The fortune teller said that I couldn't send my grown-ups, which was tantamount to giving my black hair away for nothing.

Do you know who adults are? Adults refer to nobles, people who bring blessings. Sending is to give up, to covet, to retain, and to retain the noble people who left because of greed or pity. Let it go without worry, let it come without worry. Once you interfere, the consequences will be disastrous for your family.

Don't tell fortune, because it doesn't count, don't think deeply? If the fortune teller is not cheating money, the above is the correct solution, which means you have to be careful not to be greedy.