Why do some people begin to believe in fate after middle age?

At the invitation of documentary director Shao,

When people reach middle age, it is the age when things change. Many dreams may come true, or they may really become an unattainable dream. Only when people read themselves can they understand that toasting is more about interest and icing on the cake is everywhere. How many people have tried and struggled, and the result is always unsatisfactory. The road of life is already halfway, and the responsibility and pressure on their shoulders have never been alleviated. education

There must always be an outlet to comfort and vent the right and wrong of life. A lot of powerlessness is always comforted and mediated by a sad heart. The most powerful reason for spiritual support is to believe in life. If you hit eight feet, it's hard to find a position. Sometimes you have to have it in your life. You don't have to push yourself all the time, you don't have to work hard, you don't have to be born with the courage to be afraid of tigers, and you don't want to compromise with your family.

Faith is not the ultimate pessimism, gloom and superstition; But rational, mature and profound values. Knowing that there are mountains outside the mountains can make the clouds light and the wind light. The world is unfair in essence, everyone has a different starting line, individual differences are not transferred by people's will, and the final results are very different. This is an objective fact. Only by understanding this reality can we better live high. .

Your analysis is very original. As the questioner of the question, I look at this question like this:

1 When he was young, he was a teenager. He believes in his ability too much. He believes that his ambition and life goals can be achieved through his own efforts. You told him your fate, and he laughed at you as an idiot. After all, his experience is still a blank sheet of paper. How can you convince him of the future that has not yet arrived?

2. After middle age, people will leave feelings and thoughts in these experiences, no matter whether they have experienced prosperity, adversity, bumps or happiness, and these thoughts and precipitation will naturally be lamented by some strange and regular phenomena in their life experiences, and they will begin to believe that their own strength and passion are not enough to change their lives and the world, so they believe that there is a natural force that dominates the ups and downs of life and deducts the opportunities of life.

3, when you know that life is not confused, life is already over half, too many feelings have been proved by facts, and too many experiences have been decided by the results. Only then did I find that my life has been wandering in the strange circle of fate, and too many examples around me have mercilessly confirmed the existence of laws. This is fate, a law that nature cannot compete with and change.

Therefore, in a word, it is the interpretation of experience and experience, prosperity and adversity, ups and downs, ups and downs, so that after experiencing feelings, life realizes the existence of fate and begins to choose faith and piety.

There is a good saying: young people believe in falsehood, while old people doubt falsehood!

When people reach middle age, they underestimate a lot of right and wrong, and suddenly know that everything in the world is safe and warm. A lingering curve of right and wrong that human beings can not change at will. The time that life occupies in all happiness always forms a difficult and tortuous transformation of human destiny in various unexpected ways. All the great burdens on it are evil people that human beings can't change, and they are the merciless sufferings that life forms in happiness. It is always because of fate that we lose our minds and importune. It is precisely because of oneself that the moral confusion formed from time to time can not be alleviated and realized in reality, so it is human beings who give up their efforts to transform their destiny and enjoy a dull life. Persistence in insipid becomes fate, sudden happiness, and the pleasure that life enjoys in it becomes the truth that life believes in fate.

If you don't know your life, you don't think you are a gentleman. The Analects puts knowing life at the end, and the highest state of benevolence: knowing life, knowing courtesy and knowing words!

Fate: this is a law, a trend,

Ceremony: etiquette and regulations,

Say: it is to understand others.

Just like the road a person has traveled, he will eventually meet at the same intersection. This is the law of life. When you are about to enter the slow lane of life, you will find many similarities in life. Why? It is the way of thinking, cultural background and social situation.

Two brothers came out at the same time, one south and the other north, and let them go back the same way. It is the integration of north and south. Their companies are different and their businesses are different. However, the internet platform integrates them together.

The same time, the same pay, different harvest, why? It is fate that makes people. One invested in the sunrise industry with wisdom, which made China the first online shopping. The other bet on opportunism, and the legal principle punished him mercilessly. This is the difference between Ma Yun and Huang Guangyu.

More and more people really believe that fate begins in middle age.

What is fate? Fate is the final destination that a person cannot change.

Fate theory is mostly sneered at by young people. Almost all young people are full of expectations for the future and have grand dreams. They all believe that through their own efforts, they will certainly strive for a better future for themselves. Therefore, most young people don't believe in fate. Even if they are poor, they will have the confidence and determination to change the status quo of poverty.

After middle age. Not only did the body begin to decline. The heart is gradually losing its spirit and being tortured by repeated failures. At this time, many colleagues have made achievements in their own fields, but they are still complacent. The inner gap makes me very lost. How to balance an unbalanced heart? Since we can't change the status quo, we must change our hearts, try to look down on life and lose our dreams. So only 40 people are not confused, and 50 people know their own destiny. In fact, this kind of open-mindedness is not the strength and emptiness of the mind, but the helpless passive choice after failing to improve themselves.

Middle-aged people are not only aging physically, but also aging internally. Middle-aged people are slipping from the peak of their career, and their career is moving from enterprising to persistence. He couldn't help making an excuse for his present situation. Some people of the same age have opened a big company, and he will say that people are lucky and have noble people to help them. Some people of the same age become big officials, and he will say that people have a good life, have a background and are willing to give money. Someone who has achieved something in this major will say that his life is good. If no one recommends that paper to him, it's his turn to evaluate the function. Others make a career because their own lives are good, so fate is so embarrassing that it is natural to blame fate.

Fate, in many middle-aged people, has become a fate decided from birth. Accept your fate and accept your present situation with peace of mind. If you accept your fate, you will face the gap frankly, and there will be no such big psychological gap.

In fact, there is a natural gap in people's fortune, and it is an undeniable fact that social classes at home and abroad are solidified. As a natural rural bottom, a natural urban citizen, he is so slim and is a humble position that most people can't change.

But fortunately, the top floor is not closed, and we still have a chance at the bottom. Just like Ren, middle-aged entrepreneurship has made China's greatest technology company, just like Chu's 70-year entrepreneurial achievement, Chu Orange. Is it too early to believe in fate in middle age? Fate is still in your own hands, take it yourself!

Through his questions, I will nag you a few words, tell a fairy story, and take the first person, believe it or not.

On the first task, the director gave me something, wrapped it in broken socks and said to me, "Take this thing well, it can save lives at a critical moment."

I held it in my hand and looked left and right. I couldn't see anything special, so I threw it in the basket behind me.

Because I was blindfolded, ...

Ten thousand words are omitted here, and I suddenly don't want to say it. Sorry, sorry.

When I was a teenager, I didn't believe in fate because I dared to fight; Now entering middle age, I have experienced ups and downs all the way, and everything is bleak. The people who should be famous have both fame and fortune, and the people who should be rich have made a fortune, but I have nothing. It's not that I didn't work hard. It's my personality that determines my fate. Therefore, I quit my job, take care of my health and be content!

A person's life is full of unknowns. People who believe in fate are willing to be ordinary in the end. People say that they stand at thirty, don't be confused at forty, and know their destiny at fifty. There is some truth, but there are opportunities at every stage of life. If you catch it, you will stand out. Don't let mobile games and boring online socializing ruin your life. ...

Fate exists, just like a person carrying a burden, he must put it down when he is tired. This is the principle of nature. Fortune telling is to find out how many things you are carrying and how many burdens you will put down in a certain area. Fortune-telling is to use the principles of nature to deduce the trajectory of life. Fortune tellers and mystics, God knows, are deceiving or deceiving themselves.

Everything is arranged freely! ! !