The fortune teller said that I wanted to find a man older than me, and it would be better if I got married one year younger, but later.

Your feelings and marriage are all your own decisions. What kind of man do you need to choose? The other half of your marriage depends on you to get along and contact. The fortune teller is just a stranger. You don't have to trust the man you choose just because a fortune teller said a word casually. After all, you live your own life, and no one else helps you. It's up to you to choose who you want to live. Therefore, there is no way to calculate such things as marriage. Whether you live well depends on how well you get along with your partner. My advice to you is not to listen too much to such meaningless words as fate. Your marriage and destiny are in your own hands, and you can choose what kind of marriage you want.