiao Hua exhausted his passion and love energy, unable to love another person.

In fact, this is not desirable. If you get divorced, no matter how much you love your ex, the other person will become someone else's husband. You should bravely start a new life. My ex is happy, why can't I be happy? Why punish yourself with your predecessor's mistakes?

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