We lived together for three years, and when his family had no money to get married soon, I realized that the loan on the house he cheated me had not been paid off.

If fortune-telling was so accurate, there would be no accidental death. It is normal to borrow money to buy a house, and it will only be paid back 1000 yuan in one month. No matter how hard it is, it's good to have a relationship. Don't let power and money affect your marriage. You are pretending to be him, not his family! You will hesitate to prove that you don't love him that much. If you really like him, you won't care about that.